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Thread: Girlfriend pretty much made up her mind breaking up with me. Hurts so badly (srs)

post 1684030033 06-05-2023, 09:44 AM
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OP, your girl is already riding another dick. It's his turn now. Accept it and move on. You'll be fine.
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post 1684030183 06-05-2023, 09:49 AM
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She's already slurped and gargled some other dude's bawls while you're browsing a gay Indian bodybuilding site brah

Go NC and move on.
post 1684030403 06-05-2023, 09:53 AM
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She’s on the bigger and better dik. She looked at the future and realized you weren’t a good bet.

Life goes on. You’ll be good in time.
post 1684030413 06-05-2023, 09:53 AM
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Holy chit OP sounds pathetic. Going to therapy and acting like a huge loser in general.
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Originally Posted By metroins⏩
The ****?

Did you just admit to raping your girlfriend?



Why is she paying you rent?

You've been together 3 years? You should be paying the rent.
Well if you want to word it like that
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post 1684030793 06-05-2023, 09:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
Holy chit OP sounds pathetic. Going to therapy and acting like a huge loser in general.
Therapy aint bad bro.

I went for a year via zoom. Had an attractive 30's woman listen to me, helped me work through some childhood stuff that I didn't talk about and a death in the family. After I worked through that stuff and felt OK about it, then I ran out of things to talk about and ended therapy.

It's pretty good if you have a clear goal, not so good if you want to complain. I only complained about my wife maybe once during the whole time.

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We still skipping the miscer who raped his girlfriend?
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Originally Posted By metroins⏩
Therapy aint bad bro.

I went for a year via zoom. Had an attractive 30's woman listen to me, helped me work through some childhood stuff that I didn't talk about and a death in the family. After I worked through that stuff and felt OK about it, then I ran out of things to talk about and ended therapy.

It's pretty good if you have a clear goal, not so good if you want to complain. I only complained about my wife maybe once during the whole time.

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We still skipping the miscer who raped his girlfriend?
Fukin pathetic lol

What kinda man runs to a woman for help?
post 1684033313 06-05-2023, 10:35 AM
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just pleaded again... she said no and that's not changing her mind. she's moving out. i HONESTLY 100% percent thing I would make a 180 degree. this is the wakeup call and slap in the face i needed.

i dont get why i can't just have one more chance to show that i won't **** up. the live we've built together so far, how interwined our friends and family are. she truly is done with me it seems.
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Originally Posted By metroins⏩
The ****?

Did you just admit to raping your girlfriend?



Why is she paying you rent?

You've been together 3 years? You should be paying the rent.
we had separate places. she moved in with me when her lease ended
post 1684033493 06-05-2023, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
just pleaded again... she said no and that's not changing her mind. she's moving out. i HONESTLY 100% percent thing I would make a 180 degree. this is the wakeup call and slap in the face i needed.

i dont get why i can't just have one more chance to show that i won't **** up. the live we've built together so far, how interwined our friends and family are. she truly is done with me it seems.
Are you 18 and going through your first breakup or something? It sure as hell sounds like it.
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
I begged her
lol no wonder she left you.

The guy who's been fukking her behind your back all this time doesn't give a fukk about her. Let that sink in boyo.
post 1684033943 06-05-2023, 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
just pleaded again... she said no and that's not changing her mind. she's moving out. i HONESTLY 100% percent thing I would make a 180 degree. this is the wakeup call and slap in the face i needed.

i dont get why i can't just have one more chance to show that i won't **** up. the live we've built together so far, how interwined our friends and family are. she truly is done with me it seems.
lmao
post 1684033963 06-05-2023, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
just pleaded again... she said no and that's not changing her mind. she's moving out. i HONESTLY 100% percent thing I would make a 180 degree. this is the wakeup call and slap in the face i needed.

i dont get why i can't just have one more chance to show that i won't **** up. the live we've built together so far, how interwined our friends and family are. she truly is done with me it seems.
she's been over you for months now. there is another guy in the picture. he's been with her for a while now.
post 1684034163 06-05-2023, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
Are you 18 and going through your first breakup or something? It sure as hell sounds like it.
probably 3rd or 4th. but this one was truly on me for being a piece of crap
post 1684034283 06-05-2023, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By thatsnarf⏩
she's been over you for months now. there is another guy in the picture. he's been with her for a while now.
literally not the case given all of the context. i was at her parents house not even a week ago. she paid me rent the night of. 12 hrs later, she tells me she's leaving
post 1684034643 06-05-2023, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
probably 3rd or 4th. but this one was truly on me for being a piece of crap
Sounds like she was a nagging bitch crying about little chit like leaving on the oven lights.
post 1684034933 06-05-2023, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Barteh⏩
Sounds like she was a nagging bitch crying about little chit like leaving on the oven lights.
that was part of the problem (her nagging and complaining). but she also brought a lot to the table. from the beginning she showered me with love, told me i was the best boyfriend ever. it was me, being on the fence about long term marriage, that withheld love from her. wasnt there emotionally for her. it was me who escalated fights and had an attitude. yeah, MY BUTTONS were pushed. i didnt behave like that out of no where. it was me who had the hissy fits when things didn't go my way instead of calming telling her what was wrong.

