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Some women go to work and are miserable because they want to be stay at home wives/mothers.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
basedSome women go to work and are miserable because they want to be stay at home wives/mothers.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
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11-28-2023, 03:37 PM
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11-28-2023, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted By DuracellBunny⏩
The problem is everyone thinks they are a unicorn when in reality they are a trained lab chimp. We have 30 skinner boxes all vying for our attention and have been conditioned to become something. Our predispositions give us some control over what buttons we push, but we are more the same than we are different.Some women go to work and are miserable because they want to be stay at home wives/mothers.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
Some women are stay at home wives/mothers and are miserable because they want to go out to work.
There is no one size fits all solution in regards to marriage, which is what causes many divorces.
Everybody has a mental construct of what they think an ideal marriage is, which doesn't survive actuallygettingmarried, as the world isn't run by unicorns who fart skittles.
Marriage is a contract, and as with any contract, relies onconsideration. People need to be upfront about what they want from the marriage, what they are willing to give, where the redline etc arebeforegetting married. You need to find the type of marriage that works for the two ofyou, not some idealised version of yourselves that inhabit a fake utopia.
Society has tossed away the lessons of the past. Though dusting off the ole playbook of the past in modern times isn't going to work either.
Just be careful VERY few women today have the skills or the mentality of a June Cleaver and having a stay at home wife is almost certainly going to leave you with another dependent.
11-28-2023, 04:08 PM
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That's why you get a religious VERY traditional girl, not modern feminist liberal scum of the earth.
11-28-2023, 04:34 PM
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Friendly reminder OP has never even talked to a female so he doesn't need to worry about this topic.
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11-28-2023, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By illriginalized⏩
Every girl I know who was homeschooled became a turbo sloot the second she moved out I’m talking prostitute levels of slootiness. like insane degeneracy and filth just something to keep in mind.lol…
My wife and I taught our daughter single digit addition and subtraction between 3-4 years old. She’s 5 now and obliterates 2nd grade students and not just in math. She’s a homeschooled child.
The same will be done with my son.
Enjoy your modernist degenerate low brow lifestyle.
Stay mad.
My wife and I taught our daughter single digit addition and subtraction between 3-4 years old. She’s 5 now and obliterates 2nd grade students and not just in math. She’s a homeschooled child.
The same will be done with my son.
Enjoy your modernist degenerate low brow lifestyle.
Stay mad.
11-28-2023, 06:37 PM
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If she isn't raising kids she better be working that's all I gotta say.
My wife is planning to home school our youngins (we have not and will not vaccinate them so they aren't allowed to go to public or private school) so she's going to have her hands full for the foreseeable future.
If your wife wants to be stay at home without kids or a farm to tend or something then you picked the wrong one srs
My wife is planning to home school our youngins (we have not and will not vaccinate them so they aren't allowed to go to public or private school) so she's going to have her hands full for the foreseeable future.
If your wife wants to be stay at home without kids or a farm to tend or something then you picked the wrong one srs
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11-28-2023, 07:26 PM
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Theres about a dozen or so responses of miscers saying their wife is stay at home for the kids followed by some random insults thrown in but almost all of them dodge the question on if their stay at home wife makes them 3 meals a day and does all the household cleaning.
WTF does she do all day? what about when the kids are in school for 7-8 hours, she just goes to brunch with her friends? She makes you do chores, your own laundry ect after working all day?
WTF does she do all day? what about when the kids are in school for 7-8 hours, she just goes to brunch with her friends? She makes you do chores, your own laundry ect after working all day?
11-28-2023, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted By 87dman⏩
If they are leftovers from the dinner she cooked and she packed it all up for you then that still counts. Every guy I know with a stay at home wife she doesnt even do thatWife stays at home and she does the cooking all week and my lunches are usually leftovers, but sometimes something she packs for me fresh. I do the outside work of the lawn, she stays home takes care of kids and house work....a great arrangement for us.
11-28-2023, 07:29 PM
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Hey Opie, what does silencespeaks think of the topic?
