Let me start but saying I am the furthest thing from innocent, and pretty confident in my abilities to pick up a girl whether I'm out at a bar or meeting from the dating apps, so I have quite a bit of success. This is just kind of a new situation for me so thought I could use the internets advice.

I matched with this bird on Hinge who was good looking, and kept it to a few messages, told her yesterday lets be spontaneous that night and grab a few drinks to which she was keen to do. Now I live in a major city with a nice condo downtown with a good view, so I'll always make them travel to a nice little dive bar next to my place and then suggest back to me for some wine.....probably a 90% close rate.

Anywho so we meet up and hit it off, talking usual ****. I have pretty good banter so was making her laugh, she was saying she was having such a good time, very positive/open body language. So I kissed her which she was all over. I suggest we we back to mine for a few more drinks, she said she was a 'good girl' who doesn't do that on the first date, i really didn't care about it and told her something along the lines of 'take your mind out of the gutter, your gonna have to work for this'....also just playful banter.

She suggests another bar and it was only 10pm and I love to booze so I was down. this bar was more lively and she was all over me there, still chatting/flirting etc. I pretty much told her at one point I wanted to bend her over on my couch and **** her so a lot of sexual tension, we were both tipsy/drunk. She started texting a lot around 12am, and must not have known because her phone was tilted towards me and saw on her text a guy a bunch of times but the one I managed to see was 'come over' and his reply being "with some friends but leaving bar soon".....I kind of just mentally checked out there, settled the tab and told her I was going. She said he had such a good time etc, I just kind of dipped abruptly, literally zero emotion shown.

I am usually the guy who is the one texting that to girls im ****ing after they have dates or when they are out, so I guess my ego took a little hit and I got humbled lol. My question is what should I do from here? I have no doubt she is gonna text me today saying she had such a good time, last night I told her im going out tonight with a bunch of friends and she said the same and could see eachother.

Do I just go no contact? Or call her out on it? I am not hung up on it and have a solid rotation but I am thinking we literally just met, we owe eachother nothing so no point calling her out and looking like a bitch. Or should I just try and **** her tonight when i am out & then go no contact? Even if I ever see her again she will always be placed in the "casual/fcuk" zone.


Any advice and insight welcome

You wrote all that essay just to say Chad banged your girl at the end of the night and you want his sloppy seconds

Lol at “I’m not hung up on it”, keep coping

And negged for no pics

see krackerjacks sig

Nc, or probable std. The choice is yours.

Really, you know who she is now and can decide ahead of time if you want to bother. If she's worth a smash, you know it will be easy. Detach any emotion from it and just realize that she's another girl and another will be along tomorrow, so head in whichever direction you like.

Guys overthink this stuff so much sometimes.

it all goes around man, i've banged plenty of broads who have gone on a date or kind of 'seeing someone'. just weird to be on the other end of it for once

Chad rly did BYTFO. Hold the L and onto the next.

Don't know why your ego is hurt, you don't know the b!tch, she doesn't know you. Take from the situation what you can and want, then move along. You met on a g-damn dating app, what'd you expect, mother f-ing Theresa?

NC and if she does make contact and you still want to smash then tell her to come over to your house directly, no bars or any bullchit

Y'all aren't dating so no reason to call her out on it. Time to put your baby batter in her guts or move on to the next gal. Leave that dating chit for the simps

Edit: wizard^

Last 2 posts was exactly the advice I needed. ty

She's playing the field. I'd still put my dink in her but just a pump n dump. She's obviously a whore. Certainly nothing I'd invest any time in or work for.

I, personally, would lose any urge to smash if I saw anything like that. So it depends whether you still want to smash or not.

You could go full autistic and call her out, but this will make you look and feel butthhurt/weak.

The only way for you to come out unscathed in sloot mindgames is to either go nc or to just be aloof with short/one word replies like 'cool' or 'ok'.

Either way, do whatever the fuk you feel like doing.

You have just been added you to her rotation. Now she has another free pass to meals, drinks, and cawk. Next time you talk to her, ask her if you can be included in the gang bang LMFAO...

OPs ego out of control.

1 hour into 1st date and he wants sloot to drop everything and everyone just for him lmao.

I definitely wouldn't be spending any money or the sloot. Would probably try for a smash at least

honestly it sounds like you dodged a bullet I mean lord knows with all that alcohol in her system working as a muscle relaxant she probably would have entered your abode and waddle darted directly to your restroom and after thirty minutes of waiting you would have gone and knocked politely only to have the door slowly swing open to reveal the window open having been used to facilitate her escape after leaving an absolutely colossal log jutting out of your toilet like a heinous fart scented chocolate totem pole then it would have been several hours of aggressive but ultimately unsuccessful plungering with your spin doctors live in burlington 1999 tshirt pulled up over your nose so if I were you I would find that gentleman who was texting her and reward him with a hearty handshake and very sincere thank you and perhaps a playful wink for good measure

Just move on brah. There are millions of girls just like her in the world. She's not special. Next.

Did you read? She was leaving him to go get smashed by another guy. How the fuk should OP be ok with that?

I would hard NC this chick unless she hits you up and is inviting you over the same as that dude.

She's clearly not relationship material, but she didn't exactly do you dirty either. She doesn't owe you any sort of loyalty.


Treat her like the slampig she is, and don't invest any emotion into it. Doesn't mean you can't still have fun with her

This is why I misc

Best to just go nc

You got got cucked

You said that she had a good time and enjoyed you, but you never said if you enjoyed her and had a good time?

With a 90% rate you could just move on but if she was cool to hang out with.........

It's always funny when someone says this. If it was true then you wouldn't be getting hung up on one particular girl

yeha idk its not the girl, its the situation

And then he made this thread just for us to comfort his ego. Wtf you expect us to say op, it's not like you're some nice innocent guy finally going out with the girl of your dreams who turns out to be disrespectful. By your own admission you were usually on the opposite end of this exchange, doing the same thing to women. You met this girl for the first time and already telling her you can't wait to bend her over and fuk her. Why in the fuk should we feel bad for you because this one time you got a taste of your own medicine and it hurt your feefees.

I hope she banged that Chad real good and rode him like a beast after you primed her up with all that alcohol she got from you for free.

I would NC. Unless she's a dime. But you're saying it's the situation not the girl that's messing with you. So NC

just **** her, she seems like a typical rotational chick. But if you were considering dating her, go NC.