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post 1691115853 10-04-2023, 10:31 AM
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I think most men do marriage wrong. But if its done right there is certainly something to be said for being a patriarch of a family. Of building a lasting legacy. Of dying old age in a room filled with people that took care of you/love you. Etc. At the end of the day if you want to have kids/raise them in a stable environment to set them up for success. You're better off being married/in a stable successful house-hold.


I know seeing this type of life unfold is fairly rare. But I do know people who's lives have ended up that way.


My Dad has a fairly large family (8 brothers). Literally every single one of them have been married divorced at least once. Most are on either their second or third marriage. With that said they still ended up raising successful children and now have grandchildren. And I can clearly see if you have close ties with your kids/grand-kid's your life is 10X more fulfilled when you are older. Especially on those Sunday afternoon dinners/BBQ's at your house and on the holidays when everyone gathers.




With all of that said. I personally believe you should get your **** together and not get married until you are in your 30s.
post 1691116603 10-04-2023, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
I think mostpeopledo marriage wrong.
Fixed

Its both males and females

95% of people don't know how to be in a proper relationship anymore thanks to all ofusbeing conditioned by clown world societal norms
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post 1691116763 10-04-2023, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not at all

My friends and acquaintances don’t have sex with their husbands but are in long term stable marriages with kids. Sex has nothing to do with it. Marriages stay together for other reasons entirely.
If those guys aren't cheating or getting divorced then they aren't men.

I've never been in a sexless relationship in my life.
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post 1691116803 10-04-2023, 10:52 AM
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No fault divorce needs to go, it ruins the concept and commitment of marriage.
post 1691116833 10-04-2023, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
I think most men do marriage wrong. But if its done right there is certainly something to be said for being a patriarch of a family. Of building a lasting legacy. Of dying old age in a room filled with people that took care of you/love you. Etc. At the end of the day if you want to have kids/raise them in a stable environment to set them up for success. You're better off being married/in a stable successful house-hold.


I know seeing this type of life unfold is fairly rare. But I do know people who's lives have ended up that way.


My Dad has a fairly large family (8 brothers). Literally every single one of them have been married divorced at least once. Most are on either their second or third marriage. With that said they still ended up raising successful children and now have grandchildren. And I can clearly see if you have close ties with your kids/grand-kid's your life is 10X more fulfilled when you are older. Especially on those Sunday afternoon dinners/BBQ's at your house and on the holidays when everyone gathers.




With all of that said. I personally believe you should get your **** together and not get married until you are in your 30s.
true. in those late late years the family adds a lot to your life from what i see. my neighbors are in their 80s and every sunday there's 5 cars in their driveway...kids, grands...and great grands outside playing running around. old man used to cut his grass until about a year ago but now his grandson and son in law do it. one daughter visits every other day.

my own family was the same way and those grandparents add a lot of stability to everyone's lives. feel bad for 70+ people that have no one. have one aunt that never married and lived with my grandparents but she's super close with her siblings and nieces/nephews...to the point we are basically her kids too.
post 1691117003 10-04-2023, 10:55 AM
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post 1691117073 10-04-2023, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I have an acquaintance in a stable successful marriage, three kids, they live in a multimillion dollar mansion with a tennis court, drives a Tesla, looks perfect from the outside.
She’s actually cheating on her husband constantly. Cheats with coworkers and randoms on business trips etc. and even does threesomes.
Yet from the outside they look like the perfect successful American family. Money hides a lot of problems srs
Not surprised you're friends with a bunch of degenerates

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post 1691117123 10-04-2023, 10:57 AM
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post 1691117133 10-04-2023, 10:58 AM
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post 1691117263 10-04-2023, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I have an acquaintance in a stable successful marriage, three kids, they live in a multimillion dollar mansion with a tennis court, drives a Tesla, looks perfect from the outside.

She’s actually cheating on her husband constantly. Cheats with coworkers and randoms on business trips etc. and even does threesomes.

Yet from the outside they look like the perfect successful American family. Money hides a lot of problems srs
the fact she's cheating...and especially that you about it says a lot about her.
post 1691117583 10-04-2023, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
The best part of it all is spending money you don't have on a party you don't need
Bingo.

