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post 1694711023 12-11-2023, 10:52 AM
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when to text girl after first date ?

Had a date last night I’d say went it was whatever. I was a bit shy and nervous lol. But it went on for 3 hours…. I texted her on the evening when I got back home just to make sure she got home safe.

Should I hit her up today or wait a bit?
post 1694711073 12-11-2023, 10:53 AM
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6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.
post 1694711133 12-11-2023, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.
lol
post 1694711143 12-11-2023, 10:53 AM
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You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested
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post 1694711203 12-11-2023, 10:54 AM
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I always cringe at the "did you get home safe?" texts.
post 1694711233 12-11-2023, 10:55 AM
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Originally Posted By backinbusiness
You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested
Yea she replied when I asked if she got home. She said yes and thanked me for dinner. I didn’t reply to that…
post 1694711263 12-11-2023, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
I always cringe at the "did you get home safe?" texts.
I just said “home?”
post 1694712313 12-11-2023, 11:13 AM
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Always tell the date to text me when she gets home srs she always does
post 1694712883 12-11-2023, 11:26 AM
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3hrs no smash?

Im pretty sure its a wrap
post 1694712943 12-11-2023, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted By backinbusiness
You already text her, it’s entirely in her court now. If she never replies it’s done. Girls don’t just “forget” about texts if they are interested
Yep
post 1694712993 12-11-2023, 11:28 AM
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post 1694713053 12-11-2023, 11:29 AM
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am getting major beta vibes from you.

you seem needy and overly caring for a broad you barely know. its not your job to check in to make sure she got home and if all you said was "home?" that's fukkin weird srs. what are you her babysitter? or mother? if anything was going to happen then either 1) she should have called or texted you first or 2) you should have said something witty, not "home?" fkn LMAO

if all she said back was "yes, thanks for dinner" then that's not high-interest IE move on and do not text again.
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post 1694713263 12-11-2023, 11:34 AM
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-paid for dinner
-concerned for safety
-hesitant on the next move

I can smell the low T from here brah.

Go with your gut, either she is interested and will say yes to whatever or you are one of the hundreds that go on read and get "forgotten".
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post 1694714153 12-11-2023, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
I just said “home?”
And how is that different?
post 1694714283 12-11-2023, 11:54 AM
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wtf is a "date"? did you smash? if not, she don't wanna hear from you boyo. doesn't wanna hear from you if you got a tiny package either SRS
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post 1694714333 12-11-2023, 11:55 AM
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how was the smooch
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post 1694714473 12-11-2023, 11:57 AM
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It's over boyo. She has zero interest. Srs, vry srs.
post 1694714773 12-11-2023, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By naich
-paid for dinner
-concerned for safety
-hesitant on the next move

I can smell the low T from here brah.

Go with your gut, either she is interested and will say yes to whatever or you are one of the hundreds that go on read and get "forgotten".
So what can I say right now to see if that’s the case and see if she is interested ?
post 1694714833 12-11-2023, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
I always cringe at the "did you get home safe?" texts.
You're viewing it through the eyes of a male you fgt, for a woman it's nice
post 1694714843 12-11-2023, 12:05 PM
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If she's interested it doesn't matter if you text today or in a few days.
post 1694714923 12-11-2023, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Barteh
If she's interested it doesn't matter if you text today or in a few days.
Ok gotch any idea what I can text though? Should I quickly set up for a 2nd date?
post 1694715023 12-11-2023, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
So what can I say right now to see if that’s the case and see if she is interested ?
Theres not much to do anymo except hailmary & ask her either for drinks = will probs fail.
Or str8 up ask if she wants to FUKK. Id go with last 1 so its quickly over with & u can not fumble some other bish.
You shouldve escalated more on the date & went for atleast a kiss. Do that with the next girl u get a shot with. If she digs it ask to go to her place & give her a stabbin
Already kno u sleep on one of them racecar beds so that aint a option
post 1694715203 12-11-2023, 12:11 PM
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If its late there send her smth in english with this premise "look i was a geek yesterday how about ill come over tonight?"
If she goes like lolwut, say u got a 9 inch dick
When u get there say u lied
post 1694715213 12-11-2023, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
I just said “home?”
Damn. You just ensured she won’t text you back
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post 1694715243 12-11-2023, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted By YUL
Damn. You just ensured she won’t text you back
She replied to that lol
post 1694715623 12-11-2023, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Polaris
6 months minimum. You don't want to be too eager or appear needy.
Ye op you should wait until you’re at least dead and they’ve already read the eulogy before you respond
post 1694715643 12-11-2023, 12:21 PM
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Tell me when you get home safely means I liked you and wanna see you again in man language.

At end of first date I usually ask like wanna dine somewhere next time. If Im asking I know the answer will be yes cos if we didnt click on first date I would be like "thanks, have a good night" and then ghost
post 1694715663 12-11-2023, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By mryamamoto
Just think - "what would Charles Bronson do?"
Hed probably be like?


Ye, that just happened…


And I had to witness the whole thing
post 1694715713 12-11-2023, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
Ok gotch any idea what I can text though? Should I quickly set up for a 2nd date?
Yeah that'd be my style. I don't like texting a lot in between dates.
post 1694715743 12-11-2023, 12:23 PM
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None of this stuff matters. If she is interested in you then you can’t make a mistake really. If a girl is interested in you she won’t become uninterested depending on how soon you text, she will make it easy for you because she wants to move forward.
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