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post 1690586863 09-24-2023, 11:52 AM
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I get to see my son next week for the first time since

April. She out of the blue just stopped letting me see him. When she moved on with this guy. He turned 3 couple of weeks ago.

When she first started this I tried tk get it through her head that if she keeps doing it the only person it's going to hurt was our son because I would get to see him eventually and he courts have granted my visitation 3 times since then and only now is she following court orders.

But now almost 5 months later. We have not got to see each other. She has told me she's teaching him to call the guy she's living with daddy. She is confusing My son and messing with his mental health by pulling this garbage

But anyways just knowing I will be with him soon feels like winning the lottery to me.

He just had his 3rd bday. And I have no idea of knowing what tots he already has and doesn't have and I know all.miscers remember that feeling of opening up a Xmas gift or beat gift only to find something you already have or something you didn't want

But the not telling me is only causing him to not be as happy as he can possibly be I will never understand how that doesn't bother her and how she can think that's ok.
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post 1690587183 09-24-2023, 11:57 AM
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Are there no consequences for her not following the visitation schedule?
post 1690587593 09-24-2023, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
April. She out of the blue just stopped letting me see him. When she moved on with this guy. He turned 3 couple of weeks ago.

When she first started this I tried tk get it through her head that if she keeps doing it the only person it's going to hurt was our son because I would get to see him eventually and he courts have granted my visitation 3 times since then and only now is she following court orders.

But now almost 5 months later. We have not got to see each other. She has told me she's teaching him to call the guy she's living with daddy. She is confusing My son and messing with his mental health by pulling this garbage

But anyways just knowing I will be with him soon feels like winning the lottery to me.

He just had his 3rd bday. And I have no idea of knowing what tots he already has and doesn't have and I know all.miscers remember that feeling of opening up a Xmas gift or beat gift only to find something you already have or something you didn't want

But the not telling me is only causing him to not be as happy as he can possibly be I will never understand how that doesn't bother her and how she can think that's ok.
If you have visitation in your custody agreement then you should call the cops when she denies you seeing your son to make sure its enforced.
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post 1690587633 09-24-2023, 12:07 PM
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OP if your ex died in an accident you would get full custody automatically


post 1690587693 09-24-2023, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By notthis⏩
Are there no consequences for her not following the visitation schedule?
its 2023, there are never any consequences for women
post 1690587853 09-24-2023, 12:10 PM
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Coworker's wife just left the country with their kid, it could be worse op. Are there no visitation rights that can be enforced
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post 1690587873 09-24-2023, 12:11 PM
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I hate to say it but that’s the risk a man takes when he has a child with a woman in todays world. His life is basically forfeit.
post 1690588003 09-24-2023, 12:15 PM
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Regardless...your boy knows intrinsically...You're his dad...Enjoy your time with him... He loves you.
post 1690588053 09-24-2023, 12:15 PM
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salt has lost his saviour

The most important thing you can do if you havent already is introduce your son to Christianity so when hes victim to the fallibility of people he has something to save him from it
post 1690588223 09-24-2023, 12:18 PM
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Happy you get to see him...just block out all the bad and enjoy the time while you have it right now...hopefully more to come.
post 1690588473 09-24-2023, 12:23 PM
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Islam is right about women.
post 1690588563 09-24-2023, 12:25 PM
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From what you write, she is trying to deny your visitation rights and also program your child to refer to her new boyfriend as the father?

Wrong on so many levels. Fight for what is yours here breh.
post 1690590593 09-24-2023, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Broady78⏩
Regardless...your boy knows intrinsically...You're his dad...Enjoy your time with him... He loves you.
Repped

Thanks bro
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post 1690590663 09-24-2023, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
Happy you get to see him...just block out all the bad and enjoy the time while you have it right now...hopefully more to come.
Ripped.
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post 1690590793 09-24-2023, 01:09 PM
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Lol @ letting some whore not letting you see your son

Spoiler!
post 1690590823 09-24-2023, 01:09 PM
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Happy for you OP

If I were you, I'd start making a case against her srs. Screenshots of texts, recording calls, encounters, etc. A boy needs his father.
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post 1690590973 09-24-2023, 01:12 PM
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I don't wish chit like this on anyone.

