[QUOTE=ArCaNe66 post_id=1687763663]Got my haircut. Not pleased with it because too much length was taken from the top. I believe the sides should be a little shorter as well. Also, I'm noticing how the bulk has increased my body fat percentage. I can't wait to eventually cut so I can get a lean face again.

[/img]https://i.imgur.com/MQZiXoO.png[/img][/QUOTE]Not bad, son. Respectable, formal. The top length is fine, but yeah, the sides could be a bit shorter. Would be good if you wore a suit and went to something formal, but day-to-day, it's ok.

In a month, go back, and get a trim, and shorten the sides.

Ever consider contact lenses?

This is you not reading the rest of the thread:

Unfortunately, no smooches. I plan on approaching more often at the gym. I'm keeping count.

I'm 2 for 5 when it comes to getting numbers at the gym.

Here's a breakdown of the women I've approached so far at the gym:
1. Told me she's seeing someone.
2. Gave me her number then I messed things up by being too desperate, although she may not have been interested to begin with.
3. Gave me her number - she's a single mom. Haven't heard too much from her, but it ain't over yet.
4. Has a boyfriend and he was working out in a different area of the gym (lol).
5. Said she doesn't give out her number (she has a boyfriend).Cott dammit, dad. You always know how to boost my morale. I'll have my aunt cut it next time since she's a retired pro and understands what I'm going for. She'll touch it up in a month. I really want that length on top!
I would love to get into a nice, fitted suit. I should get into one after I cut. I'll have to wait a while.

Contact lenses aren't for me. I look better with glasses and I prefer the maintenance of glasses versus contacts or LASIK.

i forget, did you ever try being a barfly

nothing is more effective srs

pay me and I will teach you rizz

No, I have not. I've heard it's possible to do this alone, but I haven't tried hanging out at a bar by myself. I'm guessing I'll have to try it, as picking up women at the gym is good (because it's less awkward than, for example, a mall or restaurant), but I should widen my net.Lol, perhaps if it were in person and you could be my wingman. I'm not too keen on the idea of paying for PUA-style material. To me, everything's about that in-person connection. It's easier to explain the material and it's where it must be performed. Also, it helps to be seen with others. Makes it seem like I have friends and is less awkward than being alone. I genuinely appreciate the offer though.

Your hair is a major asset. You should go to a professional stylist and see what they can do (ye shorter on sides, longer on top) next time.

PUA is for autistic people

I never had to read books or other gay chit to interact with women

But I can help you

Thank you. My aunt will help me from now on. Not taking any chances. I was recommended to go to a specific stylist (he's the person I saw earlier today), but I'm quite displeased with the result.

In the meantime, I have to work harder to get it to appear larger (we're still talking about my hair). What do you think about this style? I can get it to stick with some gel. I used water and a comb for this shot. Also, I know I'm only ~172 lbs, but my face isn't nearly as lean as it was when I was mid-140's. Do you think I should start cutting now or continue bulking? I'm self conscious now that my face is fatter.I suppose it's smarter to play the long game and continue bulking so I can gain more muscle before I cut.

IRL? What do you mean? I am kind of against paying regarding this topic.

Like a normal person, I did not read PUA I just had naturally good social skills lol

Very nice. I can do a Zoom, if you'd like. I don't think I can pay though. I'm into learningmost thingsfor free.

Just got back from the gym. I hit 155 lbs for 3 reps on push press (i.e., single knee bend then press overhead with elbows locked out). I'm pretty pleased with that.

There was a cute, thick woman I had never seen before working out by herself. I noticed her and was going to approach her once she was done with the machine she was on. I already had a topic of discussion, as I noticed her somewhat unique shoes. Unfortunately, someone who works at the gym approached me and we got to talking for a few minutes. I don't mind this, as I could use the social interaction, but I had other things on my mind. The woman ended up leaving the gym during this time.

I feel like I've been letting myself and you all down this week. I haven't approached a single woman this week. Damnit. If I'm not doing anything tomorrow evening with family, I think I should try going out. Really rough to do it by myself, but I know sitting at home isn't allowing me to meet any women.

Where do you live brah

I think I might rock this hair style if I were to go out (NOT including the gym). I just need to shower then gel it into this form.

