Yeah it’s really not about the girl herself. It’s about the principle and unspoken understanding I had with a close friend. That’s what I can see is making me upset

lol @ the responses ITT

First off OP, you are a feggit

Now that's out of the way, yea ur friend did you wrong

Brotherhood is a fake narrative and only exists when two parties have something to provide to each other

You got snaked like voidgaze/houstonmiscer

Yeah it’s really not about the girl herself.

You wouldnt commit......thats on you. IF you didnt care and wanted to stay out and have your fun......then so be it.
But you cant start acting like a little B after she moves on.

I dont know about what you folks call "good buddy" but in my world.....thats a no fly zone. So you probably have a bad judgement in what you call a close friend.
But keep in mind.....I dont have to go around asking my "friends" not to sleep with my exes. Thats just an unspoken thing.

Need some miscers opinions. Apologies if it’s long

About a year and a half ago I met and started sleeping with this younger really cute petite latina. We had insane sexual chemistry and would have crazy intimate sex everytime we saw eachother, which obviously made us both develop feelings to a degree. Her much more than me, with her wanting to date me serious and being really attached for a time. But I didn’t want anything which I’m sure hurt her. I had brought her out a couple times and she even met my friends

Well a few months into it she’s using Hinge because she likely wants to find a bf and she matches one of my really close friends. She tells me “hey isn’t this your friend” and I confirm so she unmatched him etc. A few months later after that they match again, with him telling me this time asking if this is the girl I was bringing around a while back. He asks if it would be weird or I’d be upset if he sleeps with her and I say yes tbh, so he respectfully unmatches /blocks and then I basically go off on her saying why is she matching my friend how disrespectful it is blah blah blah.

Another few months later back in maybe Jan her and I have a semi big falling out because of my fault. We haven’t spoken since then. Well I just noticed yesterday her and my supposedly very close friend are following eachother on Instagram. I’m extremely upset, not sure who followed who first but she’s most definitely going to try to sleep with him, or him go after her. It’s not even so much that I’m jealous or feel possessive over her (which I do to a degree) but more I feel betrayed by this friend. We are really close and there’s such a high level of respect, I have never even considered sleeping with or being involved with any girl he’s ever been intimate with or liked. How can I trust him now when we had spoken about it and come to an understanding.

Do I even have a right to be mad? I am very well aware that I don’t own anybody or control what people do. I sound like a little bish but I can’t help how I feel lol. Was thinking of bringing it up to him but I’m not quite sure how. Opinions misc?

CLIFFS:
-OP banging a girl for a while. Both develop somewhat feelings
-OP never commits, girl matches one of OPs best friend on dating app
-OPs close friend and OP discuss it and friend respectfully leaves it alone
-OP and girl have falling out, time passes
-Girl and OPs friend suddenly following eachother on social media most definitely going to try to bang
-OP feels betrayed by his friend and like a jealous lil bish
-What do

She is not commited to you nor does she owe you any loyalty. You passed on those so I am not sure why you went off her and what respect you think you're owed.

As for your friend, I suppose it is hurtful for someone to pursue their selfish pleasures at the expense of your feelings.

That is something the two of you have in common, which is probably one of many reasons you are friends to begin with.

I'm not judging you for it, I am speaking facts - you've strayed so far from God that you're now under the management of satan and you're going to experience more and more of these situations that cause negative emotions and feed loosh to the demonic realm.

Fuaaark. Good luck OP

Your feelings are your feelings and they are there for a reason - but it's your own fault that you're in this situation.

If you were a humble and pious man who got cheated on I'd feel sorry for you, but you yourself are a degenerate and have sex with any and everyone and have probably hurt other people's feelings as a result of your own debauchery and sensation seeking.

I'm not judging you for it, I am speaking facts - you've strayed so far from God that you're now under the management of satan and you're going to experience more and more of these situations that cause negative emotions and feed loosh to the demonic realm.

this guy knows what's up. Especially the bolded part. I had to learn this the hard way about friendships. The same guy whose got 5 girls on rotation has you on rotation, just in a different way.

Some interesting perspectives here I am enjoying this thread srs


I find your answer the most interesting

Shut yo bitch azz up