Women denying a kid their father unless he is a complete POS is fuking wrong.

That said....men need to stop impregnating these sloots and fuking theirs and the kids life up in the process. The redflags from women are usually there...you are just to fuking worried about getting that dink wet than to think clearly.
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post 1690591403 09-24-2023, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By DevilMayRage⏩
I don't wish chit like this on anyone.

Women denying a kid their father unless he is a complete POS is fuking wrong.

That said....men need to stop impregnating these sloots and fuking theirs and the kids life up in the process. The redflags from women are usually there...you are just to fuking worried about getting that dink wet than to think clearly.
No that wasn't the case at all. My son was planned from the start. We tried and tried and tried till eventually God blessed us

No regrets. Only gratitude. Hopefully she comes to her senses
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post 1690591433 09-24-2023, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted By dinglestrawbery⏩
Lol @ letting some whore not letting you see your son

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Agree, if only there was some way for OP to easily get 100% full time custody of his kids without spending his life savings on lawyers with one simple trick


Spoiler!
post 1690591623 09-24-2023, 01:29 PM
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You should take her to court.
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post 1690591673 09-24-2023, 01:29 PM
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sounds like Bam Margera. do you have a substance abuse problem?

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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
From what you write, she is trying to deny your visitation rights and also program your child to refer to her new boyfriend as the father?

Wrong on so many levels. Fight for what is yours here breh.
I agree. Children need both of their parents. Unless one is an addict, abusive or neglectful there is no reason to keep a child from their other parent. It makes me sick that parents do this to their children. My brothers first wife turned their kids against my brother. She constantly told them that he didn't love them or care about them even though he drove over an hour each way every other weekend to pick them up. He now has no relationship with his son. His daughter died of an overdose at 22.
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post 1690592783 09-24-2023, 01:56 PM
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My ex is doing that to me with our 16yr old. she won't talk to me at all, but I still hang with 13yr old more than half the time and she loves it. Which makes it more confusing to me because the 16yr old keep listening to mom and not questioning why her sister is doing great with me. sucks. Her mom also convinced her she is neglected and also got her on medication. she is totally brainwashed.


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post 1690593633 09-24-2023, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
Agree, if only there was some way for OP to easily get 100% full time custody of his kids without spending his life savings on lawyers with one simple trick


Spoiler!
Even if I had the money I don't want to take him from her. I just want her to coparent properly for his sake and stop all the immature games that are doing nothing but hurting him
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post 1690593713 09-24-2023, 02:15 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
sounds like Bam Margera. do you have a substance abuse problem?

I haven't touched drugs in years. Literally years

The drinking is almost nonexistent .

No no current addiction issues.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You should take her to court.
Already have. Been granted visitation three times now. Her and her family has money. She has an attorney. I have nothing an doing it all alone. And she knows that but again she's not focusing on him only trying to hurt me.

That's the sad part. And she can't even see what she is doing to him
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Originally Posted By latverian41⏩
The drinking is almost nonexistent
I'm curious to what this means because I know you've been battling for years. Is this part of the reason she stopped letting you see your son? You sit here playing the victim but I'm sorry, I think there's so much more to this.

With that being said, I'm glad you get to finally see your son. Enjoy every moment because they grow so fast.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I'm curious to what this means because I know you've been battling for years. Is this part of the reason she stopped letting you see your son? You sit here playing the victim but I'm sorry, I think there's so much more to this.

With that being said, I'm glad you get to finally see your son. Enjoy every moment because they grow so fast.
You can think whatever you want buddy no my drinking had nothing tk do with her actions. I was seeing him all the time up till April when she got married and moved in with this guy. That's when she started this crap
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Enjoy the reunion with your little guy

and try to make the best out of the day,

good luck my friend. *bow*
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Originally Posted By Samraiwise⏩
Enjoy the reunion with your little guy

and try to make the best out of the day,

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