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post 1695963713 01-06-2024, 12:17 PM
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The breakup is causing more suffering than I thought. What do?

Call me a beta cuck fgt all you want but, as a true alpha, I’m not afraid to share my vulnerabilities

I dumped this girl back in October because of some action she did crossing a boundary and the timing was horrible. Missed out on my birthday celebration we had planned, holidays, and NYE so that sucked. She probably would’ve worn lingerie and give me endless sex pleasure like usual that I missed out on.

I went on some dates in Nov and Dec, and met girls on dating apps and offline but nothing has panned out. Things would look good until they cancel plans, become unreliable, etc so the whole dating cycle of this sucks. I met up with a couple of former FWBs just to get some smashes last month but the girl I recently got rid of was hotter.

The sex, bjs, and her freaky side in bed are what I miss. She has other guys she can jump to and I have no doubt she’s being a little whore with them instead of me. She isn’t LTR material that I’m looking for and I need to focus on meeting the right girl but I think I suffered more from this even though I was the one who dumped her. How to cope?
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step one is to stop thinking about her + other dudes cawks

that is cuck chit OP
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she was the best man
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I can't imagine what sort of disrespectful bitch this girl must have been if you passed on freaky sex.

The breakup is still fresh so it's natural that you feel this way. I guarantee after some time has passed and you've moved on with your life, you'll feel so much better. You need to focus on levelling up: Lift, make money, learn, etc.

Your self respect comes before everything and if she crossed your boundary then you did right by cutting her off. Alpha as fcuk, cuz!

You already know she isn't LTR material, could you image how you would feel if she got pregnant by accident, the thought alone sends chills down my spine.

I guarantee that she's fuming because you dumped her. She missed out on celebrating your birthday, not the other way around.

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post 1695964753 01-06-2024, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Aleister_White⏩
i know what it is bro

took me a good 2-3 months to forget about my ex after leaving her - even relapsed lately a long time after

your post seems to make it clear that she is no wife material though and that she did not treat you as #1 - so i would not care - seems like you only want her body - that can be replaced

good luck
She didn't have to treat him as #1 because they were never a couple. They were FWB's...I remember the thread...

OP, you need to move on.
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post 1695965033 01-06-2024, 12:42 PM
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Having feelings and expressing them doesn’t make anyone a beta cuck lol. Glad you felt comfy enough to express yourself. Ded srs. I have really found to enjoy all emotions in a positive light. I can explain the gaslighting I do to myself if you want to hear it, but I would suggest there is some opportunity for growth and development while you are actually in an emotionally stressful time. I would recommend exploiting that.


Formalities….

Not posting pics actually does make you a beta cuck and obligatory negs are inbound. I don’t make the rules but I do get a lot of enjoyment out of enforcing them for some reason lol. Suck it bro.


But good luck with your feelings. Go find someone to bang.
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
She didn't have to treat him as #1 because they were never a couple. They were FWB's...I remember the thread...

OP, you need to move on.
yeah I was going to say I think OP is the guy that got upset when his FWB was talking to another guy. What the fuk do you expect to happen, she stays loyal to you while you scope out other women?

OP you're kind of acting like a bitch on god
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
yeah I was going to say I think OP is the guy that got upset when his FWB was talking to another guy. What the fuk do you expect to happen, she stays loyal to you while you scope out other women?

OP you're kind of acting like a bitch on god
That's incorrect

I made a thread about it around Halloween

We got dressed up and went out partying. I don't know how drunk she was but she tried to kiss another guy while I was standing in front of her. She said she was blacked out drunk and doesn't remember it but that was weird.
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
That's incorrect

I made a thread about it around Halloween

We got dressed up and went out partying. I don't know how drunk she was but she tried to kiss another guy while I was standing in front of her. She said she was blacked out drunk and don't remember it but that was weird.
Sounds like you got feels for a sloot

Let her sloot it up, smash, but don't catch feels

Doesn't mean you need to cut her off...just keep her on the side to smash
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
She didn't have to treat him as #1 because they were never a couple. They were FWB's...I remember the thread...

OP, you need to move on.
I remember that thread now. Not LTR material, but wants LTR manogamous relationship.

If she was a FWB then she can fuk whoever she wants and so can you. That's how it works.
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Seems like you just want her because you dont have her, and other guys are having a go at her. If you get her back youll find an excuse to get rid of her again.
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
She isn’t LTR material that I’m looking for and I need to focus on meeting the right girlbut I think I suffered more from this even though I was the one who dumped her. How to cope?
don't get what you're so sad about then
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
That's incorrect

I made a thread about it around Halloween

We got dressed up and went out partying. I don't know how drunk she was but she tried to kiss another guy while I was standing in front of her. She said she was blacked out drunk and don't remember it but that was weird.
okay how the fuk is that better? She wasn't your's as you didn't want to commit to her.
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I remember the good old days where no one would even think of posting such a thread if they didn't include pics and the OP would get negged to oblivion.
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You dumped her. Own your decision and move on.
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Originally Posted By Appoloin⏩
I can't imagine what sort of disrespectful bitch this girl must have been if you passed on freaky sex.

The breakup is still fresh so it's natural that you feel this way. I guarantee after some time has passed and you've moved on with your life, you'll feel so much better. You need to focus on levelling up: Lift, make money, learn, etc.

Your self respect comes before everything and if she crossed your boundary then you did right by cutting her off. Alpha as fcuk, cuz!

You already know she isn't LTR material, could you image how you would feel if she got pregnant by accident, the thought alone sends chills down my spine.

I guarantee that she's fuming because you dumped her. She missed out on celebrating your birthday, not the other way around.

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What did she do anyway? I'm invested.
That's true 👍

I posted what happened in a post above
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If she was a FWB, then grow up and move on. There was no commitment and you knew what it was.

If it had been an actual GF, then feeling down for a bit is understandable. Your routine is different, everything reminds you of them, you still keep finding their stuff at your place, etc. If the sex was really good, you will think of that and long for it. Only way to get over that part is to smash someone new. But don't ever let memories of great puzzy make you go back to a subpar girl. I broke it off with a one (8/10 looks, crazy 8/10, and 10/10 sex) and a few months later I gave in and gave her another chance. It was back to daily 10/10 sex, she was super passionate, super apologetic, did and said everything right... and then about 2 months later was back to the same old things and I had to find a way to get her out of my life again.

You broke it off, its over, move on. Date casually and see if you are ready to see people or if you need more time. But stop thinking about her.
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You cope by posting pics
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