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99% of females over 30yr old on dating apps are too damaged to date
Option 1) never married girl, 30+ and hasn’t locked down a husband, was most likely a mega sloot in her 20’s, usually crazy af. Probably on anxiety/depression meds at this point. Has been on dating apps for 2+ years has dated every dude in 50 mile radius
Option 2) recently divorced girl, most likely has 1-3 kids. Usually a bit more “normal” than the option 1 forever single girl but could have some mental/feminist issues that caused divorce. Still dealing with divorcing/separating assets with husband. Dating multiple dudes at a time because she only had 1 dink for last decade and missed her ho phase so now she making up for it.
Thats basically all you have to pick from. All the “good girls” are married and taking care of their family. Any woman single at 30+ is damaged goods and not worth the trouble.
Feels bad mane
Option 2) recently divorced girl, most likely has 1-3 kids. Usually a bit more “normal” than the option 1 forever single girl but could have some mental/feminist issues that caused divorce. Still dealing with divorcing/separating assets with husband. Dating multiple dudes at a time because she only had 1 dink for last decade and missed her ho phase so now she making up for it.
Thats basically all you have to pick from. All the “good girls” are married and taking care of their family. Any woman single at 30+ is damaged goods and not worth the trouble.
Feels bad mane
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That’s true.
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Originally Posted By buwbs⏩
Yea that pretty much sums it upif a girl isn't locked down after early 20's shes a massive red flag cat lady woman who kill type
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01-09-2024, 02:15 PM
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100% of females over 30yr old on dating apps are too old to date
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its pretty wild to be honest
we gotta start looking in countries where families still marry off their daughters for $
we gotta start looking in countries where families still marry off their daughters for $
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I would say 99% is too high. I saw a lot of FA women on dating apps--you could sense how inexperienced and high-anxiety they were. Some women just fell into the same pit a lot of FA men did where they just sulked and declined every opportunity they had.
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This is true tho.100% of females over 30yr old on dating apps are too old to date
01-09-2024, 02:48 PM
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The trick is to go for women with an open mouth smile and showing teeth with eyes opened up and relaxed (in their pictures/profiles). Any other expression means she is damaged goods.
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I never used a dating app, but I can say over 30 and never married is a bit of a red flag. Usually there's an ex they aren't over, whether it's been a few months or years. There's probably a reason why 3 women in a row I dated or was in a relationship with were all 26. I kept getting older, they stayed the same age. The third one became my wife.
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Originally Posted By singlemom69⏩
this is like 90% of Americans. dead srs.Probably on anxiety/depression meds at this point.
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Lmao at even wanting a 30 YO female
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Most guys over 30 are too. Either desperately ****ing every girl that gives them a chance, a Chad/Tyrone that can't get off the hedonism treadmill and settle down, or guys without a social circle or social skills to approach (can be chad or regular guy). Let's face it, anyone using dating apps past 30 didn't have or take the opportunity to get married at a young age and are ****ing or dating strangers based off pixels. Either that or just got out of an LTR which is somewhat acceptable but still kinda off. We normalized it but anyone using it is weird imo. Anyone who's socially adjusted can meet women without having to "see what else is out there" on an app. People aren't patient enough to do things the way they've been done since the dawn of man, it's all damaged.
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Option 3: Career focused girl (eg. Doctor) that has been studying/working non-stop for 10+ years without realising she was on the clock
I know a few of these
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If average to below average men were willing to get married in their early to mid 20's, like the boomers and many Gen X did, the dating problems they find themselves dealing today with would not exist.
Instead these men (and some women) want to wait until their 30's, when the good ones in their age range have already been married. Basically the good men AND women have already been matched up and married.
Think about it...it's only when people began putting off marriage (until they have stable jobs, college degree, partied enough) that these complaints about how hard it is to find a relationship started. Before Gen X it was only the weirdos still single at 28+
Instead these men (and some women) want to wait until their 30's, when the good ones in their age range have already been married. Basically the good men AND women have already been matched up and married.
Think about it...it's only when people began putting off marriage (until they have stable jobs, college degree, partied enough) that these complaints about how hard it is to find a relationship started. Before Gen X it was only the weirdos still single at 28+
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99% of women on dating aps in general are too broken to date seriously.
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I used to believe this, but I think theres more going on. Know a girl from church who didn't know how to handle my advances as she is a bit of a weeb so her lack of interest in my interest pushed me away, she later started commenting on my ******** posts and even my moms posts years later after I hadn't seen her in a while but I didn't have that same spark. If I had to guess shes probably 29, never had a boyfriend, and her social life is likely work and home.
Know another girl who is 30 who I went to jr. high with who is more socially adjusted who I think has just been in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Currently dating a 28 year old who has only had one boyfriend as shes been homeschooled and in med school her entire adult life that I snagged off a dating app the same day she made her profile.
