Someone explain.

They want dominant guys. Higher up the dominance hierarchy than themselves, anyway.

What does dominance have to do with being nice

Can't you be both?

Stfu bich

Didn't Brady get cucked

Idk who hemsworth is

But why

In general women hate being chased or being shown emotion. They are chaotic and emotional creatures and don't want that in a man.

If the man has the looks, he can get away with being nice.

Being nice is pointless and if you are not naturally a nice person, the obvious transparent bs just comes off as condescending.

It gets you nothing.


There is never a reason to be disrespectful though, and being a respectful person can get you a far with a lot of people, most importantly yourself.

I understand you guys are gonna come at me with hypotheticals, and I will just answer them all with this…

You are weak and need to grow more.

Brutal

nice only works if you're a Chad. if you're ugly, you're only hope is to psychopathmaxx since that's exhilarating to women. see example:

By the cold dead look in her eyes, you can just tell they fuked

You can for sure. In fact, it's more meaningful when it's coming from a place of power.

Kindness from a beta isn't optional, he has no choice but to be weak. The alpha could dominate you but is making a choice not to.

Damn

unaware

Expanding on this thread... I think a problems a lot of bluepillers and incels have is mistaking what traits women find attractive for what traits women's fathers find attractive.

Up until this last generation or two, women were more or less sold off by their dads. And what do dads want to see in a young man? A steady income and an agreeable temperament to stay around and provide. High conscientiousness + high agreeableness is basically the "beast of burden" personality... willing to work hard and take an endless amount of chit. Dads like it for the same reason Mr. Noseberg likes it. That's the angle that "nice guys" are playing for.

Women though, aren't sexually attracted to a pliant workhorse. What gets them wet isn't subservience, it's dominance.

And dominance is subjective and contextual; it can take a lot of forms. If Bill Gates rolls into a biker bar, he's either getting ignored or getting the chit kicked out of him. But if Bill Gates rolls into the Davos NWO meeting, he's the big dawg and all eyes are on him.

IMO, that's why women's "types" vary so much. It's about what kind of hierarchies they're in or they respect. A Section 8 drug dealer can be the big swinging dick in his housing project and have ghetto chicks all over him, but he's getting left swiped by a med student.

While I'm at it, it's worth mentioning that showing dominance can take on some very anti-social forms too. If he was out of jail, that Idaho killer dude would never have a dry dik a day in his life. Cold-blooded murdering 4 people up close and personal is about as dominant as it gets. Like 0 men would try to fuk around with that dude afterwards, and women dig that.

Anyway, women want the guys on top of whatever pyramid they're in. And when push comes to shove, they will share a dude on that top rather than fuk the kindest dude in the world on the bottom. In the past, Western society basically had to coerce women into monogamously accepting bottom bitch dude, in order to give bottom dude a reason to keep workhorse'ing.

Nice guys are just playing an outdated game. Their unspoken assumption is that if they agree to play along by society's rules, someone's dad will provide them with a coerced wife just like their father and grandfather had. But that system has been dismantled now, and the game has basically reverted back to pre Judeo-Christian polygamy mode. Just with more birth control and far less babies.

Good

Girls have no idea what they want.

The best thing you could possibly do is completely disregard anything a female says. It could completely change in a month.

Yes you can. You can be kind and not be a pushover at the same time. Far superior to just being a dick. Or being fake nice with intentions of getting laid like most nice guy incel types.

Same fuking discussion about what women want every time. It's simple really what girls want.

Girls like nice guys, as long as they're attractive

Girls like quiet guys, as long as they're attractive

Girls like jerks, as long as they're attractive

Girls like dominant guys, as long as they're attractive

You see where I'm going with this? You can get away with a lot with girls as long as you're attractive

They like KINDNESS. Not guys that blindly agree with them and do "nice" things for a reward.

Good looking autistic guys prove this wrong though

Maybe so, but that takes a mental disorder to hinder an attractive man. If you're a normal good looking guy, women will want you

It's true, but those good looking autistic guys at least get a shot. And then the woman loses all interest.

Let's be serious. You could be easily charmed by a charasmatic bald middle eastern guy.