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post 1700862253 05-08-2024, 05:01 PM
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can an average guy be successful on a dating app

i think misc ingrained in me that only 9+/10 chads can get matches
post 1700862723 05-08-2024, 05:14 PM
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it's incel bs
take zero internet advice on dating apps, and just make a good profile and it works sometimes
spread love
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post 1700862843 05-08-2024, 05:17 PM
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Yes.

But you need to have a good profile.

post 1700862913 05-08-2024, 05:19 PM
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Had zero success with dating apps, literally same girls I would message on them wouldn't reply back, then I meet the same ones through friends and family and BOOM, they're all over me, I think dating apps are a seperate game brah, don't take it hard if they don't work for you.
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post 1700862923 05-08-2024, 05:19 PM
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Set up a good instagram page and just pull sloots off that it's like shooting fish in a barrel.
post 1700864103 05-08-2024, 05:47 PM
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I can get some matched but they're usually not very good. It always seemed like after a week or so it would stop working cause I don't sign up for the paid version. I've since given up on them permanently.
post 1700864273 05-08-2024, 05:53 PM
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Go to some rap concerts, pose with the hottest rappers of our time. Post on tinder, bumble, hinge, etc.


Watch the likes grow, bishes will be slobbering on your knob before bob finishes his corn cob.
post 1700864513 05-08-2024, 06:02 PM
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- Make a good profile and have interesting/variety of pics (and by good that can mean really simple/short, overdoing things and saying allot is a mistake)
- Then you need to be a good talker/texter to show them you can hold a convo and let things flow organically but don't be fake be yourself (this part some will fail)
- Then you simply need to know how to "close" and that's based allot on the above and timing

Its a whole entirely different game dating online, knowing how to play the game better helps ALLOT

Hinge is probably the best thing out right now (free) I got matches right off the bat, met up with a few etc

Then I decided to see what would happen if I paid for a months premium and it was too much couldn't keep up.. Strait up role reversal..Whoever made the algorithm on this app is a genius
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post 1700865913 05-08-2024, 06:29 PM
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been on them for years with 0 gfs. Maybe get 1-3 dates per year. With girls in the 5-7 range.

I'm average looking with basement selfies.

If I blind swipe I'll get a lot of matches but I'm
only interested in cute asian girls. I orobably match with my type once a month or so.
post 1700865973 05-08-2024, 06:30 PM
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Nope. But an average guy can have success on Doublelist.com. Srs
post 1700866343 05-08-2024, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
been on them for years with 0 gfs. Maybe get 1-3 dates per year. With girls in the 5-7 range.

I'm average looking with basement selfies.

If I blind swipe I'll get a lot of matches but I'm
only interested in cute asian girls. I orobably match with my type once a month or so.
Bro you are not even average looking. Your just looking and that is putting it to you gently.

You are like Chris Chringle minus the everything.

Not even Nicki Minaj would spit on you before when she was a cracked out D bag.
post 1700866533 05-08-2024, 06:47 PM
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What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.
post 1700866563 05-08-2024, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826⏩
What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.
According to google, this is average:



According to AI, this is an average guy from Pennsylvania:

post 1700866623 05-08-2024, 06:51 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826⏩
What does an average guy actually mean? You could be great looking and not have luck, or you could be average looking with clout and pull.
medium look, medium success in life

enthusiastic and great libido

late 30s and has nothing else to do but than pouring it all into a potentail family
post 1700866893 05-08-2024, 07:03 PM
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not anymore. maybe in 2014 yea.
Bills crew / Bud Light crew / extra onion crew / M&P crew / lcp2 crew / ap3 crew / Trump crew / mcdonalds app crew / cat-owner crew / Tin Cup crew / self-checkout crew / country music crew / RIP snails crew / 214CE crew
post 1700867603 05-08-2024, 07:21 PM
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Post your pic & profile.

Let’s cool it with the hate, & give OP legit advice.
post 1700869193 05-08-2024, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Paul
Post your pic & profile.

Let’s cool it with the hate, & give OP legit advice.
dont even know how to make one srs
post 1700869273 05-08-2024, 08:02 PM
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Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

post 1700869393 05-08-2024, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
medium look, medium success in life

enthusiastic and great libido

late 30s and has nothing else to do but than pouring it all into a potentail family
Aren't you a math professor at a university? How is that medium success? Strong standards.
post 1700869413 05-08-2024, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Onlinedatingcel⏩
Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

his level of awareness on his appearance, his scientific approach, as well has his courage is astounding. i was just all about love and appreciation, wanting a fairy tale type thing
post 1700869513 05-08-2024, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted By coast2coastam⏩
Aren't you a math professor at a university? How is that medium success? Strong standards.
i love what I do. I guess I have low self esteem
post 1700869793 05-08-2024, 08:20 PM
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Yeah just dont get your expectations up. Especially if u are just using the free version. I get a lot of matches from women im not very attracted to I need to stop doing that lol, and sometimes I will be into a woman and she doesnt reciprocate the same interest so it makes me wonder if they just mass swipe too, or maybe she is attracted to me but just has the personality of a toad. Just dont let it get in your head, know your worth.. as much as misc praises aesthetics life isnt all about that.. actually the bible shows God despises peoples obsession with vanity.. so if that woman is judging you based off surface level stuff maybe she doesnt deserve your time anyway.
post 1700869993 05-08-2024, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Onlinedatingcel⏩
Maybe. There are still hard limits but I think the average guy can pull it off with the right pics, it will just be hell of a grind.

This dude is white. He will do well in South Korea or anywhere else for that matter.
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Found OPs profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/co...ying/#lightbox
post 1700870743 05-08-2024, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
Found OPs profile

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/co...ying/#lightbox
he definitely does not have a six pack
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No, if the average guy was even moderately successful on dating apps then there wouldn’t be all these threads all over the internet asking these questions or asking “where/how to meet girls to date”.

You’re a smart guy, you know the answer. If average guys were successful with online dating more guys here wouldn’t have thousands of posts and on here so much as they’d have a real life/family.
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i guess i will try men, then
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
If even gigachad LARPing as a loser garold ridge way doesn't get good matches, it's not looking good for me.
Crazy cause Mr. Ridgway is one of the only confirmed actual misc Chads. He is/was an actual top tier guy in terms of looks (no homo Mr. Ridgway) and yet he is single, lack of matches, no dates, no relationship. I respect him because unlike other users he doesn’t fake or fraud threads.
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the experience for the average guy on the apps, who likely already struggles with confidence, is going to be 100% detrimental.

I am not even sure what measures "success" nowadays. I just moved to a new major t5 metro last year. Had hundreds of matches on Hinge in the first few months. Sounds great, right? Half never messaged... another half of those that did eventually fizzled out, half of those remaining, I got a number, and half of that, I actually ended up meeting up with. That's a 6.25% of MATCHES I went on a date with. Just rough estimates if I had to guess. I would say I'm well above average. The time for average guys to capitalize on the apps was when they first came out. The golden age of Tinder was amazing. The turbosloots really did not know what to do.

Your best bet as an average dude is to get in the best shape you can, get some interesting hobbies, talk to girls in person.
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You can, but you likely won't be happy with the matches you get. For me I've always attracted better women irl than on dating apps. The only good women I met through dating apps were women where I was EXACTLY her type. Tall(ish) white guy with long hair who looks like he's in a band (I'm not) so I attracted women who were into that. Aside from that I got a lot of lardasses who are into poly, trying to meet me. lol yuck.
Originally Posted By MiscMathematician⏩
i guess i will try men, then
you'll never find a woman to date trying men
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