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12-17-2023, 08:31 AM
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Ain't Cabo the same place you said you banged somebody's grandmother on a cruise ship?
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12-17-2023, 08:37 AM
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12-17-2023, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis⏩
I've never been there before.Ain't Cabo the same place you said you banged somebody's grandmother on a cruise ship?
12-17-2023, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
I've literally met this girl twice, but she's friends of friends. Really, I'm just trying to set expectations. There's plenty of time for her to back out at this point if she's not interested, and frankly if a question like this offends her, it means she sucks and I'm not interested in bringing her in that case.i agree. i would presume action would proceed, but it also depends on the conversation he has had with her. i don't know how long he has known her. their previous interactions. or if she is a stranger.
i've never had to negotiate ahead of time. that doesn't sound natural. but with these western sloots wanting a free ride. i don't blame him either
either way, like SS said. this thread was most likely a flex
i've never had to negotiate ahead of time. that doesn't sound natural. but with these western sloots wanting a free ride. i don't blame him either
either way, like SS said. this thread was most likely a flex
12-17-2023, 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
If I invite people to a wedding that involves people travelling via flights and staying in hotels, I fund everything.Logistics? I have no idea what you’re talking about.
I admit, I will not be able to cover a wedding of this calibre, but I would not do it and expect people to fund their stayover.
I either cut down the list of invitees, make a local wedding etc. Equally, I would expect decent wedding gifts.
12-17-2023, 08:59 AM
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12-17-2023, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
This.It's funny to me when men act like loser simps and then are surprised when they are treated like one.
Girls can sense that fake alpha act a mile away. If op was truly alpha he wouldn't be spending 4k on a girl he barely knew plain and simple
Girls can sense that fake alpha act a mile away. If op was truly alpha he wouldn't be spending 4k on a girl he barely knew plain and simple
Pretty pathetic situation OP.
12-17-2023, 09:15 AM
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The levels of autist on the misc is impressive.
It's narcissistic as fuk to plan a destination wedding and expect people shell out 4K to attend. Now you are attempting to use this as a flex and leverage to invite a girl you met twice with the expressed expectation of blow jobs? She's creeped out by you at this point. 0.0% chance your dink will get wet boyo. You played yourself.
It's narcissistic as fuk to plan a destination wedding and expect people shell out 4K to attend. Now you are attempting to use this as a flex and leverage to invite a girl you met twice with the expressed expectation of blow jobs? She's creeped out by you at this point. 0.0% chance your dink will get wet boyo. You played yourself.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
12-17-2023, 09:22 AM
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with the updated details
you have met her twice
you didn't bang her yet
the wedding is in 4 months .... and you have sent her a text telling her she should be sucking you off there (which is a lot for her to unpack - but she loves giving blowjobs)
i mean okay ... why not secure some action in the next few weeks? really the message should not have been needed. unless you haven't banged her before the wedding - which is 4 months away. if that is the case i don't know why you would still be talking to her
now had you banged her already... you could have suggested anal at the wedding to make things a little more spicy.
anyhow.. we live and learn
you have met her twice
you didn't bang her yet
the wedding is in 4 months .... and you have sent her a text telling her she should be sucking you off there (which is a lot for her to unpack - but she loves giving blowjobs)
i mean okay ... why not secure some action in the next few weeks? really the message should not have been needed. unless you haven't banged her before the wedding - which is 4 months away. if that is the case i don't know why you would still be talking to her
now had you banged her already... you could have suggested anal at the wedding to make things a little more spicy.
anyhow.. we live and learn
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12-17-2023, 09:24 AM
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She doesn't see you sexually and she won't be giving you blowjobs. Whether she still tries to go on the trip knowing full well it will likely start a fight and make the trip awkward and unenjoyable remains to be seen, but you are not a sexual partner to her. Keep coping and tread lightly or you might wind up with a rape charge if you get forceful about it if she does still come on the trip and rejects you during it.
Your best bet is to rescind the invitation and go to the wedding solo like the Timothy that you are
Your best bet is to rescind the invitation and go to the wedding solo like the Timothy that you are
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12-17-2023, 09:27 AM
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Meet girl twice. No sexual interaction. Invites her to a wedding vacation 4 months from now on the stipulation that she sucks u off every day.
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
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12-17-2023, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
Either this or a stark reminder of how what Misc "Chads" portray vs IRL.Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
12-17-2023, 09:32 AM
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12-17-2023, 09:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Lol this.Yep. OP regularly tries to LARP as a "Chad", and then makes a thread like this....
Do you think " Chad " has to get a verbalized blowjob commitment before spending a week in the same hotel with a women ?