11-28-2023, 07:31 PM
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No such thing as a “stay at home wife”
It’s “stay at home MOM”.
You’re supposed to put a baby in your wife. She’s meant to be busy caring for your children. What kind of idiot marries a woman, doesn’t knock her up and lets her stay at home?????
It’s “stay at home MOM”.
You’re supposed to put a baby in your wife. She’s meant to be busy caring for your children. What kind of idiot marries a woman, doesn’t knock her up and lets her stay at home?????
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Originally Posted By frankdtank20⏩
This is no straw man. I know multiple guys like this. This thread is very clear, I am not arguing working vs stay at home. I am talking about all these guys I see come in with no lunch or gas station food and the wife is at home all day and they got kids at school or teenagers. The wife goes hangs out with their other stay at home friends in the middle of the day and doesnt take care of family chores. These guys do their own laundry and have to find their own food.I'm confused by this thread, OP. Seems like you're making up strawmen. Wives with zero kids who are stay at home wives, having 2 hour chardonnay laden lunches with their girlfriends? You don't know people like that, at most you know one. They're rare. Wives who stay at home practically all have at least 2 kids they're taking care of. Changing diapers, reading lessons, running errands, etc. How's that a problem? Sure there's a gray area where the kids are all in school and the wife is still 100% at home, but that's up to individual circumstances and even then can still make sense.
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Originally Posted By Mercworx⏩
Even if they have kids or not that isnt even the point. The point even if they got kids, the wife isnt just there staring at the kids for 8 hours, a lot of these women dont make the meals for the husband or do his laundry or clean the house.No such thing as a “stay at home wife”
It’s “stay at home MOM”.
You’re supposed to put a baby in your wife. She’s meant to be busy caring for your children. What kind of idiot marries a woman, doesn’t knock her up and lets her stay at home?????
It’s “stay at home MOM”.
You’re supposed to put a baby in your wife. She’s meant to be busy caring for your children. What kind of idiot marries a woman, doesn’t knock her up and lets her stay at home?????
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
This is exactly what I am talking about. And these women all seem to seek out each other and form their "cliques" and meet up to do yoga, brunch ect in the middle of the week while the husband works all day and pays for everything. Then their husbands dont even have lunch or breakfast made for them and some of them have to cook their own dinner.I agree with this.
I have 2 buddies who have stay at home wives......they're on opposite ends of the economic spectrum though.
1 buddy comes from a rich family and is in line to take over the family construction business....lives on paid for land in a paid for house, drives paid for cars, makes like $200k and doesnt have to spend any of it, will inherit multiple millions worth of assets.Wife stays at home to "raise" their 1 daughter.....and she hates it. Hands her off to grandma 3/4 days a week and goes to the gym, goes shopping, hangs out with friends. They're talking about putting her in daycare because of the "mental effects" it's having on his wife. The dude takes care of damn near everything too. She sometimes cooks and does just enough laundry to get by, but they pay a company to clean their house 2x week. I'm about at my wits end with them as friends. I just cant even take them seriously anymore.
Other buddy makes like $50k/year and they're barely scraping by....long story short with them is that she quite working "because she wasn't even making enough to cover daycare" which was a complete lie, they never even looked into daycare.....and she pretty much ONLY watched the kid while he's at work, does absolutely nothing else and as soon as he walks in the door, she hands him the kid and leaves the house to go to the gym. She's constantly complaining about being so drained all the time and never having any money. He cleans & does the grocery shopping on the weekend, preps all his own meals AND is going to night school to finish his degree. All she does is complain about everything and never does anything let along anything to fix "her problems"
We all used to be good friends till we all had kids and we're seeing how different we all really are.
I have 2 buddies who have stay at home wives......they're on opposite ends of the economic spectrum though.
