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post 1695572643 12-29-2023, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze
I had a buddy in college; Italian American, barely 5'6, and yet he was a hit with the ladies. He even managed to be in a long-term relationship with a very pretty girl who was obviously shorter than him and now they are happily married. He never cared about his height nor brought it up. It's all in the attitude and personality. And yes, he was very fit and reasonably good looking so that helped.
OP will just say the guy succeeded because he was white, an 8/10 facially, connected to the mob, etc. He's got a canned response for all of this.
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Lol..

Its just one video out of millions on the internet

Seriously?

I'm 5'5 but I don't think much about it.

When you have a job and stay busy keeping up with the workouts, and other stuff going on in your life you, you don't have time for this sh!t.

Do something with your life dude. Being a NEET isn't helping.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee


This is a classic blackpill segment from way back in the 90s. They wanted to see how much women hated short men, and they found that the vast majority of women would only prefer a short man if every other man that was an option was a serial killer(starts at 6 min part). Even if he was a millionaire, a famous author or nobel prize winner. Nothing worked. Women HATE manlets.

And this was way before social media and dating apps and everything else that has only made it worse.

This is why I rot. This is why I NEET. No matter what I do nobody's interested and its almost entirely cause of height.

What are we supposed to strive for if we're this hopeless in the dating world?
This is the kind of chit they post on the /shortguys subreddit - go there if you wanna see how pathetic men can get.
The truth is, you'll always find a reason to be miserable if you look for it.
If you were tall, you'd just have something else you'd blame everything on - crappy childhood, baldness, hair color, speech impediment, etc etc.
As a 6'4 guy I can tell you that tall people also deal with insecurities and it's more work than just being born to be successful with women. Do the work and stop focusing on the things you can't control.

Women are great at picking up on your insecurities - they turn a woman off, not necessarily the thing you are insecure about.
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
This is the kind of chit they post on the /shortguys subreddit - go there if you wanna see how pathetic men can get.
The truth is, you'll always find a reason to be miserable if you look for it.
If you were tall, you'd just have something else you'd blame everything on - crappy childhood, baldness, hair color, speech impediment, etc etc.
As a 6'4 guy I can tell you that tall people also deal with insecurities and it's more work than just being born to be successful with women. Do the work and stop focusing on the things you can't control.

Women are great at picking up on your insecurities - they turn a woman off, not necessarily the thing you are insecure about.
This. it's being an insecure (and probably creepy) puccy that's turning women off OP

height might help but you have way more problems than not being tall evidenced by your countless threads about the same chit
post 1695573433 12-29-2023, 04:17 PM
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all the biggest slayers ive known have been manlets bar one.

its your terrible face genetics and recessed chin that you should be focusing on
post 1695573733 12-29-2023, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
Have a big dick and know how to use it.
You would never get the chance if nobodys attracted to you in the first place
post 1695573863 12-29-2023, 04:23 PM
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Originally Posted By OGfrom06
You need stop acting like the world owes you something

Instead think about who is stopping you from taking what you want.
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post 1695573953 12-29-2023, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
OP will just say the guy succeeded because he was white, an 8/10 facially, connected to the mob, etc. He's got a canned response for all of this.
I mean......yes. if you look good enough you can get away with it but you have to have a really good face and be white.
post 1695574033 12-29-2023, 04:26 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
what the hell is wrong with the misc
You need to back the fuk up with that attitude bish or shiit gonna get real in the next 5 minutes.

You don't want any of this homie.

I will lay you out flat like a brick mason.
post 1695574153 12-29-2023, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By UGotBullied
all the biggest slayers ive known have been manlets bar one.

its your terrible face genetics and recessed chin that you should be focusing on
This is the truth the salty manlets don't want to hear... almost all the guys I've known who were complete slayers were manlets, but had crazy charisma and confidence. Meanwhile, the only guys I've known taller than me (6'5+) had no game, sometimes because of entitlement thinking that just being tall is enough, they sucked with women and were insecure and butthurt they didn't get laid more. Height doesn't matter if you're insecure, makes any labia shrivel...
post 1695574163 12-29-2023, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
This is the kind of chit they post on the /shortguys subreddit - go there if you wanna see how pathetic men can get.
The truth is, you'll always find a reason to be miserable if you look for it.
If you were tall, you'd just have something else you'd blame everything on - crappy childhood, baldness, hair color, speech impediment, etc etc.
As a 6'4 guy I can tell you that tall people also deal with insecurities and it's more work than just being born to be successful with women. Do the work and stop focusing on the things you can't control.

