Becoming overwhelmed and breaking into tears is extremely feminine, nearly every women I've known does this. For a man to do it is weak.

You can get frustrated and overwhelmed but there's far more masculine ways to handle it.

yes, for men anger/violence/verbal abuse is the socially acceptable way of showing emotions. women saying they like a man in touch with his emotions is just a psych-op test unless you're giga chad.

Of course its a redflag to cry just because you had a tough day at work, or a tough few weeks. These "men" are ****ing clueless, they were told that women love when men show emotion, and they dont realize that doesnt mean bursting down into tears for **** that 99% people go trough in their lives.

Life is tough, its really tough. It will put you to test many times, work issues, health issues, family issues, you name it. If you are crying like a bitch in front of your woman at 26 years of age just because you went trough an stressful period of time at work... what does that tell her? "Is this dude really that weak?". Men are supposed to handle ****, men are supposed to tell their women things are going to be okay and they are going to solve the problem if it has a solution, or find a way to live with it if it doesnt so it doesnt affect them more than necessary.

Women arent idiots, they see weakness and they realize that many things could go wrong in the future, and nobody wants to marry a man that cries his heart out when going trough stressing ****, because then theres going to be lots of crying in the future.

The fact that the guy even got a raise a couple of weeks after crying his ass out makes it even more pathetic lol, makes his woman think "so he wasnt even crying about anything worthy of crying".


If you going to cry in front of a woman, make it a few tears, dont make any noise while doing it, and better make it important, something traumatic, a memory from the past, perhaps watching a movie and it making you remembering a lesson your dad told you when you were a kid and now hes dead or something, thats okay, thats acceptable, thats the kind of emotion women want to see, women dont want stones either, but crying because of stress jesuschrist id be terrified too if i was a woman and my guy thought it was okay to cry like that over simple ****.

I mean it's ****ed up she told her friend about it in a jokingly manner.

But to cry over work?

Women are just icky all around. This is day 1 stuff.

This. Do not shed a tear if you’re under 6’4

so what you are trying to tell me is that.. you wet the pillow on the reg?

would you drop off a few cases of ammo to your enemies during a battle?

because thats exactly what you are doing when you cry in front of women.

there is a 100% chance it will be used against you and blow up in your face at some point.

yes...women take mental notes that are stored and can be weaponized when you least expect it

No. You must have me confused with someone else?

only your buddies.

you only cry in front of your girl if your family member dies or your dog dies.

Men should only cry when their mom/dad dies or when they over-succeed in life and reflect on the struggle they had to go through to get there.

If I ever got to the point I need to cry…I would go to the bathroom and run the faucet

And no way I’d be showing my tears or tell her wtf is wrong with me

Girls say they want you to open up and get emotional with them but women never know wtf the want…the last thing you do is show weakness crying is that and exposing vulnerability

Just lol at crying over work as well…this is why I check if there is any soy in my protein powder or pop an AI ever now and then