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post 1689707393 09-07-2023, 07:05 PM
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Today is my sons 3rd bday and this is what this chic is doing

To me

Won't let me see him even though ive been granted visitation twice. Her family has all kinds kf money and I have next to nothing and she just keeps WRITTING checks to her attorney prolonging cause I have to represent my self

She won't send me his bday pics. She got married and has my son in adoption court to let this guy adopt my son. She tried to get me to adopt her oldest son when we met just to strike at her ex husband. Now she is doing it to me only I refused to do the guy that way

She tells me she is coaching my son to call him daddy while he is being kept from me.

This is on top of everything else she has done.

I don't even know what to say. It's beyond belief any person not just a woman but anyone would do this.

Crying for my son cause he has to be brought up by someone with such a cold vindictive heart .
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post 1689707733 09-07-2023, 07:12 PM
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post 1689708883 09-07-2023, 07:33 PM
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Time to man up.

That is face the consequences of your decisions quietly with no external support.

Deal with your emotions by shoving them deep down and building impenetrable a wall around them.

That kid isn’t yours anymore.


I advocate drug use.


I truly am sorry for your loss and I do empathize with you.
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post 1689709243 09-07-2023, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By mr.left
I wood dig 3 Graves and fill them.
Based
post 1689709283 09-07-2023, 07:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I advocate drug use.
I remember reading this guys posts years ago. Pretty sure he was a hardcore drinker and drug user.

In any case, OP is in a hard place; if he overreacts he’d probably get locked up and the mother will have a field day with it.

This would’ve been avoided if he didn’t stick it in crazy
post 1689709713 09-07-2023, 07:45 PM
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Idk how I’d react irl if I was in that situation

But I feel like the best course of action would be to just completely mentally disconnect / distance yourself from them. Entirely, move on with your life. They don’t even exist anymore Conquerors thousands of years ago had dozens and dozens of sons with different women and they just kept pushing, no need to always see them etc.

Sounds kinda fukd and again I’m not personally in that situation so it may be entirely different. This just seems like it’d be the best course of action
post 1689710033 09-07-2023, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted By mr.left
I wood dig 3 Graves and fill them.
Well I assume ex and guy ex is f*cking are two of the holes. Is the third hole meant for himself or his kid or his ex's oldest son?
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post 1689711633 09-07-2023, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Time to man up.

That is face the consequences of your decisions quietly with no external support.

Deal with your emotions by shoving them deep down and building impenetrable a wall around them.

That kid isn’t yours anymore.


I advocate drug use.


I truly am sorry for your loss and I do empathize with you.
Not good advice bro. **** drugs
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post 1689711863 09-07-2023, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By ShadowWolf12⏩
I remember reading this guys posts years ago. Pretty sure he was a hardcore drinker and drug user.

In any case, OP is in a hard place; if he overreacts he’d probably get locked up and the mother will have a field day with it.

This would’ve been avoided if he didn’t stick it in crazy
I am not prone to crazy irrational behavior mate. I've never hurt anyone in my life. I was blessed to not have a temper and I rarely is ever get mad.

I don't even wish her any ILL will. I just can't believe she would take someone's son away from them strictly based off money she is just being selfish and crazy off her medication

I sometimes don't even think she realizes what all she is doing or just how terrible it is. She has multiple mental disorders that medicine controlled. She is the purest example of a narcissist that I have ever met

To give you an example find one of my old post from like 5 years ago I was talking to wasp. I was sitting in the lobby of a recovery place to quit drinking that's where I met her. She was there for PYSCH issues

But for me to be mad at her over it woukd be like being mad at a cancer patient.

No sane person would do this. She is only sane when she's on her meds
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post 1689711953 09-07-2023, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Idk how I’d react irl if I was in that situation

But I feel like the best course of action would be to just completely mentally disconnect / distance yourself from them. Entirely, move on with your life. They don’t even exist anymore Conquerors thousands of years ago had dozens and dozens of sons with different women and they just kept pushing, no need to always see them etc.

Sounds kinda fukd and again I’m not personally in that situation so it may be entirely different. This just seems like it’d be the best course of action
I could NEVER walk out on my son bro. I have the ability to get good jobs. I'm a great father with lots to offer my son. She needs help.
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post 1689712193 09-07-2023, 08:39 PM
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How many times were you told don't stick your dick in crazy. At least she can't get your broke ass for much child support. Probably why she's tricking the new guy into adopting. So she can get his ass for child support for your kid. Let them adopt. If the kid wants to he will stay in touch with you.
post 1689712293 09-07-2023, 08:42 PM
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Bish sounds crazy and vindictive.
post 1689712383 09-07-2023, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
Bish sounds crazy and vindictive.
She told me when I met her "cross me once and I'll be the worst enemy you ever had"

I paid it no mind cause i thought she was just running it and the fact I've never met anyone like that.

Amazing how you think you really know someone and you see who they really are. It makes you nauseous.
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post 1689712753 09-07-2023, 08:54 PM
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Just go make another one with a hotter lady.
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post 1689712793 09-07-2023, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By baldbrah⏩
How many times were you told don't stick your dick in crazy. At least she can't get your broke ass for much child support. Probably why she's tricking the new guy into adopting. So she can get his ass for child support for your kid. Let them adopt. If the kid wants to he will stay in touch with you.
Funny you say that because I have copies of her emails she sent me where she says for me to allow the adoption so my son can get his hands on her now husbands 401k and other money.
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Reminds me of the situation Scott Lang was in from the film Ant-Man, he needed to get his financial affairs in order to be allowed to visit his daughter, so he stole the Ant-Man suit
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post 1689712813 09-07-2023, 08:54 PM
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Make a new kid
post 1689712903 09-07-2023, 08:56 PM
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Sadly one day your son will find all this out and despise his mother. He will reach out to you then.


Unfortunately this is usually when there is not much time left.


Do not give up. I’m sorry this is happening to you.


And for everyone else, do not date or engage with single/divorced women at all. They already ruined something once.
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