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post 1694715843 12-11-2023, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
She replied to that lol
Youre ignoring the best advice ITT

Its a wrap for u ondle
post 1694716023 12-11-2023, 12:28 PM
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- girls have higher expectations on a first date than guys. Your idea of “going well” is just having a nice time, she wants sparks and butterflies, to be wowed etc.

- when I say goodbye, I would usually tell them to text ME that they got home alright. Then I would use that as an indicator of she’s interested in a second date or not.

- I would NEVER text them the same night or the following morning asking if they got home safe or had a good time. I always found that to be the kiss of death.

- When I do text them, I try to just text them to talk and joke around like we’re friends. If I’m getting good conversation, I ask for a second date. If I feel like she’s not being receptive I don’t ask for a second date.

- I try not to just straight into a second date without feeling them out first on the texting.

- following that general guide, you can always shoot your shot. But have have no expectations
post 1694716383 12-11-2023, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1
- girls have higher expectations on a first date than guys. Your idea of “going well” is just having a nice time, she wants sparks and butterflies, to be wowed etc.

- when I say goodbye, I would usually tell them to text ME that they got home alright. Then I would use that as an indicator of she’s interested in a second date or not.

- I would NEVER text them the same night or the following morning asking if they got home safe or had a good time. I always found that to be the kiss of death.

- When I do text them, I try to just text them to talk and joke around like we’re friends. If I’m getting good conversation, I ask for a second date. If I feel like she’s not being receptive I don’t ask for a second date.

- I try not to just straight into a second date without feeling them out first on the texting.

- following that general guide, you can always shoot your shot. But have have no expectations
Good tips. Let me start a convo feel it out and go from there
post 1694716803 12-11-2023, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Ondle
So what can I say right now to see if that’s the case and see if she is interested ?
Go with your gut....immediately asks for help. Boyo, you got a lot of work to do.

Clearly you arent cut out for the smooth text game life, so just be yourself. Find a day/time where a date would be appropriate and ask her to go out. Like I said earlier, if she is interested, she will say yes to simply be with you. In college I had a girl be so in to me that I jokingly said I cant make the date, Im going for a run and invited her as a joke. She shows up an hour later in make up and a $300 workout get up and lasts a quarter mile before stopping. She wanted to be with me, the context didnt matter. Now dont ask her to go do deadlift with you (which you better be doing to help with your drastically low T levels), but understand that if you throw out a decent date idea and get met with anything besides a yes or a specific date/time of reschedualing she isnt in to you and you should move on aka play hard to get from a male perspective.
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post 1694717533 12-11-2023, 12:55 PM
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If she's not hitting you up first saying she had a nice time and wants to see you again tour could be over

But worth a shot. Just text her whatever. Don't over think it

If it feels like an up hill battle then you'll know to fold
post 1694717923 12-11-2023, 01:05 PM
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The only correct answer is fking never.

If shes not the one hitting you up afterwards , its done and over, and not worth your time.

Ffs, this is not rocket science wtf misc? Goddamn, fking level up guys, become high value and you dont have to worry about this pussie ass beta stuff.
post 1694718193 12-11-2023, 01:12 PM
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In the car, I just can't wait
To pick you up on our very first date
Is it cool if I hold your hand?
Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance?
Do you like my stupid hair?
Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear?
I'm just scared of what you think
You make me nervous, so I really can't eat

[Chorus]
Let's go, don't wait
This night's almost over
Honest, let's make
This night last forever
Forever and ever
Let's make this last forever
Forever and ever
Let's make this last forever




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