In real life it's pretty difficult to cold-approach women at a public place such as a mall, and maintain your dignity, especially if those girls are in a group. With online dating, you don't have to worry about losing your dignity like that but a lot of the accounts on these dating sites are fake and you have to pay money to send messages to those women. So which do you think is better? Real life or online dating?

Best way to meet women is to get a time-machine and wind it back 15-30 years

There you go OP.
Costco has a time machine for sale

Online if you're Chad

In Person for everyone else

Oops! i thought you said 'meat women' !!!

So chads are somehow immune to being presented with fake bots?

Most people will vote in real life just due to how hard online is to meet girls to date.

But only a small % of men irl actually have the ability to meet at random chance encounters (90% of miscers can cause all “Chad” here).

In real life means work, school, meeting though friends say at a party or hang out or dinner party.

Thats the best way to meet someone as you’ll known to me beforehand, become friends, have common shared interests etc.

In real life doesn’t meet on the street, at the park, in a parking lot, supermarket, zoo. No one here meets girls to date like that. They can fraud it, they can even steal pics online and draw scribble on it so it can’t be searched for and claim they smashed by meeting at Target but they don’t do it in real life.

Online works if you’re good looking or like over 35/40 and meeting single mothers, divorced women or desperate older ladies that now are willing to settle down.

real life

It's simple in real life if you're tall and at least decent looking. Have never needed to try dating apps


Manlets probably have better luck online

The more they focus on apps the more they value face to face meetings.

using apps is just stroking their egos and they will freely admit thats why they use them.

To stand out among the pack, simply dont use them and meet people the old fashioned way. Its way easier than people make it seem.

Just two things you need to do if you arent practiced at it.

1- eye contact- women highly value this so you have to make it. If you are uncomfortable with this, look them right between the eyes or tel yourself you are just trying to see what color their eyes are. It will get better with practice.

2- small talk- imagine you are in a new city and ask someone for directions or if this is the right stop to get off the train or something simple like that. You would have no issues asking a stranger a question like that. Same thing here. Just start some small talk and see how it goes.

3- stay in your lane- every guy wants a 10/10 supermodel but if you look in the mirror and a 5/10 is looking back at you, your chances of bagging that 10 will diminish drastically, Its like applying for ceo jobs with no work experience. Waste of time 99.999% of the time so why do it? Start with the low hanging fruit to build confidence.

In real life