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post 1689015223 08-26-2023, 06:04 PM
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Went out and saw a girl i talk to on IG but didnt approach last night. Awkward?

- talked on and off with this girl from IG for awhile but never met in person yet.

- last night I hit the bars downtown with a friend

- my friend wanted to go out and smoke for a second so I went with him .

- just as we were out ...she came walking by with her friends. I was about 7 beers deep at this point so thought I better not approach .


And what it more weird is just as she walked by I was taking a drag from my friends cig ( not a regular cig smoker )

-- she's really into yoga and running so she probably was turned off seeing me smoke ...

- it would have been a difficult approach because she was with like what looked to be 4 girls and maybe one guy


- I'll probably hit her up on IG in a few days and pretend that didn't even happen ...although I'm almost positive she noticed me

What would you do ?
post 1689015253 08-26-2023, 06:05 PM
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dm her on insta and say you saw her at her bar
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post 1689015323 08-26-2023, 06:08 PM
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post 1689015553 08-26-2023, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
dm her on insta and say you saw her at her bar
Yeah ill prob do that in a few days . And see what she says

I kinda like her actually, not sure if she's seeing anyone but fk it

Kinda fell off with her until like last weekend when she commented on my story and then I caught up with her
post 1689016323 08-26-2023, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Yeah ill prob do that in a few days . And see what she says

I kinda like her actually, not sure if she's seeing anyone but fk it

Kinda fell off with her until like last weekend when she commented on my story and then I caught up with her
why are you waiting?
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post 1689016623 08-26-2023, 06:50 PM
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Guarantee she doesn't even know who you are
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post 1689016973 08-26-2023, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
Guarantee she doesn't even know who you are
This wouldn't stress it.

I wouldn't even go as far as to DM her about it though, srs. Play it cool. If she doesn't DM you first then phark it.

There's a saying that I like, "it's only awkward if you make it awkward." Best for future encounters with her, you pretend you don't even remember seeing her.
post 1689019983 08-26-2023, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Visel⏩
This wouldn't stress it.

I wouldn't even go as far as to DM her about it though, srs. Play it cool. If she doesn't DM you first then phark it.

There's a saying that I like, "it's only awkward if you make it awkward." Best for future encounters with her, you pretend you don't even remember seeing her.
She def knows who I am

We talked at great length on IG didn't have a quick convo

Exactly , that's why I'm waiting a few days until I her up. Even though we were talking like last week
post 1689020063 08-26-2023, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
dm her on insta and say you saw her at her bar
Just don't know if I should bring that up or not because all she was doing is walking by and I was standing around with my friend

Lol didn't actually see her in any bar , just the area where all the bars are
post 1689020423 08-26-2023, 08:15 PM
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why do you retards overcomplicate everything with women
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post 1689021743 08-26-2023, 08:47 PM
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It's over bro, if you didn't talk to her in person. She ain't gunna respect you when you hitting those DM's

Time to move on bro, more fish in the barrel to shoot.
post 1689021823 08-26-2023, 08:49 PM
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post 1689021883 08-26-2023, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
why do you retards overcomplicate everything with women
He treats Chinese women as Gods, he's a fking loser
post 1689021983 08-26-2023, 08:52 PM
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I'm sure she's posting on some forum about how she saw this guy she spoke to on Instragram but she didn't approach him, and she wants advice on how to proceed from here because she doesn't want to stuff up her chances with him.
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post 1689022493 08-26-2023, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By LuigiMiami631⏩
It's over bro, if you didn't talk to her in person. She ain't gunna respect you when you hitting those DM's

Time to move on bro, more fish in the barrel to shoot.
It's not like I had much of chance. It's not like she was standing right by me. I was standing 40 feet away with my friend and she passed by in a group

I'm going to wait a few days
post 1689022523 08-26-2023, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
He treats Chinese women as Gods, he's a fking loser
I didn't ever say that...why u so mad bro lmao
post 1689022653 08-26-2023, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By BraddlesMcGee⏩
I'm sure she's posting on some forum about how she saw this guy she spoke to on Instragram but she didn't approach him, and she wants advice on how to proceed from here because she doesn't want to stuff up her chances with him.
Lmao

I would have approached...but she was literally just walking by in a group and I was standing away

It's not like we were in the same bar then I'm a pussy
post 1689022733 08-26-2023, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
why do you retards overcomplicate everything with women
Lmao I tend to when I see them as legit girls I would try to legitemly date
post 1689025563 08-26-2023, 10:41 PM
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way too much drama and you're overthinking it. You can hit her up on insta and say that you think you saw her the other night at (name of bar) but didn't say hi because you weren't sure.
post 1689025933 08-26-2023, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted By sowilson⏩
way too much drama and you're overthinking it. You can hit her up on insta and say that you think you saw her the other night at (name of bar) but didn't say hi because you weren't sure.
Thx

And yeah like I said it's not like she was at the same bar or something or was in my proximity for any length of time

She literally just walked by me...and then maybe at the end of the night she was standing with her friends and I was standing with mine and then i just went home

So it's not like I ran into her directly lol
post 1689045763 08-27-2023, 11:58 AM
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Gonna get her 4th quarter boys
post 1689046043 08-27-2023, 12:04 PM
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OP you sound like a f@gg0t who gets zero pussy. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
post 1689046193 08-27-2023, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
OP you sound like a f@gg0t who gets zero pussy. (Super Ded fkn Srs)
Scenarios like this happen

Hopefully I get another shot at her


I didn't get a good chance to approach and also drank way too much. Just didn't expect to see her there at all

No more pussy footing around outta me

I'm shooting my shots ...got nothing to lose

Prob hit her up on IG this week
post 1689046803 08-27-2023, 12:24 PM
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post 1689047223 08-27-2023, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
We weren't at the bar

She was just walking by as I was standing with my friend outside near the end of the night where everybody stands around


But yeah if we were at the same bar I'd be a total pussy not to approach and would have given up by now lol


But yeah I see your point could have just approached went into the bar and said hey let's all take a shot


You right Gordon..I'll play it better next time
post 1689047443 08-27-2023, 12:36 PM
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Just dm her in a few days and pretend nothing happened. If she says anything, just say that you were pretty out of it and must not have seen her.
post 1689047543 08-27-2023, 12:38 PM
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Ignoring her was a power move, guaranteed she remembers you when chad spreads her legs.
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post 1689047573 08-27-2023, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
Just dm her in a few days and pretend nothing happened. If she says anything, just say that you were pretty out of it and must not have seen her.
Thanks man that's what I'll do

Yeah I wasn't expecting to see her there and did drink too much mistakenly

It didn't help that when I seen her , it was basically the end of the night.


I'll let that marinate and DM her later in the week

If she brings it up maybe just say oh I thought that have been you or something

For all I know she was drunk too
post 1689047873 08-27-2023, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By zknarc⏩
Ignoring her was a power move, guaranteed she remembers you when chad spreads her legs.
Wouldn't even go as far as saying I awkwardly ignored her

She just walked by ...and then I seen her outside of the bars at the end of the night where everybody stands around waiting for taxis etc

If you put me in direct proximity I would have done it

Also I drank too much , which was a mistake.
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