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Befriending incels was the worst mistake of my life.
07-19-2023, 11:04 PM
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Befriending incels was the worst mistake of my life.
It's all fun and games until you start dating and getting attention from women.
Had a cool older cousin that I knew since I was young. I grew up in a rough household so he would take care of me all the time. Anyways fast forward to junior/senior year in high school, I was ascending and started getting attention from girls. My cousin was already in college (4 years older than me) and he invited me to come be roommates at his college. I didn't really give af about school so I told him sure. During the summer after graduation, my crush who had moved away came to visit (her family lived in my town). Having graduated HS and gaining a IDGAF attitude, I started rizzing on my crush and we ended up having a summer fling. After she broke my heart, me being naive told my older cousin about everything. Turns out he too had a crush on the same girl. At first he was fake supportive. Fast forward college starts and we are roommates with another guy (also childhood friend). Both are incels, no explanation needed - fat, ugly, gamers, geeks, etc - and they start clowning me for my heartbreak. I didn't think much of it at first. It's just chit guy do to each other right? Well eventually chit started to turn passive aggressive. They had already been in college, 4 years and 2 years, and had no experience or attention with sloots. Me being a freshmen, started hanging out with new sloots my first semester. This pissed them off and the passive aggressiveness started to get worse. I was gymceling while they were gaming. I was meal prepping while they ate fast food. Everything I was doing just pissed them off. Ended up fighting my cousin and getting roughed up a bit - I was 5'10" 150lbs he was 5'7" 270lbs (brutal). Always bet on bloat srs. Even after making up, nothing changed in terms of me getting sloots and him being an incel. And the passive aggressiveness got toned down but eventually came back.
Also got tons of similar stories with coworkers spreading rumors and cockblocking.
- Lesson learned, there is no need to be an empath with incels. They will ALWAYS snake you.
Had a cool older cousin that I knew since I was young. I grew up in a rough household so he would take care of me all the time. Anyways fast forward to junior/senior year in high school, I was ascending and started getting attention from girls. My cousin was already in college (4 years older than me) and he invited me to come be roommates at his college. I didn't really give af about school so I told him sure. During the summer after graduation, my crush who had moved away came to visit (her family lived in my town). Having graduated HS and gaining a IDGAF attitude, I started rizzing on my crush and we ended up having a summer fling. After she broke my heart, me being naive told my older cousin about everything. Turns out he too had a crush on the same girl. At first he was fake supportive. Fast forward college starts and we are roommates with another guy (also childhood friend). Both are incels, no explanation needed - fat, ugly, gamers, geeks, etc - and they start clowning me for my heartbreak. I didn't think much of it at first. It's just chit guy do to each other right? Well eventually chit started to turn passive aggressive. They had already been in college, 4 years and 2 years, and had no experience or attention with sloots. Me being a freshmen, started hanging out with new sloots my first semester. This pissed them off and the passive aggressiveness started to get worse. I was gymceling while they were gaming. I was meal prepping while they ate fast food. Everything I was doing just pissed them off. Ended up fighting my cousin and getting roughed up a bit - I was 5'10" 150lbs he was 5'7" 270lbs (brutal). Always bet on bloat srs. Even after making up, nothing changed in terms of me getting sloots and him being an incel. And the passive aggressiveness got toned down but eventually came back.
Also got tons of similar stories with coworkers spreading rumors and cockblocking.
- Lesson learned, there is no need to be an empath with incels. They will ALWAYS snake you.
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losers hang with losers
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07-19-2023, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
Based srslosers hang with losers
Losers let it happen, winners make it happen.
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07-19-2023, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
It wasn’t my faultYou befriended voidgaze and got snaked?
My story is ur story you uneducated swine
My story is ur story you uneducated swine
Losers let it happen, winners make it happen.
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07-19-2023, 11:26 PM
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Did not read that but when I moved to Sydney I hung out with my cousin as I didn't know anyone else here
All of his friends were massive ****ot nerds who in hindsight I wish I never bothered hanging around with
Nerds just offer nothing socially
All of his friends were massive ****ot nerds who in hindsight I wish I never bothered hanging around with
Nerds just offer nothing socially
07-19-2023, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
Idk but I also didn’t read ur post srswasn't my fault either
what did u get on the ACT for reading comprehension?
what did u get on the ACT for reading comprehension?
Losers let it happen, winners make it happen.
