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post 1688424663 08-15-2023, 06:57 PM
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is money or female a bigger focus in your life?

is money or female a bigger focus in your life?
post 1688424713 08-15-2023, 06:57 PM
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post 1688425003 08-15-2023, 07:03 PM
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Money cause i have a female
post 1688425023 08-15-2023, 07:03 PM
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Why on earth would you focus on females in 2023? They literally have lower value than ever.
post 1688425123 08-15-2023, 07:05 PM
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I'm focusing on myself...if the girl is ugly.
post 1688425223 08-15-2023, 07:07 PM
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post 1688425433 08-15-2023, 07:10 PM
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post 1688425463 08-15-2023, 07:10 PM
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post 1688425493 08-15-2023, 07:11 PM
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post 1688425563 08-15-2023, 07:13 PM
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Spending time with my kids
post 1688425653 08-15-2023, 07:15 PM
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Female but I can't get them and its way easier to have lots of money
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post 1688425703 08-15-2023, 07:16 PM
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I know it is cliche to say, but I do believe it to be true. Money and women should not be the goals. Your goals should be so much more significant than that. By reaching those meaningful goals, you will develop the skills and confidence it takes to make women and money non issues.

Don’t worry about superfiacial bs.

Become the person you want to be. That should be your focus. That person has no problem attracting women and money. Believe you.
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post 1688425933 08-15-2023, 07:20 PM
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not a lot I can do about women. They'll line up with what my level has access to.
post 1688426513 08-15-2023, 07:29 PM
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Honestly right now all I’m focused on is becoming a better artist and writer
Making my house much nicer
And after it’s rented out going traveling for a while to see the world
Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I know it is cliche to say, but I do believe it to be true. Money and women should not be the goals. Your goals should be so much more significant than that. By reaching those meaningful goals, you will develop the skills and confidence it takes to make women and money non issues.

Don’t worry about superfiacial bs.

Become the person you want to be. That should be your focus. That person has no problem attracting women and money. Believe you.
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post 1688426763 08-15-2023, 07:33 PM
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Money.

I've been in 1, and even 3 years long LTRs before.

I'm currently in a ~8 or so months LTR. I don't even think it bothered her when I responded with "nah I'd find happiness," to her question of "can you not imagine your life without me? Would you be devastated if we ever broke up?"

It's true. I've proven to myself, even recently, that I can be alone and indulge in the benefits associated with it. Then there's money... you need it. You WANT a great girl you can smash all day. But you need that money. You gotta survive. If you have hopes for retirement, you gotta save/invest accordingly.
post 1688426853 08-15-2023, 07:34 PM
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Wow hard question. Prob money bcuz im about to be homeless soon unless something miraculous happens.
post 1688426863 08-15-2023, 07:35 PM
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I focus on my self, trying to achieve inner peace. Both wont give you any
post 1688427103 08-15-2023, 07:38 PM
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Idk. I have a good career and also a good conservative girlfriend. I'd focus on yourself first and everything else kinda falls into place.
post 1688428303 08-15-2023, 08:04 PM
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Locking down a foid should be a higher priority in high school or college. After that you either succeed or it's too late, and your focus should be money.
post 1688428413 08-15-2023, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
Wow hard question. Prob money bcuz im about to be homeless soon unless something miraculous happens.
You srs man?

Chit must suck. I have seen quite a few people here offer what seemed to be legit advice. Things like using the gym shower as your primary source of hygiene which makes sense and a bunch of other stuff.

The misc does seem to have good advice on this. I wish I could remember more for you.

I don’t know if you want advice. Not trying to project. I feel for you man, I imagine it is a pretty stress inducing idea to carry around. I hate that for you. I don’t have a lot, like at all, but if there is anything I can do to help, let me know. I’m not sure I have anything you could use, but you never know.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 1688429653 08-15-2023, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
You srs man?

Chit must suck. I have seen quite a few people here offer what seemed to be legit advice. Things like using the gym shower as your primary source of hygiene which makes sense and a bunch of other stuff.

The misc does seem to have good advice on this. I wish I could remember more for you.

I don’t know if you want advice. Not trying to project. I feel for you man, I imagine it is a pretty stress inducing idea to carry around. I hate that for you. I don’t have a lot, like at all, but if there is anything I can do to help, let me know. I’m not sure I have anything you could use, but you never know.
Appreciate your sympathy and trying to help bro. I don’t think my mom will ever let me be homeless though so I’d most likely move in with her if it comes to that. I need to find a profitable side hustle or two to make rent, or find a cheaper place to live. I don’t wanna take anything from those who barely have enough to get by themselves. You’re a good man.
post 1688431043 08-15-2023, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I know it is cliche to say, but I do believe it to be true. Money and women should not be the goals. Your goals should be so much more significant than that. By reaching those meaningful goals, you will develop the skills and confidence it takes to make women and money non issues.

Don’t worry about superfiacial bs.

Become the person you want to be. That should be your focus. That person has no problem attracting women and money. Believe you.
aha, I hear you, but this is all so intertwined that you can't really prioritize one over another. Money is the ultimate measure of your usefulness and contribution to the society. I believe this is one of the most important things, the ultimate goal, right next to leaving behind healthy offspring, which in turn speaks of importance of finding the right (read: beautiful, healthy (because health is beauty)) woman.

Ok?

Now, think again, what brings the money, it would be your aspirations and fulfilment of your dream( read: "become the person.." etc - your words BTW).
post 1688445913 08-16-2023, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka⏩
Appreciate your sympathy and trying to help bro. I don’t think my mom will ever let me be homeless though so I’d most likely move in with her if it comes to that. I need to find a profitable side hustle or two to make rent, or find a cheaper place to live. I don’t wanna take anything from those who barely have enough to get by themselves. You’re a good man.
Glad to hear you have a good support system man. While my parents were not fit parents, without the assistance of others in a couple times in my life, I could have easily been on the street for some time. Life is a team sport.
Originally Posted By weiss1967⏩
aha, I hear you, but this is all so intertwined that you can't really prioritize one over another. Money is the ultimate measure of your usefulness and contribution to the society. I believe this is one of the most important things, the ultimate goal, right next to leaving behind healthy offspring, which in turn speaks of importance of finding the right (read: beautiful, healthy (because health is beauty)) woman.

Ok?

Now, think again, what brings the money, it would be your aspirations and fulfilment of your dream( read: "become the person.." etc - your words BTW).
I feel you. On a subconscious level, and at times conscious, all of ambitions and desires are superficial in nature. We love dopamine and women and money give us that.

Our inherent need to propagate the species is one of the strongest instincts we have. I feel even the most enlightened monk would be delusional not to acknowledge that.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 1688446143 08-16-2023, 05:58 AM
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Females, and it’s not even close.

It sucks ass because I’d likely be in a far better position in life AND with women if I cared more about money and success.
post 1688446763 08-16-2023, 06:15 AM
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Women. Being lonely is fking horrible I just want a good girl gf/wife
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