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05-22-2024, 05:29 PM
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How much of the expenses do you cover when a girl takes a flight to come see you?
When a girl flies to come see you, how much do you think is right for a guy to cover during the weekend?
To give a background, I met her while she was visiting my city. 25 yr old girl from Mexico and we slept together a couple of times before she flew home. She works as a kindergarten teacher so I'm assuming she doesn't make that much. She kept on messaging me after she returned home and wanted to visit my city again. She showed me a flight schedule which arrives very late on Friday and flies back home on Sunday night so I was fine with it. After she booked the ticket which costed her $200, she also mentioned that it's her birthday that weekend.
Tl;dr
- She spent $200 to book a flight to come see me for a weekend
- Afterwards, she mentions that it's her birthday that weekend (u wot?)
- I think we'll go out to eat at a few places over the weekend, go do stuff, etc. Should the guy pick up the tab for all this since she spent money to come see you?
Update: I'm back home after dropping her off at the airport. My balls are beyond drained. I read your comments loud and clear, but it would've been kind of a real dick move if I made her pay for her dinner on her birthday. I did end up paying for other stuff over the weekend since she paid to fly to me with her low pay and the total for both of us that I spent was $200. More than I wanted to spend but she did give me great BJs. Going out to eat anywhere these days adds up quick and we also went to a MLB game (first row seats). I'm not looking for a foreign gf or anything like that so this was ultimately a waste of my money and time, but it was overall a fun weekend and I guess I can maybe keep her as a friend if I ever go visit Guadalajara.
To give a background, I met her while she was visiting my city. 25 yr old girl from Mexico and we slept together a couple of times before she flew home. She works as a kindergarten teacher so I'm assuming she doesn't make that much. She kept on messaging me after she returned home and wanted to visit my city again. She showed me a flight schedule which arrives very late on Friday and flies back home on Sunday night so I was fine with it. After she booked the ticket which costed her $200, she also mentioned that it's her birthday that weekend.
Tl;dr
- She spent $200 to book a flight to come see me for a weekend
- Afterwards, she mentions that it's her birthday that weekend (u wot?)
- I think we'll go out to eat at a few places over the weekend, go do stuff, etc. Should the guy pick up the tab for all this since she spent money to come see you?
Update: I'm back home after dropping her off at the airport. My balls are beyond drained. I read your comments loud and clear, but it would've been kind of a real dick move if I made her pay for her dinner on her birthday. I did end up paying for other stuff over the weekend since she paid to fly to me with her low pay and the total for both of us that I spent was $200. More than I wanted to spend but she did give me great BJs. Going out to eat anywhere these days adds up quick and we also went to a MLB game (first row seats). I'm not looking for a foreign gf or anything like that so this was ultimately a waste of my money and time, but it was overall a fun weekend and I guess I can maybe keep her as a friend if I ever go visit Guadalajara.
05-22-2024, 05:32 PM
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My boyfriend pays for me.
05-22-2024, 05:33 PM
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Negged for no pics, obviously.
Bru, that is so much work lol. I would masturbate, roll over and fall asleep lol.
Kind of ****ty of her to drop that it is her bday at the last minute. I would tell her I am not getting her anything on principle alone. Like this chick is expecting **** as if it is owed lol. Check her license bro. She lying.
200 bucks is cheap af.
Bru, that is so much work lol. I would masturbate, roll over and fall asleep lol.
Kind of ****ty of her to drop that it is her bday at the last minute. I would tell her I am not getting her anything on principle alone. Like this chick is expecting **** as if it is owed lol. Check her license bro. She lying.
200 bucks is cheap af.
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05-22-2024, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
I’m definitely not getting her a present as I don’t know her like that. We hung out only a couple of times. I might go pick up a cake to keep in my fridge that we can have at my place on the day of her bday.Negged for no pics, obviously.
Bru, that is so much work lol. I would masturbate, roll over and fall asleep lol.
Kind of ****ty of her to drop that it is her bday at the last minute. I would tell her I am not getting her anything on principle alone. Like this chick is expecting **** as if it is owed lol. He k her license bro. She lying.
200 bucks is cheap af.
Bru, that is so much work lol. I would masturbate, roll over and fall asleep lol.
Kind of ****ty of her to drop that it is her bday at the last minute. I would tell her I am not getting her anything on principle alone. Like this chick is expecting **** as if it is owed lol. He k her license bro. She lying.
200 bucks is cheap af.
05-22-2024, 05:43 PM
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I understand that a lot of miscers insist on not spending money on sloots.
But I think of money in terms of how many labor hours it cost me to make that money. Given that sloots are also a huge time sink, if you're already investing that much into a sloot, I don't see the problem with just spending some money to make the process smoother.
But I think of money in terms of how many labor hours it cost me to make that money. Given that sloots are also a huge time sink, if you're already investing that much into a sloot, I don't see the problem with just spending some money to make the process smoother.
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05-22-2024, 05:52 PM
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$0.
05-22-2024, 06:01 PM
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What the hell did you talk about when you talked? that you didn't know her birthday? I would of said take her to free/cheap touristy things but you said she visited already. just pay for the **** and have her clean around your place. also if she let you smash the first date. i probably would of cut contact when she went back to selling chiclets at bus stops in Mexico. and when she came up here, does she have family? friends? or she came with friends or family?
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But this guy literally paid for a whores whole trip to travel with him$0.
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05-22-2024, 06:07 PM
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05-22-2024, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
She was visiting her older brother and his family who live here.What the hell did you talk about when you talked? that you didn't know her birthday? I would of said take her to free/cheap touristy things but you said she visited already. just pay for the **** and have her clean around your place. also if she let you smash the first date. i probably would of cut contact when she went back to selling chiclets at bus stops in Mexico. and when she came up here, does she have family? friends? or she came with friends or family?