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07-19-2023, 11:34 PM
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Originally Posted By andyray⏩
Hang out with them long enough and they start to bring you downDid not read that but when I moved to Sydney I hung out with my cousin as I didn't know anyone else here
All of his friends were massive ****ot nerds who in hindsight I wish I never bothered hanging around with
Nerds just offer nothing socially
All of his friends were massive ****ot nerds who in hindsight I wish I never bothered hanging around with
Nerds just offer nothing socially
Then you start getting attention from sloots and they bite
07-19-2023, 11:43 PM
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In my experience all friends are like that if you get too much attention from girls, even when they have a girl. At least the jealous/envious part. I didnt actually read that full wall of text, of course. This aint a diary blog, bro.
07-19-2023, 11:50 PM
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Originally Posted By akferd⏩
Yea most guys are losers so they will be like that at first. Above avg/normie guys will get over it quick tho. Incels on the other hand, they hold onto the hate for dear life. Esp if you were a loser at first and ascended.In my experience all friends are like that if you get too much attention from girls, even when they have a girl. At least the jealous/envious part. I didnt actually read that full wall of text, of course. This aint a diary blog, bro.
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cliffs of retarded post pls?
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
LMAO! IncelMAXXer was a ladies man in his past.It's all fun and games until you start dating and getting attention from women.
Had a cool older cousin that I knew since I was young. I grew up in a rough household so he would take care of me all the time. Anyways fast forward to junior/senior year in high school, I was ascending and started getting attention from girls. My cousin was already in college (4 years older than me) and he invited me to come be roommates at his college. I didn't really give af about school so I told him sure. During the summer after graduation, my crush who had moved away came to visit (her family lived in my town).Having graduated HS and gaining a IDGAF attitude, I started rizzing on my crush and we ended up having a summer fling. After she broke my heart, me being naive told my older cousin about everything. Turns out he too had a crush on the same girl. At first he was fake supportive. Fast forward college starts and we are roommates with another guy (also childhood friend). Both are incels, no explanation needed - fat, ugly, gamers, geeks, etc - and they start clowning me for my heartbreak. I didn't think much of it at first. It's just chit guy do to each other right? Well eventually chit started to turn passive aggressive. They had already been in college, 4 years and 2 years, and had no experience or attention with sloots. Me being a freshmen, started hanging out with new sloots my first semester. This pissed them off and the passive aggressiveness started to get worse. I was gymceling while they were gaming. I was meal prepping while they ate fast food. Everything I was doing just pissed them off. Ended up fighting my cousin and getting roughed up a bit -I was 5'10" 150lbshe was 5'7" 270lbs (brutal). Always bet on bloat srs. Even after making up, nothing changed in terms of me getting sloots and him being an incel. And the passive aggressiveness got toned down but eventually came back.
Also got tons of similar stories with coworkers spreading rumors and cockblocking.
- Lesson learned, there is no need to be an empath with incels. They will ALWAYSsnake you.
Had a cool older cousin that I knew since I was young. I grew up in a rough household so he would take care of me all the time. Anyways fast forward to junior/senior year in high school, I was ascending and started getting attention from girls. My cousin was already in college (4 years older than me) and he invited me to come be roommates at his college. I didn't really give af about school so I told him sure. During the summer after graduation, my crush who had moved away came to visit (her family lived in my town).Having graduated HS and gaining a IDGAF attitude, I started rizzing on my crush and we ended up having a summer fling. After she broke my heart, me being naive told my older cousin about everything. Turns out he too had a crush on the same girl. At first he was fake supportive. Fast forward college starts and we are roommates with another guy (also childhood friend). Both are incels, no explanation needed - fat, ugly, gamers, geeks, etc - and they start clowning me for my heartbreak. I didn't think much of it at first. It's just chit guy do to each other right? Well eventually chit started to turn passive aggressive. They had already been in college, 4 years and 2 years, and had no experience or attention with sloots. Me being a freshmen, started hanging out with new sloots my first semester. This pissed them off and the passive aggressiveness started to get worse. I was gymceling while they were gaming. I was meal prepping while they ate fast food. Everything I was doing just pissed them off. Ended up fighting my cousin and getting roughed up a bit -I was 5'10" 150lbshe was 5'7" 270lbs (brutal). Always bet on bloat srs. Even after making up, nothing changed in terms of me getting sloots and him being an incel. And the passive aggressiveness got toned down but eventually came back.
Also got tons of similar stories with coworkers spreading rumors and cockblocking.
- Lesson learned, there is no need to be an empath with incels. They will ALWAYSsnake you.
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07-20-2023, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted By GatorBoy92⏩
im not incelmaxxer or wincelLMAO! IncelMAXXer was a ladies man in his past.
