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08-02-2023, 05:40 PM
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Redditor finds out his fiance posts on femcel subreddit
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Last night I read what my fiance had to say about me and I don't know how our relationship can continue
I thought things were going really well. Not only do we seem to get along great, but our families do as well. In hindsight I think there were some signs but i'm only able to piece them together now.
I started my career in IT then transitioned to machine learning early on so i've generally been pretty financially well off. When we started dating I remember early on how she kept pushing for details about my career. At the time I worked for a small firm, and always reluctant to give away information regarding my position and place of employment, but she was insistent. Since then she has absolutely remained firm that when we go out, I have to foot the entire bill regardless of circumstance. I didn't mind and mostly just assumed she grew up in a traditional household and even though i'm not that traditional in my mindset, I was willing to respect key parts of her up bringing.
Last night I wanted to read an article from a site that doesn't have appropriate formatting for a phone. I was heading for my laptop but I noticed hers open a few feet from me so I decided to use it out of convenience. When I opened chrome, the first page to load was r/FemaleDatingStrategy and she had several tabs open from their separate web forum. Turns out she's pretty active on there and gives out advice. In numerous posts and comments she describes to other posters how she keeps "her scrote" (apparently me) in check and how establishing dominance early is key. There were posts about how important it is to keep the appearance of having options to keep the "scrote" chasing.
I'm completely shell shocked. I have always treated her with respect and would never think to talk about her in a demeaning way, but to see her talk about me that way was shocking. It's like she's gamified our entire relationship and has zero respect for me. When I told her I saw her on that page, she lied and told me she was just scrolling and didn't care for it. When I told her I saw what she had been posting, she went silent then started crying. We didn't talk after that and I slept on the couch, but I honestly don't see how this relationship can continue.
Just lol if realI thought things were going really well. Not only do we seem to get along great, but our families do as well. In hindsight I think there were some signs but i'm only able to piece them together now.
I started my career in IT then transitioned to machine learning early on so i've generally been pretty financially well off. When we started dating I remember early on how she kept pushing for details about my career. At the time I worked for a small firm, and always reluctant to give away information regarding my position and place of employment, but she was insistent. Since then she has absolutely remained firm that when we go out, I have to foot the entire bill regardless of circumstance. I didn't mind and mostly just assumed she grew up in a traditional household and even though i'm not that traditional in my mindset, I was willing to respect key parts of her up bringing.
Last night I wanted to read an article from a site that doesn't have appropriate formatting for a phone. I was heading for my laptop but I noticed hers open a few feet from me so I decided to use it out of convenience. When I opened chrome, the first page to load was r/FemaleDatingStrategy and she had several tabs open from their separate web forum. Turns out she's pretty active on there and gives out advice. In numerous posts and comments she describes to other posters how she keeps "her scrote" (apparently me) in check and how establishing dominance early is key. There were posts about how important it is to keep the appearance of having options to keep the "scrote" chasing.
I'm completely shell shocked. I have always treated her with respect and would never think to talk about her in a demeaning way, but to see her talk about me that way was shocking. It's like she's gamified our entire relationship and has zero respect for me. When I told her I saw her on that page, she lied and told me she was just scrolling and didn't care for it. When I told her I saw what she had been posting, she went silent then started crying. We didn't talk after that and I slept on the couch, but I honestly don't see how this relationship can continue.
08-02-2023, 05:42 PM
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08-02-2023, 05:46 PM
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Well, she proved everything she thought is true. Dude discovered her nonsense and slept on the couch instead of kicking her ass out. $20 says he "comes to his senses" and tries to make their "relationship" work because she "made mistakes".
Best thread: http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=168274783
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08-02-2023, 05:46 PM
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Lol, faaaaaaaaaake.
But I did have a girl try to pull that chit on me one time. She thought she had me hooked, and as soon as she started demanding things I sent her to North Carolina
But I did have a girl try to pull that chit on me one time. She thought she had me hooked, and as soon as she started demanding things I sent her to North Carolina
08-02-2023, 05:46 PM
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lol.
I would leave immediately.
I would leave immediately.
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08-02-2023, 05:47 PM
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> started crying
the strategy 100% of females try to employ whenever theyre caught red-handed.
the strategy 100% of females try to employ whenever theyre caught red-handed.
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08-02-2023, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
Yeah, and a redditors first thought would be an “am I the as$hole” thread. He deserves her.> started crying
the strategy 100% of females try to employ whenever theyre caught red-handed.
the strategy 100% of females try to employ whenever theyre caught red-handed.
