Need advice boyos


I met a girl through an online game she's 27.
We got talking and decided to meet in person
She has a lot of tattoos and even though she goes to the gym a lot she's slightly overweight.
She's shy and a bit awkward (probably why she decided to meet me off an online game because she's awkward and too shy nerdy etc to use dating apps irl)

We spent a weekend together and it was fun. (She lives far away)

Since then we have still been talking and she's really into me

The problem is I just don't see myself with her long term

But on the other hand I'm an incel and I feel better being with her than being lonely

I'm not sure what to do?

I feel bad for wasting her time as she made it clear she wants a long term relatingship and she's also 27 so time is short for her

You have to make a decision. Either commit to her or stop wasting her time. I suspect you already know that.

As an incel should I just commit to to her?

So did you smash or what?

You will feel worse about wasting months or years of her time than you will about the short amount of time she's already invested.

Personally I'd rather work on myself and level up than "settle" because I wasn't sure I could "do better" but hey you do you.

What is an incel? It’s all I see people talk about now. Just be happy you are with someone. Treat them right and enjoy it. If it works out it works out and if not you can go back to being you. I always felt inexperienced with women because as a minority it was hard for me to date but most guys were with numerous women compared to me but as I got older I realized that it was nothing but the more you are with a woman the more experienced you will be and realize that they really are nothing but objects. They really are sloots and will trade on their own children for what a man can obtain through power. Who cares though? Just have fun before she meets another dude playing call of duty one night after you prejaculate

What if she's also been TOUCHEDbymany?

give it a shot, theres no way you can tell how compatible you will be with someone in that very short amount of time.

you won't know how they truly are until 1-2 years into a real relationship.. people like to act like they have no flaws early in a relationship then all of a sudden the flaws will show and you will know if you can be with them long term.


and worse case scenario it gives you a footing to how a real relationship works (since you say you are an incel) and will provide experience.