San Antonio, but I'm willing to go to San Marcos or Austin. This Monday, I'll be in Austin for a day trip at a hotel. It will be with associates from the company I work at. I will try to take in some of the scenery and pick out some spots for future hangouts.

Dang... land of the HTCs... as far as the eye can see.

Focus on:
1. Hair
2. Lose the glasses
3. Becoming less nerdy (the most difficult but important)

HNNNNGH she's hot

They come in all shapes and sizes.1. Absolutely, I think I found my go-to hairstyle for now (above in post #254)
2. Idk, I have a big nose. I think the glasses suit me fairly well. They're stylish. Contacts or LASIK is a bit lame to me. I may consider contacts if I am still not getting any dates within the next month or so.
3. I believe I can come across less nerdy with more social interactions. I think my voice is a little nerdy, but I can't do anything about that.Yeah, she's pretty. Here's another.

Fuark, nowhere close to me. Potentially Voidgaze iirc tho.

Darn. I have 23 days of PTO, and I intend to use some within the next few months. I may travel around for fun - not sure yet. Maybe get yucky with the boys on a MISC tour (no homo).

Lol, misc tour would be wilin

me on the dance floor surrounded by miscers



There were zero females to approach today at the gym. Sigh. I suppose Saturday afternoons aren't a great time to find women at the gym. I did get to meet a couple guys by working in with them on back squats and sumo deadlifts. Had a nice talk with the guy I met while doing back squats. Was a solid workout. Making some progress and it feels good. My diet is becoming stricter.

Aside from a couple seconds this past Monday, I haven’t seen the woman from post #188 (https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1687464233). I appreciate the suggestions from Luc1fer and Tuksonrider, but I'm reevaluating if it's worthwhile to keep waiting for the perfect moment to bump into her at the gym. Perhaps I should be assertive and text her something like, “Would you like to have drinks with me at [bar name] next Friday at 7:30?”

Edit 1: I'm unsure if this comes across as desperate. I believe it depends on whether she finds me attractive. However, it seems weirdnotto ask her out by text.

Edit 2: I realize getting a number doesn't mean anything. There will be fourthings: 1. Approaches 2. Numbers 3. Dates 4. Lays. I hesitate sayingLaysbecause I want a girlfriend, not a ONS. However, it's the real world so I don't want to beat around the bush. I needed a reality check because I was getting my hopes up each time I got a number. I'll keep tracking my results, as I first shared in post #243:https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1687766103

Edit 3: Tinder's been poor for me. I remade it a few weeks ago, got 14 likes (0 matches) within a couple days then nothing since. Assuming I don't have a girlfriend, I will remake it once I finish my cut (I have to finish bulking before I start my cut). Being really lean should help tremendously.

Edit 4: I'm considering cutting until I have visible abs without flexing. Maybe then I could be in a small surplus to gain muscle again, but limit fat gain. Seems better than being in thehealthybody fat range, which is what I'm in now. I'm missing my leaner physique, which improves my jawline and face.

Edit 5: Going with the cut and we'll see how it goes. I am looking forward to seeing the results. Will do a slow, methodical bulk once I reach the end of my cut.

Edit 6: First day of my cut is in the books.

Big update, boyos. Day trip to Austin went well. Got to meet and hear from some interesting people.

I saw the woman from post #188 (https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1687464233) at the gym as she was leaving (I had to wait and make it seem natural that I bumped into her). We had some small talk then I asked her if she's got any plans for this weekend. She said she doesn't and I asked her if she'd be interested in getting drinks. The conversation allowed me to pick a better place than originally planned, as I didn't know she was comfortable going to this morehappeningarea. She said she just needs to know ahead of time so she can get a babysitter. I told her I'd text her the details. After getting home and showering, I looked up a spot I've wanted to take someone to (I made a reservation) and texted her, "It was great seeing you, [her name]. Does this Friday at 7:15 PM at [restaurant name] sound good? [link to restaurant's website]" I kept the message short and not too formal, as we had already talked about the general location and day. I really hope she says yes. It would be my first date since May '22, and I'm really into her.

wow

strong 1rd post.

I just heard back from her. She's going to try to make arrangements for her child and get back to me. I replied. I am excited.

Das it

Love to see you in this thread.

Mogging, son.

Proud of you!

Thank you so much, dad. I even washed my hair this evening after the gym.