I set my filter to a 30 mile radius, cause in San Diego, that's all you've really got. West is the Pacific, south is Mexico, north is Orange County (fukk driving to that for pucci) and east is well into the mountains.

Now the app just keeps showing me the same dozen-ish profiles over and over again. So I'm pretty sure that either the app has put me in a REALLY tight silo, or I've tapped out of all the women on there.

Got 14 matches out of it, 3 srs-ish convos leading towards dates, 1 actual date, fukked that up really bad.

My Hinge premium expires in like a week, and I think I'm going to let it lapse for 2 or 3 months. Give the sloot well time to recharge.

If I want to make progress towards not being a 27yo virgin this summer, with no dating apps and a very low dating quality social circle (Pajeetmaxxed male office + 70yo male golf boomers + coed kickball team, basically), what should I be doing?

Barmaxxing?
Lifting?

I wanted to train for a 5k for my sake, but it's not going to be an aesthetics thing.

just go up and say high

Your user handle is the best advice.

over for you

Brutal!

What went wrong on the date?

Barmaxx at a college bar near you. Definitely need to have a friend or be social enough to pull it off yourself. The other night we went to one and some girl was talking about wanting bukkakes srs. I joined a bowling league and met some of the sluttiest girls ever. The type that even flirt with awkward guys and need attention at all costs. Maybe you're joining the wrong sport.

Also I'm sure there are a few bars/clubs where you can meet very slutty women. If all else fails get into the rave scene.

delete your profile, wait a week or two and make a new one

srs

maybe lose some weight between now and then

Try men.



Y’all slippin

I still like the idea of getting into athletic shape (through some combo of liftinng/5k training), but what about finding male peers to hang with? It's not as direct as everything else, but hanging with golf boomers all the time can't be doing you good.

Also, just to be sure, have you tried removing these repeat profiles? Not hitting the X, but I think it's hit the three dots and then "do not show me this person again" or something?

" mods please ban "

That's what you wrote In my thread huh ?

Well ,

We are all sick of hearing about your fking hinge. You are a 5'6 dweeb virgin thinking you are gonna score big on a dating app .

How about get out of your fking basement and meet women

I laugh when betas like op rely solely on a dating app that he's clearly would have better luck else where

I've gotten with about 6-7 women in 2023 and most came from offline or atleast other regular apps like ig

Cliffs : were sick of hearing about your fking hinge failures on here try getting out of your basement for once

Barmaxxx, but NOT A SPORTS BAR. Go to a bar with pool tables and games n chit. Dives are usually full of old alcoholics, but they can get a younger crowd on Saturday nights. And don't waste your buzz. Use that drunk confidence, relax, and just focus on meeting people and have a good time.

If you want the lowest hanging fruit, middle aged/ recently divorced women around 40 are like shooting fish in a barrel. Prioritize what you want over anyone else. Ask open ended questions, embrace the anxiety, and have fun tonight bro srs.



And lift you fukking ****ort

Lol. I don't know about this, when the apps first came out at least, they gave awkward guys with zero game the ability to interact with women, provided they weren't hideous.

This. What is happening, misc? This should've been the first comment. Times, they are a' changing.

OP, unlike most incels, is actually taking steps to change his life and is willing to put himself out there. We should be encouraging self improvement, not holding a grudge like a scorned woman. Leave that female energy in the thread it started in.

lmao

came in to post this

Best advice in this thread.

I used to give OP legitimate advice. I was going through a tough time in life months ago and I made a thread about my ex he " called for mods to ban me "
Slap in the face.

And ironically I'm still giving OP legitimate advice.

Here's my theory op could never score anything decent on a dating app with his stats / history/ etc

Say you meet a women for a date off an app. You can't be naive and ignore the fact that they are also talking to alot other guys on there.

Say the average decent tolerable women goes on 6-7 dates( likely way more) unless OP comes out on top as her first pick.. it's over for him .

That's what he must understand. I understood this long ago and put in serious effort to improve my self...work out , finances , etc

I came up with alot more creative ways to get women than OP , and it's work so far. This week alone I had 2 dates .

And here is he whining like a little b*tch about how his algorithm went to chit

Cliffs : OP just doesn't have the horses to compete in that competitive of a market and he should get out his mom's basement or do what i did and seriously improve and come up with more creative ways to meet women .

Get the fuk over it

Lmao ight will do player

You right

Have a good weekend
And ironically op held a grudge and put me on ignore lol

try not being ugly, poor and short

srs question op how many did you swipe right on? I do recall you made a video before about swiping left on any woman who was even mildly retarded.

Not that I blame you for not liking mildly retarded women (most are) but you can't be picky on dating apps then make threads like these

Matches have pretty much died

TBH, I would have fukked the slightly retarded one for lols srs. Looked like she had some nice titties too.

Dang bro ur gonna get laid before Voigdaze. But srs why da **** not work out for aesthetics? You gotta do stuff for women not just yourself. I always liked being a skinny twink but I know girls don't so I'm bulking hard. Gained 10 lbs last month even though I hate it. We arne't trying to attract ourselves.

ANd don't worry about hinge. I run out too but the new pussy keeps coming in every day.Dang bro those girls are my kyprtonite. Especially when they're hot asian girls LOL. Miss that chit so much.

btw were any of your matches asian??

Just as context for this thread... bummed out because two of the "maybe" dates flaked out on me at about the same time last night, and then the match pool dried up about a week ago. So I went from "date this weekend!" to "over 4 you" really ****in fast. Kind of feels like Lucy pulling the football.No fukkin way about the bowling. I play once or twice a month as a solo (no leagues or chit), and it's all like boomers and guys running around with their gfs. Had no idea it is actually a sloot hot spot. I figured it would be about like golf.Make misc great again.I'll have to try that and hard-purge my list.Chit, I don't even know how to ballpark estimate my number of swipes.

I swipe left a lot, because most of those profiles are just an obvious no go.

IG in handle - you're not here to meet anyone, see ya.
Queer pansexual ENM - no.
Devil horns filter in pic - no.
Works as a recruiter - fuk you and the horse you rode in on.

I cut a lot of slack on looks to girls who look like they're functional and contributing member of society. But on the apps, I doubt that's even half the user base.Maybe 1 out of the 14? I didn't really talk with any Asians.

They don't fukkin care about me, man. I know as a white beta STEMlord making good money, I should be their target audience, but there's never been an Asian woman who's given me the time of day. The girls who've been receptive are like white Christian women with good jobs.

Go get a prostitute already.

Wait, so what all was bad in the end? You were late; so what? The girl didn't seem to mind, and you had a nice enough date where you got to practice a first date, and you guys seemed to have an easy exit (no spark). I don't see how this could have gone any better. You even have a funny story to share at future first dates.Lol, has anybody seen the Better Off Bowling ads on FB? They advertise as a dating app alternative, but they seem like the biggest psy-op ever. Why the fk did they go with bowling? They seem to be targeting zoomers, which... how many zoomers bowl? Bizarre.

Stick to your username and start with men.