I think theres a lot of ways a woman could end up 30 and single. Just listed three examples that were different. However, I will say there are a lot of women who get to the point they are 30 and single and deserve every bit of it as they have likely cheated, passed over good guys because "niceness" gives them the ick and they need some "spice." Or they are so picky that they think that what they could pull at 19 is the same at 29 even though they have mountains of baggage.
The three girls I have listed deserve a chance. However of that list, I cant even begin to count all the women who passed over me and ended up wanting to come back after their husbands beat them, cheated on them, or they got impregnated and the guy left. Its not a good feeling when women recognize you as the good guy in hindsight. Just makes you even more jaded.
Know another girl who is 30 who I went to jr. high with who is more socially adjusted who I think has just been in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Currently dating a 28 year old who has only had one boyfriend as shes been homeschooled and in med school her entire adult life that I snagged off a dating app the same day she made her profile.
I think theres a lot of ways a woman could end up 30 and single. Just listed three examples that were different. However, I will say there are a lot of women who get to the point they are 30 and single and deserve every bit of it as they have likely cheated, passed over good guys because "niceness" gives them the ick and they need some "spice." Or they are so picky that they think that what they could pull at 19 is the same at 29 even though they have mountains of baggage.
The three girls I have listed deserve a chance. However of that list, I cant even begin to count all the women who passed over me and ended up wanting to come back after their husbands beat them, cheated on them, or they got impregnated and the guy left. Its not a good feeling when women recognize you as the good guy in hindsight. Just makes you even more jaded.
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
no thousand cock stareThe trick is to go for women with an open mouth smile and showing teeth with eyes opened up and relaxed (in their pictures/profiles). Any other expression means she is damaged goods.
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Originally Posted By Shortfuze⏩
Underrated af.The trick is to go for women with an open mouth smile and showing teeth with eyes opened up and relaxed (in their pictures/profiles). Any other expression means she is damaged goods.
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Men decided not to get married young anymore. Girls didn’t have many other options than going through a bunch of boyfriends until they reach the age that guys want to get married
Unless they are into dating older men, which I can say is A LOT less common than people think.
I don’t know any young women who genuinely want to date an older man.
I think a lot of young women wanna settle down with 1 guy but the guys make that impossible nowadays .
I 100% think the men dictate how the women behave in society. Yet people blame the women.
The women just follow in their example.
Tolstoy wrote about it in his novel “The Resurrection”:
There’s a young country bumpkin couple, and the guy gets called to do military service. And while he’s at the army he somehow secures a high level position in the Tsar’s palace and they introduce him to a whole bunch of debaucherous sh*t. And when he comes back to his girlfriend in the village he forces himself on her because he thinks it’s normal. And then she gets pregnant and he leaves her and she’s forced to become a prostitute.
And all the debaucherous sh*t wasn’t even in his nature, he was just introduced to it from the elites
They were both normal people before the corruption happened. Tolstoy knew what was going on 100 years ago.
It’s crazy how people were getting married at 20-24 throughout all human history and nowadays it’s suddenly considered crazy.
Unless they are into dating older men, which I can say is A LOT less common than people think.
I don’t know any young women who genuinely want to date an older man.
I think a lot of young women wanna settle down with 1 guy but the guys make that impossible nowadays .
I 100% think the men dictate how the women behave in society. Yet people blame the women.
The women just follow in their example.
Tolstoy wrote about it in his novel “The Resurrection”:
There’s a young country bumpkin couple, and the guy gets called to do military service. And while he’s at the army he somehow secures a high level position in the Tsar’s palace and they introduce him to a whole bunch of debaucherous sh*t. And when he comes back to his girlfriend in the village he forces himself on her because he thinks it’s normal. And then she gets pregnant and he leaves her and she’s forced to become a prostitute.
And all the debaucherous sh*t wasn’t even in his nature, he was just introduced to it from the elites
They were both normal people before the corruption happened. Tolstoy knew what was going on 100 years ago.
It’s crazy how people were getting married at 20-24 throughout all human history and nowadays it’s suddenly considered crazy.
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Originally Posted By TheJediBrah⏩
This is who im dating now. Shes 28 and in residency. She has 2 more years then 2 years of fellowship. Lucky for her im a patient person, and empathetic to her situation. I don't know if she realizes she lucked out. For me I think the dating market would be more forgiving if we split. If she were to get back in the arena though, theres a possibility she could blink and miss it as she doesnt have a normal life. Not every guy is going to be in a position where they can be accommodating to that type of lifestyle. Its even harder when you also want a guy who has a bunch of other traits you are looking for.Option 3: Career focused girl (eg. Doctor) that has been studying/working non-stop for 10+ years without realising she was on the clock
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Originally Posted By Parkerscott⏩
Why wait? She should lock you down now. She’s leaving a window wide open for you to find someone else. Then the chances of her being single into her 30’s are likely.This is who im dating now. Shes 28 and in residency. She has 2 more years then 2 years of fellowship. Lucky for her im a patient person, and empathetic to her situation. I don't know if she realizes she lucked out. For me I think the dating market would be more forgiving if we split. If she were to get back in the arena though, theres a possibility she could blink and miss it as she doesnt have a normal life. Not every guy is going to be in a position where they can be accommodating to that type of lifestyle. Its even harder when you also want a guy who has a bunch of other traits you are looking for.
