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post 1704205871 07-26-2024, 10:18 PM
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What do women mean when a dude is "boring"?

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post 1704205931 07-26-2024, 10:20 PM
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ugly/manlet
See Shakebrah's sig
post 1704206081 07-26-2024, 10:26 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules
ugly/manlet
yeah probably the nice way of saying it in their minds so they don't appear shallow. if he's hot...collecting his toe nails could be what he talks about and they'd say he's unique
post 1704206111 07-26-2024, 10:28 PM
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Means he doesn’t bring drama
post 1704206181 07-26-2024, 10:32 PM
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that he is not Chad
post 1704206191 07-26-2024, 10:32 PM
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It means he doesn't evoke an emotional response in her.
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post 1704206241 07-26-2024, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
It means he doesn't evoke an emotional response in her.
This.
post 1704206251 07-26-2024, 10:36 PM
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Generally girls who say that have been in abusive relationships. whether with their father or an ex bf and the guy their currently with isn't abusive and is safe
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post 1704206271 07-26-2024, 10:36 PM
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it means you're unattractive asf and desperate, and she can see both
You can't fight fate
post 1704206291 07-26-2024, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By NMS3
Means he doesn’t bring drama
This.
post 1704206451 07-26-2024, 10:46 PM
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post 1704206461 07-26-2024, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
It means he doesn't evoke an emotional response in her.
A lot of guys are logical thinkers. Hard for them to converse based on emotion I think
post 1704206531 07-26-2024, 10:49 PM
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I dont know the girlfriend boyfriend lifestyle is boring as chit after the honeymoon period
post 1704206601 07-26-2024, 10:52 PM
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Maybe he’s actually boring. I’ve talked to enough boring ass people with zero personality where I know exactly what women mean when they say a guy is boring.
post 1704206991 07-26-2024, 11:23 PM
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Translates to no sexual prowess.
post 1704207171 07-26-2024, 11:35 PM
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not good looking enough.

99%.
Defeat the defeatist.
post 1704209231 07-27-2024, 01:45 AM
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
yeah probably the nice way of saying it in their minds so they don't appear shallow. if he's hot...collecting his toe nails could be what he talks about and they'd say he's unique
post 1704209241 07-27-2024, 01:49 AM
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It means what it says - it's a guy who doesn't live an exciting life style. Girls prefer bad boys and the adrenaline rush that comes along with dating one and trying to control him, etc. The highs and the lows are all part of the excitement.

It's like, who would you rather be friends with, Jeff Seid and Zyzz or some autistic computer programmer? Sure the latter is the sensible option, but the former is the exciting one, that is until you're addicted to drugs and things have escalated too far.
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post 1704209431 07-27-2024, 02:08 AM
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Originally Posted By heiltrump2024
A lot of guys are logical thinkers. Hard for them to converse based on emotion I think
Men don't converse based on emotion. Period.

Men who are successful with women LEARN what it takes to evoke an emotional response in women.

So then you may ask, "Pondus, how do I evoke an emotional response in women?"

1. Any emotion, even negative emotion is positive for you, which means:
2. Don't be a pushover
3. Don't be a doormat
4. Don't be afraid to speak your mind and offend her, or tell her no
5. Don't be afraid to take control of the situation, even if she may not like it
4. Don't be afraid to walk away
5. Don't make her #1
6. Make her earn your affection, don't just give it to her because she is a woman.

Yes, you want something from her. You want one of those 3 warm holes and someone with the ability to take care of your children, but never forget that all she wants is someone to make her feel safe and take control and be a strong husband and father.

It has NOTHING to do with looks and NOTHING to do with how much money you make, AS LONG AS, you can give her security.

Seriously, bros. All you have to do is have some interesting things to talk about and put yourself and the people close to you first, and she will chase you for an eternity, as long as you make her feel like you are worth chasing.

The moment you chase her, it's over. If you DON'T chase her and its over, then it';s because you never made her feel like you were better than the next guy.

It's not hard at all; you just have to believe that you are more important than her than she is to you, which you are, since women are just overgrown children looking for a daddy.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1704210081 07-27-2024, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
It means he doesn't evoke an emotional response in her.
This.. doesn't make her pussss tingle
post 1704210121 07-27-2024, 03:13 AM
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That she's already ****ing someone else
post 1704210381 07-27-2024, 03:38 AM
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Originally Posted By bsrkoacar2
This.
That.
post 1704210411 07-27-2024, 03:47 AM
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He doesn't drink and bang them in the ass
post 1704210861 07-27-2024, 04:35 AM
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Too careful with what he says which usually translates into boring conversations and zero triggering to release dopamine.


Quite shortly, it means the dude is uptight.
post 1704210881 07-27-2024, 04:36 AM
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means that the f@gg0t is broke and cant spend money on her
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Talking too low and too much.

Or too high and not enough.

Who knows, man?
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post 1704211461 07-27-2024, 05:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Silence2
Yep this
What does that mean though? How do you invoke an emotional response with a simple good morning greeting for example?
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