What do you even do after getting a career?

11-13-2023, 01:45 PM

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#91

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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩

True, but the height combined with age is a big barrier. I look young, can still pass as mid 20s, but I'm not going to lie about my age if a woman asks me. Problem is most other women in their 30s are all used up coom dumpsters. I'm realistic, I'm not hard and fast looking for a virgin, but I don't want someone who has been run through and is just looking for someone to give her a baby because her biological clock is ticking. Seems like a great way to have her cheat on me 5-10 years down the road.

And I don't see many 7/10+ women in their 20s going for a 35 y/o 5'6" guy.

They have all been run through brah.

11-13-2023, 01:53 PM

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#92

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Originally Posted By brooootal⏩

They have all been run through brah.

yes, listen to wincel, the 40 year old virgin

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11-13-2023, 08:51 PM

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#93

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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩

I enjoy the monotony. I don't really have regular work hours, but when I'm not working I just play trumpet/piano, watch sports, listen to music, or game, and I'm completely happy. Could be different for me though because I can always learn a new piece of music that is more difficult and that challenges me. Ideally I would have liked to start a family, but that ship has sailed at this point.

I mean yea I’m content and relatively happy but I think that’s part of the issue. Is that I’m too comfortable to challenge myself to see any significant change but yea it boils down to a lack of direction

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11-13-2023, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩

35 years old, 5'6"

Nowhere to meet anyone I would actually want to be my wife/mother of my kids at this point. I should have been more serious about dating in HS and college, it's a much more natural atmosphere to get to know someone. Now the only options are bars/clubs (full of sloots) and dating sites/apps (full of sloots, and heavily skewed towards Chads). I don't have a regular office job, but even if I did I wouldn't try to date someone there as I'd be risking sexual harassment suit/HR discipline/getting fired. The only other option is cold approaching like waitresses or women I see out in stores but I really don't have the confidence for that without getting to know them first.

It’s rare but you can find women with honest intentions on dating apps just gotta play the numbers game but at your age you gotta accept they’re gonna have some baggage

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11-14-2023, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩

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You should brah. Capowt is in Japan and needs a study partner for the language.

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11-14-2023, 12:59 AM

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#96

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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩

I have a girlfriend now lol

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11-14-2023, 12:59 AM

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I can finally afford to do all the stuff I wanted to when I was broke in my 20s. Travel, indulge in my hobbies, go out regularly and not really worry about spending money. I wfh so I get to see my family a lot. It's pretty awesome.

11-14-2023, 01:19 AM

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Originally Posted By BigElephant⏩

I'd be feigning interest there, not a great way to start a relationship. I've seen some guys mention try at church, but I can't imagine women are too receptive to guys trying to pick them up after Mass/service lol.

They’re not.

No one meets girls to date at sports leagues or book clubs etc, or church unless they are really good looking and sociable.

1-7/10 men won’t meet girls to date at public places and 8+/10s will but will have to date down still.

11-14-2023, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted By MiscerLonely⏩

They’re not.

No one meets girls to date at sports leagues or book clubs etc, or church unless they are really good looking and sociable.

1-7/10 men won’t meet girls to date at public places and 8+/10s will but will have to date down still.

Well they definitely don't want to meet lower tier men on tinder, so pick your spot.

11-14-2023, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted By WABeast⏩

You should brah. Capowt is in Japan and needs a study partner for the language.

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11-16-2023, 04:03 PM

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#101

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Originally Posted By WABeast⏩

You should brah. Capowt is in Japan and needs a study partner for the language.

Nah you can blame Clive

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11-17-2023, 05:44 AM

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#102

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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩

Nah you can blame Clive

Oi dickhead, was srs about japanese

11-17-2023, 05:49 AM

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#103

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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩

No I downloaded the MeetUp social networking app to see if there’s any local Japanese study clubs but it’s all online only

It would be easier if I had a friend or someone in person that actually speaks fluently versus me just watching countless hours of YouTube video and anime in Japanese

I learned a lot of Japanese watching One Piece the anime subbed. SUGGOOOOIII WATASHI JMAL2000 DESU

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