Are you still Indian??
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Are you still Indian??
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theres more than 1 altmaxxer
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
did not ready any of that srsRead da story retard. These were my childhood friends not randos.
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Yeah most of them are incels because they are actually horrible people but have too much covert narcissism to see it and so are stuck in that rut blaming everyone else. Losers will always try drag you down to their level.
07-20-2023, 12:52 AM
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
brootalYeah most of them are incels because they are actually horrible people but have too much covert narcissism to see it and so are stuck in that rut blaming everyone else. Losers will always try drag you down to their level.
Most are nice and cool. Till sloots come into the picture
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If you’re successful in any aspect of life you’ll have haters and jealous *******s. That’s when you know you’ve made it
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
Sorry, you already gave yourself away.im not incelmaxxer or wincel
theres more than 1 altmaxxer
theres more than 1 altmaxxer
Your style of writing is the same, you use the same words, and you were stupid enough to mention your 5'10 height insecurity, like clockwork.
You really have personality issues IncelMAXXer. I'd suggest you take a look into that instead of ch!tting threads all over the MISC.
07-20-2023, 01:06 AM
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Originally Posted By GatorBoy92⏩
reSorry, you already gave yourself away.
Your style of writing is the same, you use the same words, and you were stupid enough to mention your 5'10 height insecurity, like clockwork.
You really have personality issues IncelMAXXer. I'd suggest you take a look into that instead of ch!tting threads all over the MISC.
Your style of writing is the same, you use the same words, and you were stupid enough to mention your 5'10 height insecurity, like clockwork.
You really have personality issues IncelMAXXer. I'd suggest you take a look into that instead of ch!tting threads all over the MISC.
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Originally Posted By ChinkWithDink⏩
This is the best post I have read on this board or any other regarding the subject.Yeah most of them are incels because they are actually horrible people but havetoo much covert narcissismto see it and so are stuck in that rut blaming everyone else. Losers will always try drag you down to their level.
Originally Posted By Healthline.com
I can realte to a lot of this. I am a recovering incel.How do I know if I am a covert narcissist?
People with covert narcissism “have to spend a lot of time making sure they don't feel bad feelings, that they don't feel imperfect or ashamed or limited or small,” he explains. People with covert narcissism also rely on others to build up their self-esteem.
NPD typically involves insecurity and an easily damaged sense of self-esteem. This can manifest in covert narcissism as extreme sensitivity to criticism.
Covert narcissism is more strongly linked to introversion than other types of narcissism.
This relates to narcissistic insecurity. People with covert NPD are deeply afraid of having their flaws or failures seen by others.
Exposing their innermost feelings of inferiority would shatter the illusion of their superiority. Avoiding social interactions helps lower the chances of exposure.
People with covert narcissism generally spend more time thinking about their abilities and achievements than talking about them. They might seem smug or have an “I’ll show you” attitude.
“They may withdraw into fantasy, into an inner narrative world that’s not equivalent to reality, where they have inflated importance, powers, or a specialness that is opposite of what their actual life is like,” Joseph says.
Fantasies could involve:
being recognized for their talents and promoted at work
being admired for their attractiveness everywhere they go
receiving praise for saving people from a disaster
Covert narcissism involves a higher risk of co-occurring depression and anxiety than other types of narcissism.
Someone with covert narcissism may hold grudges for a long time.
People with either grandiose narcissism or NPD often envy other people who have things they feel they deserve, including wealth, power, or status.
They also often believe others envy them because they’re special and superior.
When people with covert narcissism can’t measure up to the “superhuman” standards they set for themselves, they may feel inadequate in response to this failure
One research study found that people with covert narcissism may have had more authoritarian parents and may, more frequently, recall instances of childhood trauma and abuse than those who have grandiose narcissism.
People with covert narcissism “have to spend a lot of time making sure they don't feel bad feelings, that they don't feel imperfect or ashamed or limited or small,” he explains. People with covert narcissism also rely on others to build up their self-esteem.
NPD typically involves insecurity and an easily damaged sense of self-esteem. This can manifest in covert narcissism as extreme sensitivity to criticism.
Covert narcissism is more strongly linked to introversion than other types of narcissism.
This relates to narcissistic insecurity. People with covert NPD are deeply afraid of having their flaws or failures seen by others.
Exposing their innermost feelings of inferiority would shatter the illusion of their superiority. Avoiding social interactions helps lower the chances of exposure.
People with covert narcissism generally spend more time thinking about their abilities and achievements than talking about them. They might seem smug or have an “I’ll show you” attitude.