12-17-2023, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
This. Fukkin lol. Masterclass lmao.Meet girl twice. No sexual interaction. Invites her to a wedding vacation 4 months from now on the stipulation that she sucks u off every day.
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
12-17-2023, 09:39 AM
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Too far out to ask a random to a trip. So much can happen between now and then. If I wanted to bring someone that wasn't a steady gf, I would ask by saying "I'd like for you to be my date for the trip / wedding." at the very least. That way its clearly stated that it is not friends.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
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And to imagine there are people in the USA who flex with their Cabo wedding and subject people to funding it. LMAO!
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
Best advice in this thread.Too far out to ask a random to a trip. So much can happen between now and then. If I wanted to bring someone that wasn't a steady gf, I would ask by saying "I'd like for you to be my date for the trip / wedding." at the very least. That way its clearly stated that it is not friends.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
His first mistake was booking plans with a random girl 4 months in advance. The likelihood of her flaking considering you met only twice is there ...especially after you attempt to force her to give you blowjobs .
There's a bad imbalance somewhere in this dynamic. .
12-17-2023, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
… and if she’s a dick sucker for hire, he wants to make her is GF.Meet girl twice. No sexual interaction. Invites her to a wedding vacation 4 months from now on the stipulation that she sucks u off every day.
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
Lmaooooo this has to be a troll thread
12-17-2023, 10:24 AM
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This is pathetic.
If a man invites a woman to go away and share a hotel room with him for a week, there's a very strong implied agreement that they'll probably be having sex.
Personally I wouldn't accept the offer unless I was already in a relationship with them, because of this, but given that she's accepted already implies one of three things
1 She already really liked OP and was hoping it'll turn into a relationship
2 She's a slut who'll screw anyone who spends a bit of money on her
Or 3, she doesn't have any respect for OP at all and was fully expecting a free trip with nothing in return
The fact OP felt the need to spell out his expectations (or post this thread) really makes it obvious he sees the third option as most likely. Which is quite sad really.
Anyway OP hopefully you use the next few months wisely and get to know her a bit better before you go.. most likely she's a nice girl who just wants to clarify relationship status before getting into bed, but if you're trying to treat her like a hooker you'd probably be better just paying one.
If a man invites a woman to go away and share a hotel room with him for a week, there's a very strong implied agreement that they'll probably be having sex.
Personally I wouldn't accept the offer unless I was already in a relationship with them, because of this, but given that she's accepted already implies one of three things
1 She already really liked OP and was hoping it'll turn into a relationship
2 She's a slut who'll screw anyone who spends a bit of money on her
Or 3, she doesn't have any respect for OP at all and was fully expecting a free trip with nothing in return
The fact OP felt the need to spell out his expectations (or post this thread) really makes it obvious he sees the third option as most likely. Which is quite sad really.
Anyway OP hopefully you use the next few months wisely and get to know her a bit better before you go.. most likely she's a nice girl who just wants to clarify relationship status before getting into bed, but if you're trying to treat her like a hooker you'd probably be better just paying one.
12-17-2023, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
We thought about doing a destination wedding but tbh I don't really want all our friends and family joining us on our honeymoon. And yeah it seems a bit much to expect everyone to spend 10k per couple just to attend our wedding.I think it is standard expectation that guests pay their own way for destination weddings. That’s why a lot of people don’t like them.
12-17-2023, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By TomPaine⏩
I’m well aware of all these things, am I’m quite confident it’s going to happen and will if I take her along.Too far out to ask a random to a trip. So much can happen between now and then. If I wanted to bring someone that wasn't a steady gf, I would ask by saying "I'd like for you to be my date for the trip / wedding." at the very least. That way its clearly stated that it is not friends.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
Also, if you are on a trip with a girl and she doesn't want to hookup regularly with you (even if she doesn't want the commitment), then you just aren't as attractive as you think. Girls will sloot it up with an attractive guy on a vacation without even caring ("it was on vaca, so it didn't count hehe").
Only a few times did I take a non GF girl to an event and those times they were girls that I had already smashed and I knew would be a fun time, even if logistics didn't work out for dating them. If the chemistry isn't obviously there already (which its not or you would have smashed already), bale out now and save yourself the trouble and being "that guy" during the trip who's situation makes everyone else uncomfortable.
This is all about setting clear expectations with a Gen Z girl who likely hasn’t been initiated into the process of how these things work. If she’s not interested, that’s ok and she can stay home.
12-17-2023, 10:45 AM
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At this stage in my life I'm not wasting any resources on someone who isn't going to give up the goods to me, so at a certain level I respect your bluntness with the whore.
But on the other hand I wouldn't fly someone out unless I already have banged them or I'm 100% sure that I will be banging them on the trip. I wouldn't put it out as bluntly as you did but I would def put out feelers to see how she responds. No guy wants to spend on some chick without getting anything in return.