08-02-2023, 05:52 PM
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Brutal... Social media made the Hoe's Come out Big Time
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Honestly reading that reminded me of some of the last few women I talked to. They started off nice and slowly tried to become dominate in some way and I just stopped talking to them for those very reasons. I wonder if a lot of women are on those boards trying to learn how to control men. They're so retarded, 99% of men just wants a feminine woman and being that would solve so many issues. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
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has to be fake
08-02-2023, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Yea had an ex who I was thinking of marrying and as those talks continued she suddenly laid out a plan of how everything was going to go because now she thought things were in place. Literally laid out a plan of how she'd work night shift still as a nurse, go to school to be a nurse practitioner, then when she's done we can talk about kids.Lol, faaaaaaaaaake.
But I did have a girl try to pull that chit on me one time. She thought she had me hooked, and as soon as she started demanding things I sent her to North Carolina
But I did have a girl try to pull that chit on me one time. She thought she had me hooked, and as soon as she started demanding things I sent her to North Carolina
Said nope not a chance and we broke up about 2-3 months later. Lmao sloots man.
Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
This too. I read that part and thought how the fuk did that happen and he didn't immediately tell her to leave the house.The guy slept on the couch?
100% chance he's going to apologize.
The fuk happened to "men".
100% chance he's going to apologize.
The fuk happened to "men".

Holy fuk men are doomed.
08-02-2023, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Vrykul⏩
Well playedWhen I told her I saw what she had been posting, she went silent then started crying.
Female self defence 101
Crying instantly makes them look vulnerable and elicits sympathy. From then on anything he said he would be the aggressor
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08-02-2023, 06:22 PM
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Probably fake cuz it’s Reddit but I don’t know how men (or women) put up with their significant other demanding something out of them.
I pretty much always pay on a date when I take a girl out, but almost every girl I’ve taken out as offered to split.
On top of that, every girlfriend I’ve ever had has always thanked me for every meal I’ve paid for and has also taken me out to nice dinners that they pay for too. They’ve all bought me nice, expensive gifts for my birthday.
I don’t know how people find themselves in these situations where they’re like: “my girlfriend told me that it’s best that I work, pay for everything, don’t spend any time with my friends and only cater to her needs at my expense. I figured that just how she was raised, so I said ok.”
Like what the fuk are you taking about? How do you just go along with giving 100% and getting 0 in return like it’s normal?
I pretty much always pay on a date when I take a girl out, but almost every girl I’ve taken out as offered to split.
On top of that, every girlfriend I’ve ever had has always thanked me for every meal I’ve paid for and has also taken me out to nice dinners that they pay for too. They’ve all bought me nice, expensive gifts for my birthday.
I don’t know how people find themselves in these situations where they’re like: “my girlfriend told me that it’s best that I work, pay for everything, don’t spend any time with my friends and only cater to her needs at my expense. I figured that just how she was raised, so I said ok.”
Like what the fuk are you taking about? How do you just go along with giving 100% and getting 0 in return like it’s normal?
08-02-2023, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Higher education for women is a waste of moneyYea had an ex who I was thinking of marrying and as those talks continued she suddenly laid out a plan of how everything was going to go because now she thought things were in place. Literally laid out a plan of how she'd work night shift still as a nurse, go to school to be a nurse practitioner, then when she's done we can talk about kids.
Said nope not a chance and we broke up about 2-3 months later. Lmao sloots man.
This too. I read that part and thought how the fuk did that happen and he didn't immediately tell her to leave the house.
Holy fuk men are doomed.
Said nope not a chance and we broke up about 2-3 months later. Lmao sloots man.
This too. I read that part and thought how the fuk did that happen and he didn't immediately tell her to leave the house.
Holy fuk men are doomed.
The amount of women I’ve seen who have had tens of thousand in higher education for them to drop out the second they have a child is astonishing
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08-02-2023, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
If I'm giving 100% to a women, she better cook, clean and suck my cock on command. (Super Ded fkn Srs)Probably fake cuz it’s Reddit but I don’t know how men (or women) put up with their significant other demanding something out of them.
I pretty much always pay on a date when I take a girl out, but almost every girl I’ve taken out as offered to split.
On top of that, every girlfriend I’ve ever had has always thanked me for every meal I’ve paid for and has also taken me out to nice dinners that they pay for too. They’ve all bought me nice, expensive gifts for my birthday.
I don’t know how people find themselves in these situations where they’re like: “my girlfriend told me that it’s best that I work, pay for everything, don’t spend any time with my friends and only cater to her needs at my expense. I figured that just how she was raised, so I said ok.”
