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post 1692550513 10-30-2023, 08:43 AM
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So my son's mother didn't even put

Up a Xmas tree for our son last year. Can only hope that's not the case this year. He is 3. Can you imagine being that age and not waking up Xmas morning and sitting under the tree opening your xmas presents?

What is she thinking/ doing?

It's amazing how you really think you know someone and all the sudden you see someone different.

This is not what we had planned for our beautiful son.

It's heartbreaking.
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And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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That sucks but ultimately you are half of the blame for this. You chose her, you made a child, then you decided to split up, and now your child is clearly suffering for decisions made by the parents, on both sides.

I'm sure that's not what you want to here lol and I'm sorry.

Just do your best to make sure your Xmas time with your kid is extra special.
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Originally Posted By freeburn
That sucks but ultimately you are half of the blame for this. You chose her, you made a child, then you decided to split up, and now your child is clearly suffering for decisions made by the parents, on both sides.

I'm sure that's not what you want to here lol and I'm sorry.

Just do your best to make sure your Xmas time with your kid is extra special.
You dknt knkw whatbyou are talking about. Shd took my son and left
. I woukd have never lf broken the home apart
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post 1692555183 10-30-2023, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And you missed his first 2 Christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
Get off your high horse azz hole caus you don't know what the hell you are talking about. I haven't taken drugs in years and last xmas I went into a treatment centerr to quit drinking and get off my prescrubed meds.

I had things fixed on my end. I'm guessing you are a bad alcoholic.
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Three horrible types of people to be around: recovering addicts / alcoholics, Born again Christians and vegans / vegetarians...Super DFS

That aside, GL with the your recovery OP but please STFU about your personal life and of course, negged!
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Originally Posted By metroins
Bruh.

You are likely bipolar. See a psychiatrist, srs. Not joking.
Why would you think I'm bipolar based on what I said?

I'm not bi polar
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Originally Posted By latverian41
You dknt knkw whatbyou are talking about. Shd took my son and left
. I woukd have never lf broken the home apart
Damn, my comment pushed OP right off the wagon.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Damn, my comment pushed OP right off the wagon.
Don't flatter your self. There is no wagon to fall off. I don't drink. I'm not an alcoholic. Can you say the same? I'm guessing not.
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Originally Posted By hayzues
and you missed his first 2 christmases high on meth or passed out drunk.
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Alcoholic / drug addict is in denial and accuses others of having his addictions...JFL

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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Alcoholic / drug addict is in denial and accuses others of having his addictions...JFL

What am I in denial of fat boy?I haven't used a drug in years. And I'm am addict?

I don't drink anymore and I'm am alcoholic
Right.

Shame you can't get rid of your case of the uglies and drop that huge gut and triple chins.

I'm no onger an addict to anything. You on the other hand. An addict to food sugar and being an ugly fat slob
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Originally Posted By SiegHeilbrah
i think that is terrible OP. ignore the jew crew trying to bring you down for celebrating a Christian holiday.
Lol. Thanks man.

I have a very good ability to ignore stupidity . Bunch of idiots who clesrly hate the world cause they hate themselves

I'm guessing some fatties hiding behind an avi here perpetrating as if they live a healthy lifestyle and workout

Such people always are nasty . That's all they know
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Alcoholic / drug addict is in denial about his addictions and projects his faults onto others...JFL

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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Alcoholic / drug addict is in denial about his addictions and projects his faults onto others...JFL

That's already been answered to fat ass. Try another one
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Originally Posted By latverian41
What am I in denial of fat boy?I haven't used a drug in years. And I'm am addict?

I don't drink anymore and I'm am alcoholic
Right.

Shame you can't get rid of your case of the uglies and drop that huge gut and triple chins.

I'm no onger an addict to anything. You on the other hand. An addict to food sugar and being an ugly fat slob
OK, but you were at one point.

Were you using when she left you and took your son?

If that's the case who in their right mind would blame her? I would never let my child be around my significant other if they were a drug addict.

And I'd be very weary of someone who was a former drug addict.

Stop trying to act like you're the victim. Your past drug and alcohol addiction are pretty much exactly why you're in this position today.
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Originally Posted By metroins
You should look up bipolar, the diagnostic side.

Impulse control issues. Usually lacking in awareness of owns impact on others. Likely you have severe mood swings.

A typical addict.
Wrong on all fronts

You should look up what assumptions make out of those who make them.

Never got high in my life till I was 33 yrs old. Drank the first time at almost 23

Jail first time at 37 for forgetting court date.car insurance expired.

Not an addict in any way. Was once long ago


Try again
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Originally Posted By freeburn
OK, but you were at one point.

Were you using when she left you and took your son?

If that's the case who in their right mind would blame her? I would never let my child be around my significant other if they were a drug addict.

And I'd be very weary of someone who was a former drug addict.

Stop trying to act like you're the victim. Your past drug and alcohol addiction are pretty much exactly why you're in this position today.
Again wrong in all you sajd...
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Originally Posted By latverian41
Lol. Thanks man.

I have a very good ability to ignore stupidity . Bunch of idiots who clesrly hate the world cause they hate themselves

I'm guessing some fatties hiding behind an avi here perpetrating as if they live a healthy lifestyle and workout

Such people always are nasty . That's all they know
Bro, you are literally a jew. You have semite blood running in your veins. 100% full authentic Sephardic jewish blood. Even ashekenazims can't claim 100% full authentic jewishness by DNA, so you got that over them.

No xmas is ok, just celebrate Hanukkah. Buy your kids a Driedel and learn the dreidel song. Light the candles and celebrate the retaking of jerusalem.

Bring your DNA test to a conservative synagogue and get circumcised. 100% chance of being able to migrate to israel then. All your children by DNA will be considered jews as well.