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Originally Posted By redmelly⏩
This is a pretty interesting perspective, but makes a lot of sense. I never viewed it through that lens as I never visited the tsars palace. I have been waiting for marriage as im Christian which isn't a very popular belief. Its been extremely difficult to find a woman who shares the same views. All of it though is really just a product of too many men in the palace. The world has always been like this, but I think its much more prevalent now than coming back home from WWII. I think its been ramping up since the 60's but hopefully the end is in sight and the pendulum swings back the other way. Unfortunately theres going to be a bunch of good guys and girls who might end up single and alone even though its never what they wanted.Men decided not to get married young anymore. Girls didn’t have many other options than going through a bunch of boyfriends until they reach the age that guys want to get married
Unless they are into dating older men, which I can say is A LOT less common than people think.
I don’t know any young women who genuinely want to date an older man.
I think a lot of young women wanna settle down with 1 guy but the guys make that impossible nowadays .
I 100% think the men dictate how the women behave in society. Yet people blame the women.
The women just follow in their example.
Tolstoy wrote about it in his novel “The Resurrection”:
There’s a young country bumpkin couple, and the guy gets called to do military service. And while he’s at the army he somehow secures a high level position in the Tsar’s palace and they introduce him to a whole bunch of debaucherous sh*t. And when he comes back to his girlfriend in the village he forces himself on her because he thinks it’s normal. And then she gets pregnant and he leaves her and she’s forced to become a prostitute.
And all the debaucherous sh*t wasn’t even in his nature, he was just introduced to it from the elites
They were both normal people before the corruption happened. Tolstoy knew what was going on 100 years ago.
It’s crazy how people were getting married at 20-24 throughout all human history and nowadays it’s suddenly considered crazy.
Unless they are into dating older men, which I can say is A LOT less common than people think.
I don’t know any young women who genuinely want to date an older man.
I think a lot of young women wanna settle down with 1 guy but the guys make that impossible nowadays .
I 100% think the men dictate how the women behave in society. Yet people blame the women.
The women just follow in their example.
Tolstoy wrote about it in his novel “The Resurrection”:
There’s a young country bumpkin couple, and the guy gets called to do military service. And while he’s at the army he somehow secures a high level position in the Tsar’s palace and they introduce him to a whole bunch of debaucherous sh*t. And when he comes back to his girlfriend in the village he forces himself on her because he thinks it’s normal. And then she gets pregnant and he leaves her and she’s forced to become a prostitute.
And all the debaucherous sh*t wasn’t even in his nature, he was just introduced to it from the elites
They were both normal people before the corruption happened. Tolstoy knew what was going on 100 years ago.
It’s crazy how people were getting married at 20-24 throughout all human history and nowadays it’s suddenly considered crazy.
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Are you saying go for women in their 20s?
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dating apps are dumb. just date college girls at a starbucks near a university
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Originally Posted By NealIRC⏩
Either that or try menAre you saying go for women in their 20s?
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I'm confused......why would any man even want to date a 30 year old woman to begin with?
She's broken one way or another, and she's way past her prime looks.
If you as a man of ANY age, can't attract and date women in their late teen's - 20's, then you haven't built yourself into a man of value.
There's so much cope around this issue from GUYS because they aren't in the gym, aren't building skills, don't have a high earning career, don't have social skills, didn't test themselves and live a difficult life in their 20's, didn't struggle through the pain and suffering to have the right mindset to be successful as a man. The world is simply too soft, for everyone in general.
She's broken one way or another, and she's way past her prime looks.
If you as a man of ANY age, can't attract and date women in their late teen's - 20's, then you haven't built yourself into a man of value.
There's so much cope around this issue from GUYS because they aren't in the gym, aren't building skills, don't have a high earning career, don't have social skills, didn't test themselves and live a difficult life in their 20's, didn't struggle through the pain and suffering to have the right mindset to be successful as a man. The world is simply too soft, for everyone in general.
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Originally Posted By redmelly⏩
Yeah I don't know where her head is at right now. She has a lot of pressure/stress from work, and is constantly busy. I don't get to talk to her much and im not sure if its due to work or if im just not worth talking to. I have never brought it up with her, but she has apologized a few times for not responding. We used to talk more, and I leave it up to her most of the time to contact me as im free, but shes almost never.Why wait? She should lock you down now. She’s leaving a window wide open for you to find someone else. Then the chances of her being single into her 30’s are likely.
I could see how it could be work or me. If it ends up being me and she leaves, I will be pretty hurt, but she will probably be worse off. I think I have time and am coming into my stride. Pushing your 30's is bad enough. That type of career is hard mode.
She also told me once that her biggest fears were being rejected, being alone, and not being good enough. That is not a good list of fears in this dating market at that age where you can be ghosted for anything.
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