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» The difference between online dating between men and women is pretty crazy
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post 1692443493 10-28-2023, 06:41 AM
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The difference between online dating between men and women is pretty crazy

Reddit girl wonders if it's normal to get 2700 likes in 24hrs on bumble

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comm...2500_likes_is/



Reddit guy wonders why he hasn't got 1 like in 4 months on bumble



https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comm..._in_4_what_am/
post 1692443633 10-28-2023, 06:50 AM
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You have to consider a decent looking chic is getting bombarded with messages. She can take her pic. While probably 100 different guys is trying to strike up a conversation.with a chic.

If you get 1 response out of every 10 messages you send you are doing well.
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post 1692444073 10-28-2023, 07:08 AM
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The disparity is pretty incredible.

Women have always had the power in dating/mating but online dating ramps it up 10 fold.
post 1692444343 10-28-2023, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
That's why I deleted my apps.
Loads of men and women would be MORE than happy to do this were it not for the fact it’s actually quite difficult to meet people outside of online dating now.

What a world we live in eh.
post 1692444363 10-28-2023, 07:15 AM
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It is not enough to be white anymore.

They know about the white privilege. So you have to find a way to lower your whiteness by being the opposite of whiteout.
post 1692444403 10-28-2023, 07:16 AM
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probably cuz aaron is 38

its over after 30 for most men too
post 1692444533 10-28-2023, 07:19 AM
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It's nothing new but yeh it's pretty mind blowing when you think about it


There's roughly the same amount of women as there is men in the world


It doesn't even equate to the 80/20 rule, it's more like 0.01/99.99
post 1692458723 10-28-2023, 12:12 PM
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Was also out today in a club and saw pretty much every girl no matter their looks get hit on multiple times by different guys
post 1692458953 10-28-2023, 12:19 PM
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OP it helps if you mention the woman in the reddit post is 19. It explains pretty much everything.
Originally Posted By mcdojo
Was also out today in a club and saw pretty much every girl no matter their looks get hit on multiple times by different guys
it must be a club thing. I have been to bars, pubs, most any other public place and I rarely see dudes shooting their shots with women. The most I will see is some dude eyeing some girl but won't do anything; everyone just stays in their own clique.
post 1692459043 10-28-2023, 12:23 PM
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post 1692459053 10-28-2023, 12:23 PM
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post 1692459103 10-28-2023, 12:24 PM
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You wouldn't even have 2700 women to swipe on in 1 day as a man. The apps are sausage parties. Real women don't use them.
post 1692459233 10-28-2023, 12:28 PM
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Yeah but out of those thousands most of those dudes are likely really unattractive, poor, goofy, creeper or stalkerish/mentally ill. The few that she does want are gonna really stand out. U have to make yourself standout somehow, that’s the key to the online dating game. While you can’t really change your height or face (technically you can), ANYONE can become rich or have an amazing body. Just takes a lot of effort but if you want it bad enough…
post 1692459433 10-28-2023, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
Yeah but out of those thousands most of those dudes are likely really unattractive, poor, goofy, creeper or stalkerish/mentally ill. The few that she does want are gonna really stand out. U have to make yourself standout somehow, that’s the key to the online dating game. While you can’t really change your height or face (technically you can), ANYONE can become rich or have an amazing body. Just takes a lot of effort but if you want it bad enough…
Not really true. Tons of Chads these days. If you make an account it shows you all the Chads first anyways.
post 1692459553 10-28-2023, 12:34 PM
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i remember back when i, a 6.8/10 at the time, could pull rather easily from tinder (around 2014)

now, expecting anything even remotely promising to come from them is utterly laughable.
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post 1692460883 10-28-2023, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh
i remember back when i, a 6.8/10 at the time, could pull rather easily from tinder (around 2014)

now, expecting anything even remotely promising to come from them is utterly laughable.
I'm like an 8.5 and get 0 matches
post 1692460953 10-28-2023, 01:00 PM
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Guys just swipe right to everything to increase their chances. Doesn't really say a whole lot.
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post 1692461093 10-28-2023, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
Loads of men and women would be MORE than happy to do this were it not for the fact it’s actually quite difficult to meet people outside of online dating now.

What a world we live in eh.
Yeah I’m sure women HATE being able to pick any man they want out of 2700. I feel so bad for them
post 1692461123 10-28-2023, 01:04 PM
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Wheatwaffle did an experiment where a guy swipped on 16k girls and only ended up with 3 actual dates that never lead to anything



. Also he recently got expelled for doing youtube video on campus where he was asking girls to rate guy's photos in which most men scored under 6/10

post 1692461213 10-28-2023, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh
i remember back when i, a 6.8/10 at the time, could pull rather easily from tinder (around 2014)

now, expecting anything even remotely promising to come from them is utterly laughable.
5 years ago I used to get dates and lays with cute chicks on tinder now I can’t get a like on any app and I look the same idk what changed.
post 1692461253 10-28-2023, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby
Yeah I’m sure women HATE being able to pick any man they want out of 2700. I feel so bad for them
yeah and people will cope and say they all just want sex. Or most of them are creepy. Or that it's overwhelming to have so many matches...........
post 1692461323 10-28-2023, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby
5 years ago I used to get dates and lays with cute chicks on tinder now I can’t get a like on any app and I look the same idk what changed.
I use the literal same pictures and get no matches after 2019. I'm not even getting respones on seeking.com anymore and I used to get spammed messaged by stacies.
post 1692461383 10-28-2023, 01:08 PM
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Honestly don't understand how most men are coping.
post 1692461403 10-28-2023, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
That's why I deleted my apps.

You're just another face in a human catalogue.
lmao. well said.
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post 1692464163 10-28-2023, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
Honestly don't understand how most men are coping.
Idk porn and video games?
post 1692464243 10-28-2023, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby
Idk porn and video games?
idk how grown men play video games. I was a pro Wow player i mean rank 1 playing 16 hours a day. I stopped after 19. **** is so boring as an adult. I rather get laid.
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post 1692464393 10-28-2023, 02:11 PM
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When I was on the dating apps women messaged me.

After a few months my bio said "I don’t care about this, send me a message and I'll give you my number" Most of the girls sent me messages asking if I was actually 6'5 and left their numbers. There was a lot of dates where the women said men frauded their heights.

This was 2010, before the ratios got bad.
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it doesnt matter really, she will get passed around by a few chads and scream all men are bad in the end. Will end up settling with a cuck
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the point of the apps is for the companies to make money, not for you to get pussy
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