Nothing worse than being on a trip or in a fancy hotel with someone who's not giving you the cheeks (for whatever reason) but you feel obliged to let them stay in the room, cockblocking you from hooking up with someone else.
But on the other hand I wouldn't fly someone out unless I already have banged them or I'm 100% sure that I will be banging them on the trip. I wouldn't put it out as bluntly as you did but I would def put out feelers to see how she responds. No guy wants to spend on some chick without getting anything in return.
Nothing worse than being on a trip or in a fancy hotel with someone who's not giving you the cheeks (for whatever reason) but you feel obliged to let them stay in the room, cockblocking you from hooking up with someone else.
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Originally Posted By Islandboyo⏩
With how forward op was about demanding bjs...it just comes across as a massive turn off .At this stage in my life I'm not wasting any resources on someone who isn't going to give up the goods to me, so at a certain level I respect your bluntness with the whore.
But on the other hand I wouldn't fly someone out unless I already have banged them or I'm 100% sure that I will be banging them on the trip. I wouldn't put it out as bluntly as you did but I would def put out feelers to see how she responds. No guy wants to spend on some chick without getting anything in return.
Nothing worse than being on a trip or in a fancy hotel with someone who's not giving you the cheeks (for whatever reason) but you feel obliged to let them stay in the room, cockblocking you from hooking up with someone else.
But on the other hand I wouldn't fly someone out unless I already have banged them or I'm 100% sure that I will be banging them on the trip. I wouldn't put it out as bluntly as you did but I would def put out feelers to see how she responds. No guy wants to spend on some chick without getting anything in return.
Nothing worse than being on a trip or in a fancy hotel with someone who's not giving you the cheeks (for whatever reason) but you feel obliged to let them stay in the room, cockblocking you from hooking up with someone else.
There's something to be said about a little bit of subtleness
12-17-2023, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Caldef⏩
Option #1 is clearly what she wants. But for me to even consider it she’ll have to be on her best behavior during the trip.This is pathetic.
If a man invites a woman to go away and share a hotel room with him for a week, there's a very strong implied agreement that they'll probably be having sex.
Personally I wouldn't accept the offer unless I was already in a relationship with them, because of this, but given that she's accepted already implies one of three things
1 She already really liked OP and was hoping it'll turn into a relationship
2 She's a slut who'll screw anyone who spends a bit of money on her
Or 3, she doesn't have any respect for OP at all and was fully expecting a free trip with nothing in return
The fact OP felt the need to spell out his expectations (or post this thread) really makes it obvious he sees the third option as most likely. Which is quite sad really.
Anyway OP hopefully you use the next few months wisely and get to know her a bit better before you go.. most likely she's a nice girl who just wants to clarify relationship status before getting into bed, but if you're trying to treat her like a hooker you'd probably be better just paying one.
If a man invites a woman to go away and share a hotel room with him for a week, there's a very strong implied agreement that they'll probably be having sex.
Personally I wouldn't accept the offer unless I was already in a relationship with them, because of this, but given that she's accepted already implies one of three things
1 She already really liked OP and was hoping it'll turn into a relationship
2 She's a slut who'll screw anyone who spends a bit of money on her
Or 3, she doesn't have any respect for OP at all and was fully expecting a free trip with nothing in return
The fact OP felt the need to spell out his expectations (or post this thread) really makes it obvious he sees the third option as most likely. Which is quite sad really.
Anyway OP hopefully you use the next few months wisely and get to know her a bit better before you go.. most likely she's a nice girl who just wants to clarify relationship status before getting into bed, but if you're trying to treat her like a hooker you'd probably be better just paying one.
But honestly I don’t want to hurt a girl’s feelings if I go on this tripwith her and never talk to her again afterward. She’ll eventually learn that you can enjoy time with others without making any further commitments to each other.
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Liked you so much there was a lot of " unpacking to do " when you sent a sexual suggestive messageOption #1 is clearly what she wants. But for me to even consider it she’ll have to be on her best behavior during the trip.
But honestly I don’t want to hurt a girl’s feelings if I go on this tripwith her and never talk to her again afterward. She’ll eventually learn that you can enjoy time with others without making any further commitments to each other.
But honestly I don’t want to hurt a girl’s feelings if I go on this tripwith her and never talk to her again afterward. She’ll eventually learn that you can enjoy time with others without making any further commitments to each other.
Lol.
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Exactly. The expectation has been set. The ball is now in her court if she wants to proceed.Liked you so much there was a lot of " unpacking to do " when you sent a sexual suggestive message
Lol.
Lol.
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