Women are great at picking up on your insecurities - they turn a woman off, not necessarily the thing you are insecure about.
post 1695574393 12-29-2023, 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
This is the truth the salty manlets don't want to hear... almost all the guys I've known who were complete slayers were manlets, but had crazy charisma and confidence. Meanwhile, the only guys I've known taller than me (6'5+) had no game, sometimes because of entitlement thinking that just being tall is enough, they sucked with women and were insecure and butthurt they didn't get laid more. Height doesn't matter if you're insecure, makes any labia shrivel...
although i agree with you, the people one of which was my best friend are legit autist level with girls. face did everything. my best mate who was 5 11 literally had 2 threesomes 1 hour apart whilst me and the boys were over. srs. admittedly this was at uni so slightly skewed results
post 1695574783 12-29-2023, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Listened to what you're saying, I've had this conversation before... it doesn't go anywhere with people who've decided there's no help. You've not only decided your life is hopeless, but also that no one can change your mind. The narrative you choose for your life becomes your life. Feel free to live in that reality.
post 1695575463 12-29-2023, 04:58 PM
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You shouldn't OP. You should just stay depressed, NEETmaxx, and cry on the misc all day everyday. Is that what you want to hear?

Aren't you supposedly an ivy leaguer? Why not money-maxx and passport bro over to Asia? Yeah, I get you're even shorter than I am (I'm around 5'7), but money will be a huge equalizer there and you'll find way more 5'0-5'2 women out there than you will in the states. Lots of dudes are passport-broing at this point, so why not use whatever you have and be more productive with your life?
post 1695576593 12-29-2023, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By imbeingcereal
You shouldn't OP. You should just stay depressed, NEETmaxx, and cry on the misc all day everyday. Is that what you want to hear?

Aren't you supposedly an ivy leaguer? Why not money-maxx and passport bro over to Asia? Yeah, I get you're even shorter than I am (I'm around 5'7), but money will be a huge equalizer there and you'll find way more 5'0-5'2 women out there than you will in the states. Lots of dudes are passport-broing at this point, so why not use whatever you have and be more productive with your life?
I'm not white. Asia works for white guys
post 1695576673 12-29-2023, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
Listened to what you're saying, I've had this conversation before... it doesn't go anywhere with people who've decided there's no help. You've not only decided your life is hopeless, but also that no one can change your mind. The narrative you choose for your life becomes your life. Feel free to live in that reality.
....I didnt make it up. Its the reality of the situation.
post 1695576873 12-29-2023, 05:22 PM
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OP if you want the truth. STOP being so obsessed with politics....and use all that energy that you have from hating Trump into doing something positive about yourself. Only when you change your mindset, everything else will improve. If you are a negative person who hates the world, who thinks they are a victim of oppression, then they will be a negative kunt. Liberate your mind from all your negative views about yourself, and you'll get anything you want in life.


When you change your mindset, your mood will improve, you'll gain more confidence, and you will attract more women. If you are constantly angry at the world, no one will want to be around you.
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post 1695576943 12-29-2023, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'm not white. Asia works for white guys
You have an excuse for everything, huh? I've gone to Asia numerous times as a medium-skinned ****** and got an obscene number of matches. It's not too hard to show you're of well above average means in poor SE Asia countries. I was in Hong Kong/Singapore and still got enough options from online dating there. Hell, even in America, when I'm in social circle situations, I'm able to attract good-looking, non-Indian/Asian women despite being short and supposedly the least desirable race in the world. Online dating isn't 100% correlated with real life.

I'm not trying to be one of those dudes who's in denial that if I were 6'3 and white that I'd be in the same boat as I am right now in terms of options. The fact is that's not the case so I can either cry about the fact that I'm not a gigachad that has 8s throwing themselves at him, or I can accept that I'm a short Indian dude who probably won't bang Sommer Ray, but can still get a really attractive and down to earth Indian girl and/or punch above my weight once in a while with other races.

Try focusing on chit you can change and/or just putting yourself out there and doing something new despite your hesitations. Life might surprise you sometimes.
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All the good advice here is just pearls before swine, OP, like all the incels on the manlet subreddits, have decided there's no way out, and no one can help someone who's decided it's over.

