Meeting people through friends isn't direct. Becky brings stacy to the game night, its not like you can immediately just start flirting and ask her out. Its not direct.

With bars and online, you know people are typically there for the specific reason of meeting someone.

tfw when worked in a small office of men since i was 19. worked with one girl in my whole life and i hit. fml

5 foot 3, but I'm lying and ssaying 5'9

My photos are decent, nothing special but fine enough. Some of them are older pics that got results before the apps made things harder.

I'm dark skinned black. My body pic is on other pages

Dating apps are probably the worst option for someone 5 '3

You need to cold approach or find some other avenue or hit up bars and be fearless

Just be glad you aren't dumb as a rock . Was watching cold approach videos and the guys with the poorest intellect never got chit

And your overall victim mind state is not helping

At 5'3 you need to have more positive charisma


You could strike out 50 times. You just got to look for a low percentage play to score on...that's the norm for most dudes out here these days short , black or not.

Me Too prevents this from happening.

they dont even know I'm 5'3. I'm lying and saying 5'9

BBMG is in a worse situation than me.

I'm 5'10, he's 5'3. Sorry dude, it's creepy if women don't find you attractive. Even less woman find BBMG attractive than me.

Datings apps were never good for below average zero effort men. Dating apps are only good if:

1) You're good looking

2) You have good social pictures.

You have neither of those you will struggle bad. Besides, talking to women face to face is 1000x better.

the only way OP makes it is if he moneymaxxes or statusmaxxes

Lol, how am I disgusting? I have good hygiene. But honestly it makes sense why the biggest racist on misc perpetuates "indians are stinky" myth

And then you meet them and their first impression of you is that you frauded your height by half a foot....

Dating apps are a crab shoot for most men bro

I can't tell you how many times I've been burnt buying a girl dinner etc and never seen them again


I'm on bumble...I match with girls that sure I'd invite over and fk on a random weekday ...but then they wanna meet for food , coffee etc and I just can't be bothered to do that with that caliber of women .

Once in awhile I might get something decent that actually goes somewhere....but you gotta develop an offline game as much as you can.


Even hit girls up on Instagram and fb are better.. bc that way you can get lucky and start chatting with a girl who may not fk with the apps



I talked to a girl recently for a month off the apps and had a couple dates . We were texting back and fourth...she eventually didn't reply to my last message.

I didn't even bother to make a double follow up text. That would expose me as desperate and like I said with apps being a crab shoot its not worth chasing ...you need to find pretty immediate spark on there or game over


Just some random thoughts

******** dating is totally free. I have the most success on there. Give it a try, OP.

With everything you know though, you shouldn't be surprised that it's all about the face.

You're a racist. STFU

Are you like white equivalent of BBMG?

Blueberryboy, you're a 6+ ft white guy. Everything you do doesn't compare to what BBMG will do.

lol at dating apps.

Do you leave your house ever, OP? Like do you go shopping at a grocery store, run errands or hang out with other humans you may refer to as friends? Maybe a job where you interact with female co-workers or customers?

If so, you can use these simple events to strike up conversations with women and exchange numbers. I bet one grocery store visit would lead to you getting laid versus fapping with your tears and a sore thumb from endlessly swiping on dating app land whales for months.

Ugh yes a i do these normal everyday things and they've never resulted in anything.

Online has gotten me every date I've ever had.

Online dating is the most common way people meet now. you boomers need to stop acting like it's still some fringe activity.

Which apps are you using op? In my experience, that can also male a difference. Can't be Bumble, because if I recall they banned shirtless pics.

This .

Op you probably just lack the balls to approach random women.

The thing is , girls are actually usually turned on by this because instantly you separate yourself from the guys who ain't got the balls for it

OP probably walks around with his head hunched down, staring at the floor or his phone and stutters when he gets to the check out counter.

If you have any social awareness and an ounce of self confidence, you can literally talk to any chick in your vicinity but the internet has made men scared of women. I have rarely been in a situation where someone didn't want to interact.

I'm the same age as you, boomer.

It's hilarious how much ethnics over exaggerate a white man's ability to pull

You think all blacks and Indians are struggling??? Just lol at this belief ,you played yourself


You don't think white guys also face heaps of competition and just have it on easy mode ?

You played yourself


Get off the fking apps and grow a pair ..or still use apps but don't solely rely on them if u want

honestly if i was a manlet (below 6'3) i'd probably just rope or move to india for arranged marriage.

feels good being 6'5 master race.