THIS SUCKS!!! it hurts so bad

i didnt like her personality 100/100 i agree with that. but no relationship is gonna be perfect and i ****ed up a great relationship and loving partner striving for perfection
post 1684036043 06-05-2023, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
literally not the case given all of the context. i was at her parents house not even a week ago. she paid me rent the night of. 12 hrs later, she tells me she's leaving
that's literally the case. no girl ups and leaves without a back up. lol at being at her parents house a week ago...so what?

she paid rent because she was responsible.
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Originally Posted By thatsnarf⏩
that's literally the case. no girl ups and leaves without a back up. lol at being at her parents house a week ago...so what?

she paid rent because she was responsible.
This. This chapter is closed.
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By thatsnarf⏩
that's literally the case. no girl ups and leaves without a back up. lol at being at her parents house a week ago...so what?

she paid rent because she was responsible.
She gave me rent and then immediately asked for it back. She needed that money as her deposit for her new spot

She wouldn’t have given me that 1500 if she made up her mind already. Obviously she was on the fence. Woke up and felt like she had enough
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If you were unhappy in the relationship, trust me that this is for the best. The things that bother you now will only amplify ten fold as the years roll on.

It sounds like you need to work on yourself and it is very hard to improve yourself significantly when you are in a relationship- Since you need to live and breathe self improvement. You are experiencing a panic/rush now that the relationship is over but the reality is your gut while in the relationship is closer to what you actually feel.

It's not fun but it will get better. Not sure how old you are but it gets exponentially easier with age, to the point you will almost be excited when its time to call it quits.
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Originally Posted By chaoserver⏩
If you were unhappy in the relationship, trust me that this is for the best. The things that bother you now will only amplify ten fold as the years roll on.

It sounds like you need to work on yourself and it is very hard to improve yourself significantly when you are in a relationship- Since you need to live and breathe self improvement. You are experiencing a panic/rush now that the relationship is over but the reality is your gut while in the relationship is closer to what you actually feel.

It's not fun but it will get better. Not sure how old you are but it gets exponentially easier with age, to the point you will almost be excited when its time to call it quits.
im close to your age.

i was unhappy in the relationship, but how much of it was my own self-doing and self-sabotaging?? i can't withhold love and then blame her for pulling back as well. the things she said were valid. instead of being an adult and taking the criticism like a man, i threw a hissy fit MAKING her feel bad.

i threw an opportunity with the one girl that was super loyal and committed, gave me chances after chances, changed herself, and i self-sabotaged the relationship. only now that she's leaving through the door, am i treasuring the time i had with her.

it cuts so deep
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put on the table...

- therapy 1x per week
- going to church with her every Sunday
- engagement in 12 months
- surrogacy for all children

still said no and she isn't changing her mind.

basically ****ed up my relationship due to too much porn, too much Andrew Tate, and too much MISC thinking I should be a slayer until im 40
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Hold old are you OP?

Sounds like you wanted whoremaxxxing and there is nothing idiotic about wanting to try out other chicks.

What most dudes don't realise is that they need to whoremaxxx as much as possible in life before jumping into serious engagement with a girl. Otherwise you are putting yourself in reletionstips which are doomed to fail, since you will always be wondering what is life as a whoreaxxer.
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You probably didn't beg hard enough OP.

How much where you paying her to be your GF? If you didn't adjust it for inflation then that's probably why she left
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Originally Posted By ProSaibot⏩
Hold old are you OP?

Sounds like you wanted whoremaxxxing and there is nothing idiotic about wanting to try out other chicks.

What most dudes don't realise is that they need to whoremaxxx as much as possible in life before jumping into serious engagement with a girl. Otherwise you are putting yourself in reletionstips which are doomed to fail, since you will always be wondering what is life as a whoreaxxer.
early 30s. we are both early 30s.

i did whoremax already. i already know that feeling. when i was whoremaxxxing 2 years ago, all i wanted was a girlfriend. a valentine's day date. someone to go with them for christmas and thanksgiving. having a girlfriend WAS ALL i wanted
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Originally Posted By isawthesign⏩
just pleaded again... she said no and that's not changing her mind. she's moving out. i HONESTLY 100% percent thing I would make a 180 degree. this is the wakeup call and slap in the face i needed.

i dont get why i can't just have one more chance to show that i won't **** up. the live we've built together so far, how interwined our friends and family are. she truly is done with me it seems.
You had a much better chance of her coming back if you never begged and immediately went no contact. Then there's a guaranteed chance she comes back.
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Tuesday text:
she texted me...

Was calling initially to say how much I appreciate that you have been spending more time with me. It's made me really happy heart_emoji. Let me know if you need anything medicine wise and sleep well heart_emoji

Wednesday:
argument over oven light

Thursday:
my scheduled therapy

Friday morning:
I get her portion of the rent (that she eventually asks back because she needs it for her deposit for her new place)

Friday afternoon:
hey, i think we should breakup and go our separate ways

...

I KNOW that i can be that person for her... if this is the depression and hurt I feel, youre gonna bet I'm gonna do everything I can every day to cherish her if she gives me a chance. i wont throw another hissy fit when im asked to do things. ill be more mature. GOSSHH my heart is aching. im not okay
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this is pathetic. stop posting
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Final nail is in the coffin (probably was in there for a while now)


I told her that I could be that person for her. >> Her reply "I don't want you to be that person. I don't want to be with you."

I told her I'd compromise on the number of children plus surrogacy. >> Her reply "I don't want any children at all."


She said my begging and desperation is starting to scare her... and that she doesn't even want to let me know where she's moving to. She's worried I might hurt her or do something crazy. Constant state of depression all day... the past few days.

Now I'm back to the chit-hole that is online dating... How the F do you even navigate online dating these days... every date you go on, you got another 100 guys matched her... wanting to be with her.
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