OP, I'm sad for you that you're in your 30s and still haven't grown out of that mindset. Hope things change. But no one can help you if you're aiming downward. Reality is largely subjective, and if you've chosen to view life through that lens, then man up and take the consequences. Don't ask us for pity, we all have our own cross to bear.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
what the hell is wrong with the misc
You stupid fatherless ****gut

Go rope
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Originally Posted By Fang2
OP if you want the truth. STOP being so obsessed with politics....and use all that energy that you have from hating Trump into doing something positive about yourself. Only when you change your mindset, everything else will improve. If you are a negative person who hates the world, who thinks they are a victim of oppression, then they will be a negative kunt. Liberate your mind from all your negative views about yourself, and you'll get anything you want in life.


When you change your mindset, your mood will improve, you'll gain more confidence, and you will attract more women. If you are constantly angry at the world, no one will want to be around you.
dude, im not going to get any women.

My solution is to rot and NEETmaxx. Which I enjoy but its not fun being lonely and having no prospects
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
dude, im not going to get any women.

My solution is to rot and NEETmaxx. Which I enjoy but its not fun being lonely and having no prospects
The reason you don't get women is because you have a pathetic attitude. If this is how you react to the hurdles life throws at you, you're completely undesirable to any woman, regardless of height.
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
The reason you don't get women is because you have a pathetic attitude. If this is how you react to the hurdles life throws at you, you're completely undesirable to any woman, regardless of height.
the reason is that I'm 5'3. Look at the video. no manlets even if he's a billionaire
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This video is spot on . It’s funny as fuk to me because it was around 1990 when my sloot dumped me after seeing her coworker with a Chad , and height was mentioned.
And they made another good point that I had posted no long ago , being a manlet will definitely affect your career . I was shunned at work and treated differently for being a manlet . I did all the work and Chad got all the credit . It’s just the way it is , luck of the draw I guess
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Originally Posted By Kubishime
All the good advice here is just pearls before swine, OP, like all the incels on the manlet subreddits, have decided there's no way out, and no one can help someone who's decided it's over.

OP, I'm sad for you that you're in your 30s and still haven't grown out of that mindset. Hope things change. But no one can help you if you're aiming downward. Reality is largely subjective, and if you've chosen to view life through that lens, then man up and take the consequences. Don't ask us for pity, we all have our own cross to bear.
You seem to not understand the cold reality of the situation. you really dont get it. Humor me for a moment.


Its hard for you to imagine if you've never been in this situation, but try to. You're 30 and you know for sure you have absolutely no hope in dating.

Now what? A lot of your goals and motivation......changes drastically because lets admit it, most men are motivated by sex and women or having a family.

Are you really looking forward to being 45, slaving away at your job that doesnt care about you just to come home to nothing and nobody?

its a really grim future which is why incels check out and rot.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
You seem to not understand the cold reality of the situation. you really dont get it. Humor me for a moment.


Its hard for you to imagine if you've never been in this situation, but try to. You're 30 and you know for sure you have absolutely no hope in dating.

Now what? A lot of your goals and motivation......changes drastically because lets admit it, most men are motivated by sex and women or having a family.

Are you really looking forward to being 45, slaving away at your job that doesnt care about you just to come home to nothing and nobody?

its a really grim future which is why incels check out and rot.
if you're truly hopeless in dating, why are u posting about it trying to convince others how hopeless you are lol
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Originally Posted By Muzzcxpress
Because ignoring the incel issue won't make it go away. Talking about it is all we can do.

I'm an incel. But where can I vent? I can't vent IRL to anyone. I can't vent on ********, Twitter, or Instagram or else all my friends and family will think I'm a weirdo

Misc is the only safe place for incels to talk about the brutality of dating in 2023
Venting doesn't help anything, just helps you reinforce your own fuked up incel belief system to yourselves
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Originally Posted By Muzzcxpress
BBMG, I will probably be in your position in 10 years as a incel in my 30s

I think what will keep me going is escorts. Fuking escorts here. Having money to go to Columbia, Thailand, and Amsterdam to fuk escorts abroad

I think what will keep me going is escorts, vacations, good food, sports, and maybe a sugar baby or two. Thoughts?
Please pay attention to meeeeeeee!!!!
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Originally Posted By Reserrection
Venting doesn't help anything, just helps you reinforce your own fuked up incel belief system to yourselves
^OP, read this, and stfu.
People like you are toxic to other manlets who are aiming upward in life, and everyone else too. Not only do you actively look for ways to make your life suck, but you're trying to bring other people down with you and make them agree with your chit attitude. You're a pathetic excuse of a man. Stay inside and rot, just stop bitching, you're doing nobody a favor with your "venting" and cringey self pity. Just mind-blowing you're a grown man in your 30s and have so little perspective on life.
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