1 buddy comes from a rich family and is in line to take over the family construction business....lives on paid for land in a paid for house, drives paid for cars, makes like $200k and doesnt have to spend any of it, will inherit multiple millions worth of assets.Wife stays at home to "raise" their 1 daughter.....and she hates it. Hands her off to grandma 3/4 days a week and goes to the gym, goes shopping, hangs out with friends. They're talking about putting her in daycare because of the "mental effects" it's having on his wife. The dude takes care of damn near everything too. She sometimes cooks and does just enough laundry to get by, but they pay a company to clean their house 2x week. I'm about at my wits end with them as friends. I just cant even take them seriously anymore.
Other buddy makes like $50k/year and they're barely scraping by....long story short with them is that she quite working "because she wasn't even making enough to cover daycare" which was a complete lie, they never even looked into daycare.....and she pretty much ONLY watched the kid while he's at work, does absolutely nothing else and as soon as he walks in the door, she hands him the kid and leaves the house to go to the gym. She's constantly complaining about being so drained all the time and never having any money. He cleans & does the grocery shopping on the weekend, preps all his own meals AND is going to night school to finish his degree. All she does is complain about everything and never does anything let along anything to fix "her problems"
We all used to be good friends till we all had kids and we're seeing how different we all really are.
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
Good thing we’re a Muslim family. Not a degenerate family.Every girl I know who was homeschooled became a turbo sloot the second she moved out I’m talking prostitute levels of slootiness. like insane degeneracy and filth just something to keep in mind.
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This is why you need to marry the right woman.
Most women are not gf or wife material, let alone mother or STAHM material in 2023. It's a fact. They have been completely deluded and propagandized against it. They crumble at any inconvenience. Trust me, most men are pathetic nowadays too, so the argument goes both ways.
It's actually shocking how fukked up women are nowadays from the man's perspective. But there are some good women out there that would thrive in that environment given the husband is the right guy.
The world is in a purgatory like state right now socially and culturally. There is going to be A LOT of splinter groups of cultures happening in the near future.
Most women are not gf or wife material, let alone mother or STAHM material in 2023. It's a fact. They have been completely deluded and propagandized against it. They crumble at any inconvenience. Trust me, most men are pathetic nowadays too, so the argument goes both ways.
It's actually shocking how fukked up women are nowadays from the man's perspective. But there are some good women out there that would thrive in that environment given the husband is the right guy.
The world is in a purgatory like state right now socially and culturally. There is going to be A LOT of splinter groups of cultures happening in the near future.
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I done having the stay at home gf three times, It actually boost me tremendously into focusing on my company and growing. All three times it was nothing but gains. These were in a period of 10 years. Having a woman by your side that treats you like a king, brings your food to the table, blows and ****s because she wants to pleasure you its a fukin dopamine boost that will triple any income she could make. This only works if you are alpha and not a wage cuck, with a lazy gf that doesnt treat you right its all downhill.
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Ultimate cuckIn on page 2 of copecel thread.
Whether a wife stays at home or not a decision taken by the couple. The amazing thing about divorcedcels, bittercels and incels is that they assume what other relationships must be like. Whatallrelationships (e.g., marriages) MUST be like.
It is just their coping mechanism if I'm honest. Happily married crew checking in - with a 4 month old at home, my wife stays at home. Imagine putting a 4 month old in day care or some other care facility, and then wondering why that kid grows up to be an absolute mess (aka, your average miscer).
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Whether a wife stays at home or not a decision taken by the couple. The amazing thing about divorcedcels, bittercels and incels is that they assume what other relationships must be like. Whatallrelationships (e.g., marriages) MUST be like.
It is just their coping mechanism if I'm honest. Happily married crew checking in - with a 4 month old at home, my wife stays at home. Imagine putting a 4 month old in day care or some other care facility, and then wondering why that kid grows up to be an absolute mess (aka, your average miscer).
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My reasoning for why the stay at home wife culture doesn't work in this modern time compared to the old days, is because nowadays we have a lot more things to do, because of technological advancements, so women shouldn't be kept out of that. Back then, all we did was hunt, fight wars, farm, mine, gather fruits and cut wood, so it made sense for women to stay at home and for men to do the heavy labor outside.
