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post 1670363943 10-31-2022, 05:44 AM
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Anyone else lonely af?

Everything seems to just be about consuming and wageceling now but I don't meet anyone with any passions, hobbies or goals like I used to

Seems like 95% of people just gave up and fill the void with unhealthy habits and quick dopamine hits
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post 1670364023 10-31-2022, 05:47 AM
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Problem is your environment srs.

Probably your only social contacts are the sheep from your wageslave job, no sh*t they're all soulless and passionless, that's what a fulltime job does to a human.

Solution gtfo or atleast go out on weekends, hang out with younger people, etc.
post 1670364113 10-31-2022, 05:49 AM
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Bro making these threads over and over is probably contributing to your problems.

You gotta put in the effort to build a better life, just like with lifting weights.

Bro life has been a rollercoaster before and after I got on the misc and we talked about life.

But you are stuck in the same spot, you gotta make a change brother and try something new if you aren't satisfied.

Going on the misc is no substitute for a social life, gotta find a chick or something or even get a dog or a new job just try something.

You also have those Christian hermits living in caves just spend all their time with God and are not lonely there are so many choices.
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post 1670364203 10-31-2022, 05:51 AM
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How is it hard to meet people who share your hobbies if you actually had hobbies?
post 1670364243 10-31-2022, 05:53 AM
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Originally Posted By BeanGainClovis⏩
Bro making these threads over and over is probably contributing to your problems.

You gotta put in the effort to build a better life, just like with lifting weights.

Bro life has been a rollercoaster before and after I got on the misc and we talked about life.

But you are stuck in the same spot, you gotta make a change brother and try something new if you aren't satisfied.

Going on the misc is no substitute for a social life, gotta find a chick or something or even get a dog or a new job just try something.

You also have those Christian hermits living in caves just spend all their time with God and are not lonely there are so many choices.
Haven't been on here in a day. Went to socialize yesterday and the topics were yet again politics and food lol. Now I'm back at work and feeling hella lonely again because the only topics here are tv shows.
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post 1670364353 10-31-2022, 05:55 AM
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Nope cant relate. Just lol at you
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post 1670364363 10-31-2022, 05:56 AM
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Real friends aren't a myth, OP. But if your social circle can only discuss tv shows it says more about your specific situation than the entire world.
post 1670364403 10-31-2022, 05:56 AM
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Your problem is feeling that you're truly missing out whilst also believing 99% of people are NPCs. Which is it?
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post 1670364473 10-31-2022, 05:58 AM
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How can you be lonely when you have the misc?
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post 1670364483 10-31-2022, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Real friends aren't a myth, OP. But if your social circle can only discuss tv shows it says more about your specific situation than the entire world.
I don't have a social circle. This is every place I go like at work or family get togethers the gyms etc it's all anyone talks about
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post 1670364643 10-31-2022, 06:05 AM
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Gonna just start dropping this link in all these types of threads so you people can learn how to become well—rounded men.


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post 1670365163 10-31-2022, 06:20 AM
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LOL.EOD said he had a gf. Also said he played basketball with a lot of nba players
post 1670365333 10-31-2022, 06:24 AM
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Loneliness has followed me my whole life, everywhere. In bars, in cars, sidewalks, stores, everywhere. There's no escape. I'm God's lonely man
post 1670365353 10-31-2022, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I don't have a social circle.
That is a problem of your creation.

If anyone is 30+ and doesn't have a social circle and feels lonely, well....
post 1670365493 10-31-2022, 06:29 AM
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1. Get a pet. Maybe a cat or a dog.

2. Learn Mindfulness Meditation.

3. Find a hobby.

You create your own happiness.
post 1670365543 10-31-2022, 06:31 AM
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New and exciting thread is new snd exciting.



And to answer the question, no. Am always looking for more alone time, srs.


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post 1684082573 06-06-2023, 03:32 AM
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fuk though eod was back, turns out it's a necromancer ITT
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post 1684083133 06-06-2023, 04:16 AM
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Originally Posted By TokenV⏩
fuk though eod was back, turns out it's a necromancer ITT
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post 1684083203 06-06-2023, 04:22 AM
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Well I fill the void with music, currently on a huge Japanese city pop and jazz fusion run. picked up a bout 160 new cd's in the genre.

Music fills the void
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post 1684083353 06-06-2023, 04:33 AM
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The majority of people are low tier sheep so if you don't have a core group of quality people then the only solution is numbers gaming it and trying to expand your social circle more actively, since your social circle isn't going to expand on its own magically.

If you are a stick in the mud personality this will be tough, but if you are upbeat and pleasant to be around it will be very easy since its not like others aren't pleased to find like minded people.
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post 1684083403 06-06-2023, 04:35 AM
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Typical EOD mindset. What's wrong with consuming? Are you saying that before people talked about trivial materialistic things, they had some interesting takes about the state of the world? There have always been peasants who were ruled over by the royalty and the elite. Go back a few hundred years and the average person would have the same meaningless conversations about their personal lives while getting wasted at the tavern. Watch vlogs from the 80s and 90s, people talked about other stuff going on, but it wasn't really any better, lol.
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Originally Posted By Vorago⏩
Typical EOD mindset. What's wrong with consuming? Are you saying that before people talked about trivial materialistic things, they had some interesting takes about the state of the world? There have always been peasants who were ruled over by the royalty and the elite. Go back a few hundred years and the average person would have the same meaningless conversations about their personal lives while getting wasted at the tavern.
u realize he comitted suicide right? have some fukin respect asshat
post 1684083553 06-06-2023, 04:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ninetynine8⏩
u realize he comitted suicide right? have some fukin respect asshat
Who said anything about suicide? EOD hasn't posted in months and it could be for any number of reasons. Also, what kind of smooth-brained logic is that to "respect" someone's opinion only after they die? If anything it's disgusting to pretend to care about someone only after they are gone. For the record I lowkey like EOD, but my statement still stands.
post 1684193123 06-07-2023, 09:04 PM
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RIP eod
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I’m not lonely, but I’m on a strict cut during Summer and live in a place where I don’t really have a ton of friends anymore.

I’m prob like 10 pounds from goal weight, so close to finished. I’d say I’m more bored than lonely, but it still sucks.
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