“They may withdraw into fantasy, into an inner narrative world that’s not equivalent to reality, where they have inflated importance, powers, or a specialness that is opposite of what their actual life is like,” Joseph says.
Fantasies could involve:
being recognized for their talents and promoted at work
being admired for their attractiveness everywhere they go
receiving praise for saving people from a disaster
Covert narcissism involves a higher risk of co-occurring depression and anxiety than other types of narcissism.
Someone with covert narcissism may hold grudges for a long time.
People with either grandiose narcissism or NPD often envy other people who have things they feel they deserve, including wealth, power, or status.
They also often believe others envy them because they’re special and superior.
When people with covert narcissism can’t measure up to the “superhuman” standards they set for themselves, they may feel inadequate in response to this failure
One research study found that people with covert narcissism may have had more authoritarian parents and may, more frequently, recall instances of childhood trauma and abuse than those who have grandiose narcissism.
Had no idea what to do about my depression and lack of social skills (I was also home schooled all of my childhood and then thrown out of the house one day with no advanced notice).
My parents were also NPD.
So maybe inceldom comes from parents with NPD? Being an incel is terrible since you have no resouce for how to fix it if you wanted to.
Starting to sound pretty clear to me that incels are infact NPD and inceldom is a symptom of that.
https://www.healthline.com/health/covert-narcissist
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
100%Hang out with them long enough and they start to bring you down
Then you start getting attention from sloots and they bite
Then you start getting attention from sloots and they bite
These were non lifting flabby betas as well so some got very jelly when I put some muscle on
Anytime I pulled a hot sloot
Comments were always along the lines of "she must be full of stds" etc
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Originally Posted By Freeman3737⏩
To use an Adlerian concept, incels have underdeveloped “social interest”:This is the best post I have read on this board or any other regarding the subject.
I can realte to a lot of this. I am a recovering incel.
Had no idea what to do about my depression and lack of social skills (I was also home schooled all of my childhood and then thrown out of the house one day with no advanced notice).
My parents were also NPD.
So maybe inceldom comes from parents with NPD? Being an incel is terrible since you have no resouce for how to fix it if you wanted to.
Starting to sound pretty clear to me that incels are infact NPD and inceldom is a symptom of that.
https://www.healthline.com/health/covert-narcissist
I can realte to a lot of this. I am a recovering incel.
Had no idea what to do about my depression and lack of social skills (I was also home schooled all of my childhood and then thrown out of the house one day with no advanced notice).
My parents were also NPD.
So maybe inceldom comes from parents with NPD? Being an incel is terrible since you have no resouce for how to fix it if you wanted to.
Starting to sound pretty clear to me that incels are infact NPD and inceldom is a symptom of that.
https://www.healthline.com/health/covert-narcissist
Originally Posted By Alfred
All failures - problem children, criminals, suicides, neurotics, psychotics, alcoholics, sexual perverts, etc. - are products of inadequate preparation in social interest. They are all non-cooperative, solitary beings who run more or less counter to the rest of the world; beings who are more or less asocial if not antisocial.
What does this signify? The very far reaching implication is that only the individual who is prepared for social cooperation can solve the social problems which life imposes. By this we mean that there should exist a certain degree of contact feeling - of striving for cooperation - in the law of movement of the individual. Where it is lacking we meet with failures. I have already shown that this inclination for cooperation and social achievement has not been properly developed in children who feel insecure. These insecure ones build a life style which shows a lack of social interest, because an insecure individual is always more concerned with himself than with others. He cannot get away from himself.
What does this signify? The very far reaching implication is that only the individual who is prepared for social cooperation can solve the social problems which life imposes. By this we mean that there should exist a certain degree of contact feeling - of striving for cooperation - in the law of movement of the individual. Where it is lacking we meet with failures. I have already shown that this inclination for cooperation and social achievement has not been properly developed in children who feel insecure. These insecure ones build a life style which shows a lack of social interest, because an insecure individual is always more concerned with himself than with others. He cannot get away from himself.
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Originally Posted By RepMeBro⏩
What kind of grades did you get on writing based English assignments back in high school?wasn't my fault either
what did u get on the ACT for reading comprehension?
what did u get on the ACT for reading comprehension?
07-20-2023, 03:10 AM
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Originally Posted By ALinkToThePast⏩
Grammar and english were my highest srsWhat kind of grades did you get on writing based English assignments back in high school?
A's all around besides when writing book reports. Never read any of those dumb books that english class made us read.
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