She sent me a social media reel of “best way to spend a day in (my city)” and it was just a bunch of cheap eats and free things like going to a park so that’s why I agreed to have her visit me. I haven’t been to most of those listed in the reel so that will cover a full day.
Plus some weekends if I don’t dates lined up or another girl I’m actively banging/dating, I get bored as fuk with nothing to do so I was open to having someone visit me.
05-22-2024, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Is she fun to be around? So a cheap date is possible. just do the cheap date idea. and for a birthday dinner take her to Cheesecake factoryShe was visiting her older brother and his family who live here.
She sent me a social media reel of “best way to spend a day in (my city)” and it was just a bunch of cheap eats and free things like going to a park so that’s why I agreed to have her visit me. I haven’t been to most of those listed in the reel so that will cover a full day.
Plus some weekends if I don’t dates lined up or another girl I’m actively banging/dating, I get bored as fuk with nothing to do so I was open to having someone visit me.
She sent me a social media reel of “best way to spend a day in (my city)” and it was just a bunch of cheap eats and free things like going to a park so that’s why I agreed to have her visit me. I haven’t been to most of those listed in the reel so that will cover a full day.
Plus some weekends if I don’t dates lined up or another girl I’m actively banging/dating, I get bored as fuk with nothing to do so I was open to having someone visit me.
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opie, buy her ticket and take her out and have a good time and stop over thinking it.
you are not paying her to come see you, you are paying her to leave after you take her to pound town.
$200 is cheap AF.
you are not paying her to come see you, you are paying her to leave after you take her to pound town.
$200 is cheap AF.
05-22-2024, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
Yea she was cool. Easy going and agreeable type.Is she fun to be around? So a cheap date is possible. just do the cheap date idea. and for a birthday dinner take her to Cheesecake factory
There was a cheap restaurant in the reel where they went for dinner so I’m going to try to follow everything on there
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If I invited her, I would buy the tickets, just out of courtesy.
If I hadn't specifically invited her, I'd just play it by ear. You should be paying for some of the rest of the weekend, but there is no hard and fast rule about what is right, what is acceptable or what is likely to cause problems. She might expect you to pay for everything, she might get insulted if you pay for everything or anything inbetween.
If I hadn't specifically invited her, I'd just play it by ear. You should be paying for some of the rest of the weekend, but there is no hard and fast rule about what is right, what is acceptable or what is likely to cause problems. She might expect you to pay for everything, she might get insulted if you pay for everything or anything inbetween.
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Isn't $200 a lot for a weekend?
She will probably spoil you as much as you spoil her so its up to you.
She will probably spoil you as much as you spoil her so its up to you.
05-22-2024, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By theory816⏩
Its not about the money, it's about principle. Why is her time worth more than his?Quit being a broke knee grow and give her $200
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It sounds like she already planned around coming back there for her birthday anyway. You're just the sucker paying for her trips now.
Regardless, $200 for a weekend gf isn't a bad deal. Guys pay a lot more than that for a lot less.
Regardless, $200 for a weekend gf isn't a bad deal. Guys pay a lot more than that for a lot less.
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
nah dude don't get her a cake because then she will expect another cake next year for her birthday. Women 101 my dude.I’m definitely not getting her a present as I don’t know her like that. We hung out only a couple of times. I might go pick up a cake to keep in my fridge that we can have at my place on the day of her bday.
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05-22-2024, 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted By BullittEV⏩
Because he's a dude and she's a female. Lol.Its not about the money, it's about principle. Why is her time worth more than his?
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She was flying in anyway and wants to hook up. So be that guy, maybe take her on one date or do something fun, then spend the rest of the time in bed.
No need to spend a lot of money. If you take her to a restaurant, then just drop to the staff in private it's her birthday and they will probably give her a free dessert with a candle, and you can look all romantic about it.
No need to spend a lot of money. If you take her to a restaurant, then just drop to the staff in private it's her birthday and they will probably give her a free dessert with a candle, and you can look all romantic about it.
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I would have her pay the flight and I would cover everything else while she’s here.
$200 isn’t really a big deal for me to cover if she’s going to stay with me and she’s hot and you’re banging her all weekend.
But I kinda have a rule that I never send just straight cash to girls. Makes me feel like I’m buying an Ibby. That’s just me tho.
What if you send $200 and she goes “oh no I can’t make it to actually” or some dumb sht and know you’re just out $200. I don’t like that.
If she’s not asking you to cover her flight, I definitely wouldn’t offer. And if she is asking that’s a red flag anyways lol.
TLDR
Let her pay the flight and just cover everything else while she’s with you (if you’re banging)
$200 isn’t really a big deal for me to cover if she’s going to stay with me and she’s hot and you’re banging her all weekend.
But I kinda have a rule that I never send just straight cash to girls. Makes me feel like I’m buying an Ibby. That’s just me tho.
What if you send $200 and she goes “oh no I can’t make it to actually” or some dumb sht and know you’re just out $200. I don’t like that.
If she’s not asking you to cover her flight, I definitely wouldn’t offer. And if she is asking that’s a red flag anyways lol.
TLDR
Let her pay the flight and just cover everything else while she’s with you (if you’re banging)
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I’d probably pay for her Plan B
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You do realize she's setting up a classic poorcel Mexican lady marrying a white American dude for a greencard scam, right? lmao
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Originally Posted By theory816⏩
Brah, youre a simp. Srs.Because he's a dude and she's a female. Lol.
His time is worth more than hers. She can come pay her way and pay for herself while she's there. Free room/board is pretty sweet for a vacation to hang out with "a guy she likes." Instead of using him as a ATM machine.
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