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post 1692182903 10-23-2023, 06:12 PM
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Are you a failure (poll)

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post 1692183003 10-23-2023, 06:13 PM
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i kinda think i am tbh but it doesnt bother me as much as it should.
post 1692183063 10-23-2023, 06:13 PM
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Uh...
post 1692183103 10-23-2023, 06:14 PM
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post 1692183683 10-23-2023, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By BasedBagel⏩
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post 1692183873 10-23-2023, 06:25 PM
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What kinda slack jawed defeatism is this

smh
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post 1692184003 10-23-2023, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By BasedBagel⏩
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Here i am pouring my heart out to you and you take advantage like this, no need to be so judgemental, those who have not sinned throw the first stone.
post 1692184043 10-23-2023, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done⏩
Here i am pouring my heart out to you and you take advantage like this, no need to be so judgemental, those who have not sinned throw the first stone.
I was defending you lol
post 1692184193 10-23-2023, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
I was defending you lol
My bad, thank you sir.
post 1692184203 10-23-2023, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By PrehistoricUFO⏩
Yeah I am. I apologize to my dad for it every now and then. My mom doesn't seem to care, she is just happy I'm not an alcoholic or a dope head, and I'm healthy and employed.

I should have had a wife and some kids by now, but every girl leaves me eventually because I'm a giant loser.
damn.
post 1692184213 10-23-2023, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Getter_done⏩
My bad, thank you sir.
Based
post 1692184243 10-23-2023, 06:31 PM
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I think every man should have this outlook: I frequently succeed but also frequently fail. I am a work in progress and can improve myself, but I can also appreciate my accomplishments.
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post 1692184263 10-23-2023, 06:31 PM
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Yup , I dun goofed
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post 1692184343 10-23-2023, 06:33 PM
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Yeah, basically. Feels like my life has just been one step forward followed by one step backward. I'm 28 and my life today is basically the same as my freshman year of college.
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post 1692184373 10-23-2023, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Yeah, basically. Feels like my life has just been one step forward followed by one step backward. I'm 28 and my life today is basically the same as my freshman year of college.
wow!
post 1692184403 10-23-2023, 06:34 PM
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May dad made 4 times as much as me at my age (inflation calculated in) and was his own boss.

I have to go into long ass meetings defending the careers of my team, who are layoff targets, like myself.
post 1692184453 10-23-2023, 06:34 PM
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post 1692184483 10-23-2023, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
May dad made 4 times as much as me at my age (inflation calculated in) and was his own boss.

I have to go into long ass meetings defending the careers of my team, who are layoff targets.
yeah but if he was a real success, he would've set you up to do better than him
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You haven't had this thread Ron'd yet so you're doing ok
thank you sir
post 1692184783 10-23-2023, 06:37 PM
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post 1692184803 10-23-2023, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
yeah but if he was a real success, he would've set you up to do better than him
He did. And I have an out in all of this-taking over his still successful business. I’m working to bring in money from my own stream of income. The business will be a long term goal. He has no grandkids but mine. It’s all going to go to them in the end.
post 1692185303 10-23-2023, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
He did. And I have an out in all of this-taking over his still successful business. I’m working to bring in money from my own stream of income. The business will be a long term goal. He has no grandkids but mine. It’s all going to go to them in the end.
Alright
post 1692185603 10-23-2023, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
Alright
Yup. The failure part is having to rely on that option. Which obviously sucks.
post 1692185653 10-23-2023, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
May dad made 4 times as much as me at my age (inflation calculated in) and was his own boss.

I have to go into long ass meetings defending the careers of my team, who are layoff targets, like myself.
Comparing your life to your parents' is phuckin suifuel.

In 1990, my dad

-was making $60k/yr working on a manufacturing line (=$144k today). That job was offshored to China in 1999.

-saved up for a down on a house (would buy in 1991 for $68k @ 9%. Today that house is $380k @ 8%).

-owned a truck (would be $30k minimum today).

-owned 2 snowmobiles that he'd ride on weekends ($20k a pop today).

-had a 4 year college degree, where his employer paid for half (undergrad tuition assistance doesn't exist any more outside of military, undergrad schooing is $25k/yr).

-fukked the prom queen back in HS (there were literally zero women in my STEM magnet high school).

-hung out with his former high school football team every weekend (all the dudes in my high school class moved away from my hometown to find work).

-was hooking up with my mom (I have never kissed a girl).


I'd hear these stories from him growing up in the Bush era, and think damn, maybe my life will go something like that.
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post 1692185663 10-23-2023, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Yup. The failure part is having to rely on that option. Which obviously sucks.
How terrible man, you might have to inherit your dad's business one day. might as well rope tbh

fukin loser
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-was hooking up with my mom (I have never kissed a girl).
Lol

you can't really compare to peoples success in past. chit was way different in the 90s
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Depends on how you define failure. I voted yes because I've yet to fulfil the greatest calling a human has which is to create/raise children but I've been decently successful in all other aspects of life. I am making it a point to find a worthy mate because I've came to the realization that if I keep putting it off until I'm "doing better" for myself I'll always reach for the next level and miss out.
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post 1692186203 10-23-2023, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Comparing your life to your parents' is phuckin suifuel.

In 1990, my dad

-was making $60k/yr working on a manufacturing line (=$144k today). That job was offshored to China in 1999.

-saved up for a down on a house (would buy in 1991 for $68k @ 9%. Today that house is $380k @ 8%).

-owned a truck (would be $30k minimum today).

-owned 2 snowmobiles that he'd ride on weekends ($20k a pop today).

-had a 4 year college degree, where his employer paid for half (undergrad tuition assistance doesn't exist any more outside of military, undergrad schooing is $25k/yr).

-fukked the prom queen back in HS (there were literally zero women in my STEM magnet high school).

-hung out with his former high school football team every weekend (all the dudes in my high school class moved away from my hometown to find work).

-was hooking up with my mom (I have never kissed a girl).


I'd hear these stories from him growing up in the Bush era, and think damn, maybe my life will go something like that.
Totally understandable. As the saying goes, comparison is the thief of joy.

Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
How terrible man, you might have to inherit your dad's business one day. might as well rope tbh

fukin loser



Lol

you can't really compare to peoples success in past. chit was way different in the 90s
Agreed. The older folks don’t tend to see it this way, but it’s true. My dad sees it. He recognizes things are tougher today, and has mega nostalgia for the 90s.
post 1692186213 10-23-2023, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By cavillac⏩
Depends on how you define failure. I voted yes because I've yet to fulfil the greatest calling a human has which is to create/raise children but I've been decently successful in all other aspects of life. I am making it a point to find a worthy mate because I've came to the realization that if I keep putting it off until I'm "doing better" for myself I'll always reach for the next level and miss out.
wouldn't stress it if that's your only problem, just find a chick at a bar and knock her up if you want kids that bad, then raise them yourself
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I've failed a lot but I am definitely not a failure.
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post 1692186523 10-23-2023, 07:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
wouldn't stress it if that's your only problem, just find a chick at a bar and knock her up if you want kids that bad, then raise them yourself
Yea I mean at this point holding out for a virtuous woman is a waste of time so I'm mentally preparing to get plowed in family court one day.
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