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post 1690849643 09-28-2023, 08:35 PM
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Unpopular take: Men shouldn't be afraid of divorce

Divorce laws are fair and often benefit the man, if you got kids out of the marriage and some good memories the I think it is a good option to divorce when you want to go your separate ways. What's gonna happen? You are going to lose your assets?
Well, they are gonna go to your kids development and the alimony is gonna be used on them if the mother is wise and not selfish. Why as a single man do you even need that amount of money? You have visitation rights and that's fine
post 1690849883 09-28-2023, 08:39 PM
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Most guys don't fight. They just willingly take it in the mouth and Swallow whatever is handed to them. Then complain.
post 1690849913 09-28-2023, 08:40 PM
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never negged anyone ever. I prefer to let my words fight for me.

that said. I am spiritually negging you.
post 1690849983 09-28-2023, 08:41 PM
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Popular take: Ban no fault divorce and make covenant marriage nationally recognized.
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post 1690850023 09-28-2023, 08:42 PM
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I think it would make more sense to just say "don't get married." Lol at getting married thinking about divorce.
post 1690850053 09-28-2023, 08:44 PM
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post 1690850063 09-28-2023, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted By CampingBruh
Popular take: Ban no fault divorce and make covenant marriage nationally recognized.
Yes it's all about freedom of choice
post 1690850103 09-28-2023, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Divorce destroyed my life but that is because I didn’t understand it.

Do not treat divorce as an emotional event but purely as a financial transaction.

Go to court and fight for the best financial outcome possible. That is all divorce is about and the rest is just noise and not important.
Your spouse was more damaging to you than the separation, think like that. Good riddance
post 1690850133 09-28-2023, 08:46 PM
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post 1690850143 09-28-2023, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Divorce destroyed my life but that is because I didn’t understand it.

Do not treat divorce as an emotional event but purely as a financial transaction.

Go to court and fight for the best financial outcome possible. That is all divorce is about and the rest is just noise and not important.
did your parents pick you out a nice ****** how many goats did your family trade for your wife? does she make a good beef vindaloo?
post 1690850163 09-28-2023, 08:47 PM
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Originally Posted By andrepmeet
never negged anyone ever. I prefer to let my words fight for me.

that said. I am spiritually negging you.
Thank you Meet
post 1690850233 09-28-2023, 08:48 PM
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If you have kids, you should suck it up and stay until they're at least old enough to work at a sweat shop and earn their own keep.

If you don't have kids then hopefully you were smart enough to have a prenup or you'll have to move to Guatemala so she doesn't take your stuff.
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post 1690850353 09-28-2023, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Brommando
Yes it's all about freedom of choice
Sure then why get married in the first place? If you treat marriage like a "boyfriend/girlfriend relationship" and can just break up at any time... then why even do it in the first place? My girlfriend and I have talked about that and have agreed not to get married. She wants to sign a contract where she puts 3 beach condos in my name, and I put a couple rentals in her name if anything were to happen. but that if we break up then we leave with whatever we brought into the relationship. So a little more than just dating but don't lose anything if it ends.
post 1690850613 09-28-2023, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By 401Delta
If you have kids, you should suck it up and stay until they're at least old enough to work at a sweat shop and earn their own keep.

If you don't have kids then hopefully you were smart enough to have a prenup or you'll have to move to Guatemala so she doesn't take your stuff.
Yup, miscers better use more than their shallow senses before choosing a woman. If you are not marrying for kids then you must be stupid as hell
post 1690850663 09-28-2023, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
Sure then why get married in the first place? If you treat marriage like a "boyfriend/girlfriend relationship" and can just break up at any time... then why even do it in the first place? My girlfriend and I have talked about that and have agreed not to get married. She wants to sign a contract where she puts 3 beach condos in my name, and I put a couple rentals in her name if anything were to happen. but that if we break up then we leave with whatever we brought into the relationship. So a little more than just dating but don't lose anything if it ends.
If you want to have kids only then you should get married to your partner. Otherwise it's just a waste of time and.momey
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