I've literally never heard anyone complain that they didn't spend enough money on their wedding after the fact, whether still married or divorced. A lot of people easily blow $30k - $50k on weddings that amount to one day parties. What a great way to start a marriage, with money problems right out of the gate.
post 1691117643 10-04-2023, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
the fact she's cheating...and especially that you about it says a lot about her.
don't know why you are surprised, SS cheated on her ex and that's why her marriage failed
post 1691117893 10-04-2023, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
don't know why you are surprised, SS cheated on her ex and that's why her marriage failed
can't think of anything more trashy than cheating women that know about each other's cheating...major psyche problems
post 1691118623 10-04-2023, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
don't know why you are surprised, SS cheated on her ex and that's why her marriage failed
I disagree with her plenty, but disagreeing with someone doesn't give you a free pass to make things up.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
I disagree with her plenty, but disagreeing with someone doesn't give you a free pass to make things up.
You say that like the entire Silencespeaks shtick is real and not a larping troll job.

Other than that, I agree with you.
post 1691118753 10-04-2023, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By ArnoldLibCuck⏩
There's zero way to guarantee loyalty from a woman. If you wound up down on your luck for a few months out of a job or something, the odds of her filing for divorce at some point skyrocket no matter who she is. You'll also never really know how loyal they truly are. Women are incredibly good at covering up/hiding cheating. Why? Because they're great at convincing themselves it wasn't wrong for whatever laundry list of cope reasons. Since they convince themselves it was no big deal, it makes it a lot easier for them to carry on without spilling the beans. Most won't admit to it unless they are caught red handed in the act, srs.

I'm not saying not to be serious with a woman and hope for the best. What I am saying is, stop spreading the myth that you can guarantee success by "just finding a loyal woman". It's never that simple, bud.
you're obviously a poor judge of character. LOL.
post 1691119023 10-04-2023, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33⏩
don't know why you are surprised, SS cheated on her ex and that's why her marriage failed
Yes, low quality people are hanging around with other low quality people. Shocking. LOL.
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Originally Posted By ArnoldLibCuck⏩
You say that like the entire Silencespeaks shtick is real and not a larping troll job.

Other than that, I agree with you.
I pretty much take everything posted here at face value. I just don't see much point in worrying whether someone is being truthful or not, when there isn't a way to verify anything. That said, I think her story of being married to a husband who manipulated and cheated on her is generally true.
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post 1691119103 10-04-2023, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie⏩
you're obviously a poor judge of character. LOL.
You're the same guy who defends Biden groping little girls.

You're a bit lacking in self awareness.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I have an acquaintance in a stable successful marriage, three kids, they live in a multimillion dollar mansion with a tennis court, drives a Tesla, looks perfect from the outside.

She’s actually cheating on her husband constantly. Cheats with coworkers and randoms on business trips etc. and even does threesomes.

Yet from the outside they look like the perfect successful American family. Money hides a lot of problems srs
No one would know ... except for blabbing to all her autistic casual "acquaintances". LMAO.
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
You're the same guy who defends Biden groping little girls.

You're a bit lacking in self awareness.
I don't defend groping at all. People who actually think that Biden is groping children in public on camera during WH photo ops are a special kind of smooth brained.
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lol @ marriage being for status.....literally no one gives a F if you are married. In fact if you are a bachelor its obv you have much more disposable income and have an unlimited bang pool

lol @ marriage iz 4 th3 kidz...a piece of paper doesn't make you a better parent
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Originally Posted By Horse86⏩
lol @ marriage being for status.....literally no one gives a F if you are married. In fact if you are a bachelor its obv you have much more disposable income and have an unlimited bang pool

lol @ marriage iz 4 th3 kidz...a piece of paper doesn't make you a better parent
i see married people as a bit more stable on average...like they've bought into the idea of a more stable world...certainly more stable than a single dude with a bang pool
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell⏩
i see married people as a bit more stable on average...like they've bought into the idea of a more stable world...certainly more stable than a single dude with a bang pool
divorce statistics entered the room. your point obliterated
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Originally Posted By Horse86⏩
divorce statistics entered the room. your point obliterated
yeah we could look there but what's the "breakup" stats for single people? i see single women being in and out of relationships 2 or 3 times a year for years...some lasting weeks
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so again....a piece of paper doesn't make you a better parent, or more stable or more anything. It's a joke nowadays and not in the males favor. Which is why more and more are waking up and not getting married. When courts fix the issue.....more will marry
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Originally Posted By Horse86⏩
so again....a piece of paper doesn't make you a better parent.
black community says that but look at the results
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