Like what the fuk are you taking about? How do you just go along with giving 100% and getting 0 in return like it’s normal?
I pretty much always pay on a date when I take a girl out, but almost every girl I’ve taken out as offered to split.
On top of that, every girlfriend I’ve ever had has always thanked me for every meal I’ve paid for and has also taken me out to nice dinners that they pay for too. They’ve all bought me nice, expensive gifts for my birthday.
I don’t know how people find themselves in these situations where they’re like: “my girlfriend told me that it’s best that I work, pay for everything, don’t spend any time with my friends and only cater to her needs at my expense. I figured that just how she was raised, so I said ok.”
Like what the fuk are you taking about? How do you just go along with giving 100% and getting 0 in return like it’s normal?
08-02-2023, 06:25 PM
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I wanna see what a chick who posts on there looks like.
08-02-2023, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
He'd post am i the ******* for using her laptopYeah, and a redditors first thought would be an “am I the as$hole” thread. He deserves her.
08-02-2023, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted By moosik85⏩
Yup. All that debt just to eventually be a stay at home mother. No chance I'd allow that.Higher education for women is a waste of money
The amount of women I’ve seen who have had tens of thousand in higher education for them to drop out the second they have a child is astonishing
The amount of women I’ve seen who have had tens of thousand in higher education for them to drop out the second they have a child is astonishing
Sad part is she duped the next guy into the same plan. Got married quick to him and just this year I heard through the grapevine they got divorced. Now she's 31 and childless and probably a ton of debt still (she had 45k from undergrad alone). Great girl overall though besides that, but she was too far gone into the female academia miss independent route.
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
Brother, if you have to command her to suck your dink. She ain’t it. She has to want to, that’s the point I’m makingIf I'm giving 100% to a women, she better cook, clean and suck my cock on command. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
08-02-2023, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
My wife wanted to become a stay at hone mom. I told her the same thing (and that her pussy had to be shaved clean 100% of the time). She chose to work.If I'm giving 100% to a women, she better cook, clean and suck my cock on command. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
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Just seems like an aweir thread.
08-02-2023, 07:02 PM
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Fake and gay
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Thats hilarious, the opposite thing happened to me.
Was dating this crazy hairdresser tattoo sloot during military days and she found my misc posts. She called me crying when I was in the middle of Yuma, AZ.
Could barely contain my laughter as she cried, "I dont even know who you are..."etc, etc,etc... wiped her tears and said, "Well, some of the stuff you did say I agreed with," then I eventually broke it off as she was too insane,
Was dating this crazy hairdresser tattoo sloot during military days and she found my misc posts. She called me crying when I was in the middle of Yuma, AZ.
Could barely contain my laughter as she cried, "I dont even know who you are..."etc, etc,etc... wiped her tears and said, "Well, some of the stuff you did say I agreed with," then I eventually broke it off as she was too insane,
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this is why the only way to get a bish to respect you is to backhand her to establish dominance.
Then fuk her in the butt to further establish dominance.
Then fuk her in the butt to further establish dominance.
08-02-2023, 07:35 PM
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Well, I think i would prob end it
But honestly.. how much different is it to most women? That's the thing that gets me
Are they after the sweet boy who gets no girls or the slayer every girl wants?
6'0 or 6'1, blonde hair or brown hair, built or not built, does he make money or not
Literally all fuken women do that chit. Soooooo.. what's different? The illusion?
It's very fuken rare for there not to be those conditions. And even so... are they permanent? If you're a millionaire and lost all your money would she be there? Etc. Etc
How come the story is never the broke dude with nothing going for him?
But honestly.. how much different is it to most women? That's the thing that gets me
Are they after the sweet boy who gets no girls or the slayer every girl wants?
6'0 or 6'1, blonde hair or brown hair, built or not built, does he make money or not
Literally all fuken women do that chit. Soooooo.. what's different? The illusion?
It's very fuken rare for there not to be those conditions. And even so... are they permanent? If you're a millionaire and lost all your money would she be there? Etc. Etc
How come the story is never the broke dude with nothing going for him?
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Might be fake; it could be some incel trying to drum up vitriol for the femaledatingstrategy subreddit. I wouldn't doubt if it was real, though. The fact it's reddit makes me question it.
Also big laugh at
-She documents online how she punks him
-He calls her on it
-She cries
-He sleeps on the couch
Sounds like the strategy is working
Also big laugh at
-She documents online how she punks him
-He calls her on it
-She cries
-He sleeps on the couch
Sounds like the strategy is working
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