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
My wife has been a stay at home mom for 14 years now. She cooks dinner every night and makes a lunch for me to take to work every night. The only meal she doesn't make for me is the small snack/meal I make when I get home from work before going to bed. She makes the kids breakfast and packs their school lunches too. She takes them to school and picks them up every day. She also cleans and runs the dishes every day. I do the laundry because I like to hang up my work clothes immediately out of the dryer and I like to get my laundry put away right away. Its one of my few OCDs to leave laundry in the dryer and let it get wrinkly so I take care of that.Theres about a dozen or so responses of miscers saying their wife is stay at home for the kids followed by some random insults thrown in but almost all of them dodge the question on if their stay at home wife makes them 3 meals a day and does all the household cleaning.
WTF does she do all day? what about when the kids are in school for 7-8 hours, she just goes to brunch with her friends? She makes you do chores, your own laundry ect after working all day?
WTF does she do all day? what about when the kids are in school for 7-8 hours, she just goes to brunch with her friends? She makes you do chores, your own laundry ect after working all day?
Most of the guys on my night shift only get a couple hours of sleep during the day because their wives work so they have to get up and pick up their kids, or take them to sports or dance, or they have to stay awake to watch the kids because they're super young. I've never had to do that
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Stay at home mom is one thing that can be debatable since there's kids in the mix.
But a stay at home wife with no kids? LMFAO
Brb her lifestyle is fully funded by the man, along with the bills in the house that she was pressing him to move herself into via moving in. But as a result he has to work more hours, which in turn means less time to spend with the bitch, who in turn feels lonely, and steps out to fcuk with the dude that's not doing any of that chit her man is doing(Since marriage has a +50% fail rate, initiated by 70% of the women at the least)
Stay at home girlfriend? Donate yo nuts to bitches that want to be men, they'll make proper use of them.
But a stay at home wife with no kids? LMFAO
Brb her lifestyle is fully funded by the man, along with the bills in the house that she was pressing him to move herself into via moving in. But as a result he has to work more hours, which in turn means less time to spend with the bitch, who in turn feels lonely, and steps out to fcuk with the dude that's not doing any of that chit her man is doing(Since marriage has a +50% fail rate, initiated by 70% of the women at the least)
Stay at home girlfriend? Donate yo nuts to bitches that want to be men, they'll make proper use of them.
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The problem is not stay home moms. The problem is with bad wives. If you chose a lazy wife that does nothing then that is on you. She will be a piece of **** in any situation.
I guarantee that almost every situation of a bad stay at home mom you can point to, I can point to red flag that was ignored
I guarantee that almost every situation of a bad stay at home mom you can point to, I can point to red flag that was ignored
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In my opinion these issues are the fault of the man. A lot of dudes are basically just doormats in relationships. They don't command respect or any real love or adoration. If a woman truly loves a man. She'll do just about anything for him. The level of disrespect I see girls throwing at their boyfriends/husbands is just ridiculous. At the same time, lots of those guys don't deserve any respect.
If you want a woman that's interested in staying home, raising kids, cooking, cleaning, tending your house/errands, etc. marry that type of woman. If she isn't willing to do all that stuff at your house before you marry her. GL getting her to do all that stuff after you marry her. If you are financially inept and cannot afford a stay at home wife. Maybe you need an 'equal partner' who can work and contribute to your house-hold finances. If that's the type of girl you marry. Don't be surprised if she only works and comes home and lays on the couch scrolling on social media.
But first and foremost if you are dating a girl and she has 0 interesting in cooking for you, cleaning your home, and helping you out around your home. She is most likely not worth your time. If she can't cook and isn't trying to learn or at least trying to fix something for you. She's not wife material.
If a girl is truly interested in a man and respects him. She'll do things she wouldn't normally do for him. If she aint making an effort just use her for her value. Her pussy. Don't put a ring on it.
