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» Would you have done all this for a 29 y/o divorced woman?

View Poll Results: Would you go through all this for a 29 y/o divorced woman?

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post 1682202813 05-06-2023, 11:03 PM
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Would you have done all this for a 29 y/o divorced woman?

So Bethany Shadburne is a professional crossfitter and her athletic background includes: 8 years gymnastics, 3 year's bodybuilding, 4 triathlons, multiple half marathons, a handful of obstacle course races. Bethany previously was married to a guy named Doug Branham , who introduced her to crossfit in 2014. She got married to the guy for 4 years before they divorced in May 2018. During their marriage, she competed under the name Bethany Branham but switched back to her maiden name when they broke up.



[Bethany Shaburne with her ex-husband]



1 year later after her divorce, she began dating this guy, Randy Flores, who is a strength and conditioning coach for the Los Angeles Lakers. This mean he makes about 80-90k/year. The dude also is in good physical condition and from his insta, can be seen squatting a respectable 4 plates. Lastly, he's not a manlet and stands at a respectable height of 6'1".




In a boyfriend appreciation post, bethany Shabourne mentioned that due to their busy schedule and them often being far apart in different states, that this guy use to actively fly out as much as possible to meet up and spend time with her. No where in her post did she mention ever making the same level of effort. They got married in September 27 2022 in Dripping Springs, Texas.















Was it worth it? Keep in mind that the average rate of divorce for 2nd time marriages in the state is 60%.



post 1682202943 05-06-2023, 11:06 PM
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lmao doodlebitch finna doodlebitch
post 1682202963 05-06-2023, 11:06 PM
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Dudes barely entering the prime of his life and he decides to marry her lol. I mean, to each their own, im guessing thats gonna last less than 2 years
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post 1682203073 05-06-2023, 11:08 PM
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You're way too invested in this

No one can define the worth, at the end he got what he wanted
I wish them the best
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That awful sleeve tat alone brings her down 2 points. Imagine marrying that.
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post 1682203243 05-06-2023, 11:12 PM
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Wait, he only makes 90k as a strength coach for the Lakers? Does he have to live in a van down by the river? That's fukked up lol
post 1682203333 05-06-2023, 11:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O
Dudes barely entering the prime of his life and he decides to marry her lol. I mean, to each their own, im guessing thats gonna last less than 2 years
How is this different than any other marriage?
post 1682203663 05-06-2023, 11:19 PM
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lol, divorces are such an enormous red flag
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Came into thread with a no ready to go. Man I hate these fit girls who get these thick hands. It's like being jacked off by a dude
Can't discipline the Miscipline
post 1682204203 05-06-2023, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Miscipline
It's like being jacked off by a dude
Sus
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Originally Posted By volleys
Sus
Look at the hulk hands she's got. They're just slightly smaller than the guys
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Originally Posted By Miscipline
Came into thread with a no ready to go. Man I hate these fit girls who get these thick hands. It's like being jacked off by a dude
Getter done has entered the chat
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Originally Posted By Miscipline
Look at the hulk hands she's got. They're just slightly smaller than the guys
I know but...saying something is "like being jacked off by a dude" is circular logic
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He prob. chased her while they started dating.

This dynamic follows deep into the relationship. Flying out, making the effort etc. while she waits back to be adored and chased.
Defeat the defeatist.
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
Wait, he only makes 90k as a strength coach for the Lakers? Does he have to live in a van down by the river? That's fukked up lol
lmao at only making 90k in that role
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
Wait, he only makes 90k as a strength coach for the Lakers? Does he have to live in a van down by the river? That's fukked up lol
Minimum coach salary is 2 mil. Average strength coach salary is 58k. Brutal I guess fuk the strength coaches
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Bitch look like a tranny tbh
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i think over 50% chance she will be twice divorced within 5 years...perhaps already on marriage 3 within 5 years.

my ex was married 9 years and used to hang it over my head that she knew how to make a relationship work because she was married 9 years lol. Divorce is a huge red flag
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Originally Posted By Pterodactyl314
Minimum coach salary is 2 mil. Average strength coach salary is 58k. Brutal I guess fuk the strength coaches
That's insane. Im sure it's like 5k+ a month to rent in LA
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He loves her more than she loves him. Look at his social media he has her plastered all over it, his IG is all about her he posts her photos, talks about her beautiful she is, and then you click her Instagram and he is not to be found, she has like one post of them everything is about her.
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
Wait, he only makes 90k as a strength coach for the Lakers? Does he have to live in a van down by the river? That's fukked up lol
Nah.Makes way more. First of all, that is probably 8 months a year, and the players give him huge benefits.Cars,watches,etc
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LOL she used to post on here this is her before Crossfitand roids.

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Originally Posted By ChaliHo
LOL she used to post on here this is her before Crossfitand roids.

Disgusting body my god. Looks horrendous and her tats are repulsive
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bitch is on roids and has tatoos

does she have kids too?

gross
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
Wait, he only makes 90k as a strength coach for the Lakers? Does he have to live in a van down by the river? That's fukked up lol
It's a passion trap job. They can pay him scraps and work him to death because there are a million trainers who would take that job in a second just for the clout.

Like the average zoo keeper at the world's best zoos makes slightly above minimum wage. Or chefs that work 100 hour weeks at Michelin star restaurants and sleep in their cars.
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Originally Posted By ChaliHo
LOL she used to post on here this is her before Crossfitand roids.

She has the same body shape as big lenny.
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I already don't put any real effort into women the way it is. Why would I put effort into a divorced woman? A woman being divorced once is already screaming in your face that she's a quitter who didn't honor her words or commitments to a man who came before you, especially if she was the one who initiated it. Does that sound like quality wife material to you?
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Does she have a job?
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
bitch is on roids and has tatoos

does she have kids too?

gross
It 2001 where we refer to gear as roids?

Not even worried about this broad. Yea I would penetrate her anavar hardened glutes with my penis but cmon bruh

Roids? Srs
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