Since you got a lot of white in you, just identify as ashkenazim instead of sephardic, they're richer, smarter and better connected. They'll get you the top jobs, and help you all the way to the top. They love lost tribe people, especially white asheknazim verified by DNA.

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Originally Posted By KBurn
Bro, you are literally a jew. You have semite blood running in your veins. 100% full authentic Sephardic jewish blood. Even ashekenazims can't claim 100% full authentic jewishness by DNA, so you got that over them.

No xmas is ok, just celebrate Hanukkah. Buy your kids a Driedel and learn the dreidel song. Light the candles and celebrate the retaking of jerusalem.

Bring your DNA test to a conservative synagogue and get circumcised. 100% chance of being able to migrate to israel then. All your children by DNA will be considered jews as well.

Since you got a lot of white in you, just identify as ashkenazim instead of sephardic, they're richer, smarter and better connected. They'll get you the top jobs, and help you all the way to the top. They love lost tribe people, especially white asheknazim verified by DNA.

I'd like to be able to get excited about that bro but the truth is I've just never gotten into this group of people is better than that group of people based on things like religion or color or nationality..

The only thing that makes one man better than another man is actions and behaviors. That should always be the ONLY measuring stick when it comes to that.

If I were to do something like that I wouldn't claim ashkinenze because my blood line is Sephardic..I defiantly took after my grandfather in that regard with tan skin and jet black hair. I was just made to feel it was something I had to hide or be ashamed of when I was a kid. The anti Semitic remarks I'd take I always just laughed off cause they never bothered me. Still don't bother me

My friends high school football coach when I'd walk in the gym would say "here comes the big nosed jew". That chit doesn't bother me. I'd like to see the guy try and get away with that today though.

I don't care what your religion. Is a kid should be able to decorate a tree and out cookies and milk under it and think Santa clause is bringing toys. Why rob your son or daughter of that happiness and special part of growing up?

It makes no sense and I just can't believe this is what she has turned into and allowing to be done to our boy..
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot
Alcoholic / drug addict is in denial and accuses others of having his addictions...JFL

Again you are clueless and I AM NOT THE ONE WHO CANT ACCEPT THE TRUTH.

You don't know what my life's been or how or why I have PTSD , or this or that. I could have and would have beat my additions a he'll of a lot sooner than I did if not for mental disturbed peoples GAMES.

Most people can't break their addictions under normal circumstances. It's a miracle of God I was even able to BUT I DID.

I don't have to justify my self to you. I know the truth. I have no issues looking my self in the mirror and acknowledging the truth. Which is more than I can say for some.

All some fools have is MONEY and a false twisted sense of what's right and wrong.

So if you want to come here and make ridiculous post and say stupid chit. All I can say is knock yourself out and go for what you know.

Odds are you and those like you who come here and act a fool and disrupt threads with insults and stupid remarks for no other reason than to be doing it is likely just a carry over for what your real world life is probably like. And most likely a fat ugly slob who has never held a chic unless it was an escort/hooker. Using a fake avid and perpetrating like you are a real miscer..

This thread was meant to be about a serious topic . I'll respond now only to those who have a legit opinion on it.

Now go eat some ho hos and zingers.
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Originally Posted By latverian41
Again you are clueless and I AM NOT THE ONE WHO CANT ACCEPT THE TRUTH.

You don't know what my life's been or how or why I have PTSD , or this or that. I could have and would have beat my additions a he'll of a lot sooner than I did if not for mental disturbed peoples GAMES.

Most people can't break their addictions under normal circumstances. It's a miracle of God I was even able to BUT I DID.

I don't have to justify my self to you. I know the truth. I have no issues looking my self in the mirror and acknowledging the truth. Which is more than I can say for some.

All some fools have is MONEY and a false twisted sense of what's right and wrong.

So if you want to come here and make ridiculous post and say stupid chit. All I can say is knock yourself out and go for what you know.

Odds are you and those like you who come here and act a fool and disrupt threads with insults and stupid remarks for no other reason than to be doing it is likely just a carry over for what your real world life is probably like. And most likely a fat ugly slob who has never held a chic unless it was an escort/hooker. Using a fake avid and perpetrating like you are a real miscer..

This thread was meant to be about a serious topic . I'll respond now only to those who have a legit opinion on it.

Now go eat some ho hos and zingers.
Chill dude, misc isn’t that serious. Good luck to you and your son.
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She’s getting piped up and can care less about the tree.

Sorry for your situation opie srs.
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791
She’s getting piped up and can care less about the tree.

Sorry for your situation opie srs.
Thanks bro

"She could care less about the tree"

Isn't that a phucking sad statement to make. Especially considering it's true.

All I can do is cry and pray for my son. In her head she really thinks all these small little things don't matter.
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Originally Posted By latverian41
ashkinenze
'mirin spelling skills, but I can tell your DGAF about jews or your jewish heritage. which is both a good and bad thing.

Everyone in high school will make fun of everything bro. If you were 100% white with blue eyes and blond hair, they'll call you mien fuhrer. You're a fukking 40+ y/o man, fuk high school if it made you sad, srs. High school is a test of taking it and dishing it out, was the best time of my life, but I know not ideal for everyone.

Just explore your Sephardic heritage mate, since you got a lot of those features. If your kid got no xmas, just get them a driedel and light candles for hanukkah.

You can check my posts, I'm super anti-israel, but I'm cool with jews who are cool. You're right, everyone is ultimately an individual, jews that think like that, and can see how evil israel is cool by my book. The main issues with them is the evil ones are super evil, which makes everyone hate them, and they throw all the other jews under the bus too. The religion is fukked too, especially the more orthodox you go. Liberal synagogues are mostly quite cool.
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