If you want a woman that's interested in staying home, raising kids, cooking, cleaning, tending your house/errands, etc. marry that type of woman. If she isn't willing to do all that stuff at your house before you marry her. GL getting her to do all that stuff after you marry her. If you are financially inept and cannot afford a stay at home wife. Maybe you need an 'equal partner' who can work and contribute to your house-hold finances. If that's the type of girl you marry. Don't be surprised if she only works and comes home and lays on the couch scrolling on social media.
But first and foremost if you are dating a girl and she has 0 interesting in cooking for you, cleaning your home, and helping you out around your home. She is most likely not worth your time. If she can't cook and isn't trying to learn or at least trying to fix something for you. She's not wife material.
If a girl is truly interested in a man and respects him. She'll do things she wouldn't normally do for him. If she aint making an effort just use her for her value. Her pussy. Don't put a ring on it.
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Originally Posted By illriginalized⏩
Lmfao it’s over for youGood thing we’re a Muslim family. Not a degenerate family.
All the women I knew growing up who had overbearing Muslim parents grew up to be even bigger sloots than the homeschooled girls. Being homeschooled and having traditional Muslim parents are probably the biggest predictors of slootiness besides drugs and abuse.
12-01-2023, 03:29 AM
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Originally Posted By wrassler45⏩
There are plenty of 'stay at home wives' that are absolutely miserable. So you're right and the duracel brah above is right too. It's not one size fits all. If you've built a relationship on love, mutual respect, adaptive and open communication, working on seeing eye to eye on the big things, fair division of labor, open-mindedness, and not being afraid to address issues when they manifest instead of letting them burrow in and grow and infect like a cancer, it doesn't matter if one of you is a stay at home spouse/parent or not. You make it work. There are plenty of spouses who both work/parents who both work and raise children and are doing just fine. At the same time, there are plenty of people who've chosen the stay at home route and make it work as well. Flip side of the coin is that there are also many that don't make it work. You win some, you lose some.The problem is not stay home moms. The problem is with bad wives. If you chose a lazy wife that does nothing then that is on you. She will be a piece of **** in any situation.
I guarantee that almost every situation of a bad stay at home mom you can point to, I can point to red flag that was ignored
I guarantee that almost every situation of a bad stay at home mom you can point to, I can point to red flag that was ignored
You're dealing with human beings, after all. Fundamentally-flawed, can't get our schit together species. Many people can't make relationships work because they can't think of anyone but themselves and satisfying their own immediate needs - male or female.
Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
Here's a positively shocking revelation approaching 2024....an authoritarian approach does not work. You'd think we'd have enough accrued data over the years to change our ways. That's religion, though.Lmfao it’s over for you
All the women I knew growing up who had overbearing Muslim parents grew up to be even bigger sloots than the homeschooled girls. Being homeschooled and having traditional Muslim parents are probably the biggest predictors of slootiness besides drugs and abuse.
All the women I knew growing up who had overbearing Muslim parents grew up to be even bigger sloots than the homeschooled girls. Being homeschooled and having traditional Muslim parents are probably the biggest predictors of slootiness besides drugs and abuse.
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I loved being a stay at home Mom but I was more of the type who loved it so I could play with our child and take her fun places.
We have a cleaning service and I’m a vegetarian so he cooks his own meals. I would make lunches for her but he would cook dinner as she’s almost vegetarian but not quite.
We have a cleaning service and I’m a vegetarian so he cooks his own meals. I would make lunches for her but he would cook dinner as she’s almost vegetarian but not quite.
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
Brootal!Lmfao it’s over for you
All the women I knew growing up who had overbearing Muslim parents grew up to be even bigger sloots than the homeschooled girls. Being homeschooled and having traditional Muslim parents are probably the biggest predictors of slootiness besides drugs and abuse.
All the women I knew growing up who had overbearing Muslim parents grew up to be even bigger sloots than the homeschooled girls. Being homeschooled and having traditional Muslim parents are probably the biggest predictors of slootiness besides drugs and abuse.
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