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Thread: Did the rise of "daycare child rearing" make it easier for women to divorce?

post 1690344723 09-19-2023, 07:37 PM
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Did the rise of "daycare child rearing" make it easier for women to divorce?

Women get a divorce which there's no shame in now...even 2 or 3 divorces.

They can have a career.

They get half the money, kids, alimony, child support, gov assistance, etc.

No shame in dropping the children off at day care...or school at 7:00am...they can pick them up from daycare or after school care around 6:30.

Life is good.
post 1690345213 09-19-2023, 07:47 PM
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Yes her having a job and our resources does help, but on top of that, you can go online and file for divorce for a few hundred bucks in about 15mins. Sure it gets messy after that even if it goes smoothly but the point is it's so easy to get the ball rolling.
post 1690345353 09-19-2023, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Jasonw1178⏩
Yes her having a job and our resources does help, but on top of that, you can go online and file for divorce for a few hundred bucks in about 15mins. Sure it gets messy after that even if it goes smoothly but the point is it's so easy to get the ball rolling.
More women having been divorced equals more support and a larger knowledge base. A society more in tune with helping women and demonizing men helps. More dating apps to ensure Chad's loving embrace is easy to find. A government advocating for helping single moms. It's all there.
post 1690345513 09-19-2023, 07:57 PM
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thats why i only mess with trad stay at home mom types
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post 1690345693 09-19-2023, 08:01 PM
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There's a childcare in my area with a sign out the front - "children from 7 weeks"
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Having given birth and that's all does not constitute being a mother.
The more I think about it, the more I think women are just evil creatures that need to be constantly led, or else everything just gets worse.
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post 1690345763 09-19-2023, 08:03 PM
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It’s more to do with the rise of beta cucks

Women will quickly divorce a man when she doesn’t respect him
post 1690346003 09-19-2023, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
It’s more to do with the rise of beta cucks

Women will quickly divorce a man when she doesn’t respect him
Nah, women will divorce a man if her friends/ feminist society tells her to
post 1690346153 09-19-2023, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By robertbaggiojr⏩
Nah, women will divorce a man if her friends/ feminist society tells her to
Yes, if they tell her he’s not worthy of respect

And she internalises that

A big part of that respect is understanding whether the guy legitimately has other options

If he’s let himself go physically, hasn’t advanced his career, etc it’s game over
post 1690346243 09-19-2023, 08:11 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
It’s more to do with the rise of beta cucks

Women will quickly divorce a man when she doesn’t respect him
is it easy for them to find reasons not to respect a man especially with so many divorced women in their ear? when i hear women talking it's usually "girl he needs to do better"..."you deserve better than that" etc. kinda rare to hear of a woman checking another woman.
post 1690346383 09-19-2023, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Yes, if they tell her he’s not worthy of respect

And she internalises that

A big part of that respect is understanding whether the guy legitimately has other options

If he’s let himself go physically, hasn’t advanced his career, etc it’s game over
so for a man the grind never stops...more money, more fit, more career, more, more, more even in marriage. yet on the other hand women can do more relaxing and just existing once they have a man.
post 1690346583 09-19-2023, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
so for a man the grind never stops...more money, more fit, more career, more, more, more even in marriage. yet on the other hand women can do more relaxing and just existing once they have a man.
Nope. Why would any man settle for a woman like that, unless he had no other options?

And why would you tell on yourself like this?
post 1690346873 09-19-2023, 08:25 PM
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post 1690346903 09-19-2023, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Nope. Why would any man settle for a woman like that, unless he had no other options?

And why would you tell on yourself like this?
What is the female version of grinding to be better within a relationship? Not eating too much? Agreeing to sex once in a while? And look how many normal looking men are married to overweight/obese women. Many of them didn't start out that way. And yeah, a man might settle if he would otherwise be on the hook for losing half his stuff, alimony, losing the kids and child support. I have friend that makes good money at $150k/year but his divorce is costing him around $4-5k/month in ailimony and child support...wife was gallivanting around with a new man before the divorce was even settled.
post 1690346933 09-19-2023, 08:27 PM
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Women waste half their life on pointless bs anyway, why stop?
post 1690347153 09-19-2023, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
What is the female version of grinding to be better within a relationship? Not eating too much? Agreeing to sex once in a while? And look how many normal looking men are married to overweight/obese women. Many of them didn't start out that way. And yeah, a man might settle if he would otherwise be on the hook for losing half his stuff, alimony, losing the kids and child support. I have friend that makes good money at $150k/year but his divorce is costing him around $4-5k/month in ailimony and child support...wife was gallivanting around with a new man before the divorce was even settled.
That’s one hell of a world view you have there.

Would hate to know what life experience has shaped it.
post 1690347163 09-19-2023, 08:31 PM
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Who told you there's no shame in divorce? Lmao. Probably one of the most shameful things you can do unless the husband was an abuser.
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post 1690347353 09-19-2023, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By mr.left
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the True Secret to avoid this is Checking you Hoe from the start. I choke my Bishs
yeah women are being approached from all angles nowadays. could be something as innocent as a work group chat where some playful banter is exchanged with a male co-worker. Could be some chit chat with a man while out having drinks with the girls...or maybe someone through ******** trying to innocently creep. she feels energy and can't help but respond.
post 1690347413 09-19-2023, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
That’s one hell of a world view you have there.

Would hate to know what life experience has shaped it.
specifically what part of the worldview. And again, how do women grind to be better within a relationship? seems a lot of men are happy if she just stays the same woman they married.
post 1690347533 09-19-2023, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By theory816⏩
Who told you there's no shame in divorce? Lmao. Probably one of the most shameful things you can do unless the husband was an abuser.
LOL if you attempt shaming a woman in 2023 for being divorced.
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The imbalance of divorces is the problem. Divorces used to be devastating to women. Now they get endless support
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post 1690348363 09-19-2023, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
The imbalance of divorces is the problem. Divorces used to be devastating to women. Now they get endless support
boomers did this
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
LOL if you attempt shaming a woman in 2023 for being divorced.
just fkn LOL.
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post 1690348583 09-19-2023, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
boomers did this
dont know how it was in the 80s but i do remember in the 90s having a lot of classmates with divorced parents
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I did everything I could to keep my daughter out of day care.

It was one of the toughest things ever as I had to balance nannies and grandparents to watch her. I even had a spreadsheet.

I just couldn't imagine dropping her off in such a place.
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
boomers did this
They did. And now you have a generation of women who don't feel they need a man at all.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
I did everything I could to keep my daughter out of day care.

It was one of the toughest things ever as I had to balance nannies and grandparents to watch her. I even had a spreadsheet.

I just couldn't imagine dropping her off in such a place.
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra⏩
Anything but doing it yourself right
I was a stay at home Mom for 4 years. I wish it was longer because I loved it! It was the best time of my life.
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja⏩
They did. And now you have a generation of women who don't feel they need a man at all.
so you're telling me that if not for the boomers the "girl you don't a man" attitude wouldn't be repeated to girls/women in 2023?
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
so you're telling me that if not for the boomers the "girl you don't a man" attitude wouldn't be repeated to girls/women in 2023?
It all came from the Boomer generation. I remember people like Oprah as a kid and her degen show. All those housewives eating it up. Praising single mothers, celebrating fat people, blaming men for most things. It was a constant boomer theme in tv/film. Sally Jessie Raphael, Ricki Lake were the same.
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