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post 1704490541 08-02-2024, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Yeah . It certainly isn't that obvious what you mean here.

- your personality is chit tier

- your temperament is chit tier

I feel sorry for any women that actually does ever give you a shot because you got no good attributes or features to offer you angry little man syndrome fuk
this is what boils down to. he doesnt deserve any woman cause he brings nothing to the table and has admitted he REFUSES to bring anything to the table. he thinks woman should like him for who he is but reality is hes a miserable,mean and refuses to put even an ounce of effort like a lazy slob and self centered POS.r Assuming this is even real of coarse.
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus
Indeed, couldn't even buy their own home without daddy's help, couldn't get a girl unless she's a White-worshiping Asian.... but here they are preaching about "accomplishments" to BBMG who actually went to an Ivy League school...



Need I remind you boyos this lovely sweetheart right here was willing to risk getting thrown in a labor camp just to get Whitey's sperm? And note, that's not even a Chad, she was willing to settle for any Timmy she could find.


Had BBMG been born White I promise you he'd have at least an Asian gf by now.


Keep paying for sex you fat weight loss clinic attending ugly ******

Sad to see men like you give up on leading a life with any sense of integrity...all you live for is cheap dopamine hits you lonely 4chan reject

Imagine , mad at me because I'm a home owner and don't need to pay for sex...2 things you're lacking ******
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
At first I used to think only tech or STEM jobs would be vulnerable to AI and outsourcing, but now it seems AI is capable of even doing creative type work.

I've seen youtube videos of AI generating some incredible songs and incredible art work.


It seems no job is safe from AI and outsourcing these days.


Inceldom and NEETs will only increase.

BBMG is right yet again, this trend will accelerate in the coming years.
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1704490941 08-02-2024, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I think most people in society are waiting a bit later to settle - they go to college, start career etc. before starting a family.

However, my experience with women indicates that "they don't give a fuk about settling" is false. I've dated even liberal GenZ women, and as they approach mid/late 20's they are really trying to find a guy.

The main difference is they aren't forced/pushed into marriage with a guy just because he has resources. So ye, their standards are a bit higher, but not insane.If a guy has a good personality, women can and will fall for him.

Some women are delusional for sure. If you ever date one of these delusional type women though, you'll actually discover how insecure they are and regardless of how they act on the outside, they have an internal calibration of their value.
You need to stop with this delusion in bold. personality doesnt matter if there's no physical attraction. Women are not settling like that anymore. Ok, yes some women will swallow their pride and accept a 6 instead of 9. But she isnt taking a 4, no matter what his personality is.

thats the biggest myth about modern dating. its outdated.
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OP do you think your NEET status pushes you further down the dating pecking order? To use a great man’s phrase, you’re pretty niche.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I think most people in society are waiting a bit later to settle - they go to college, start career etc. before starting a family.

However, my experience with women indicates that "they don't give a fuk about settling" is false. I've dated even liberal GenZ women, and as they approach mid/late 20's they are really trying to find a guy.

The main difference is they aren't forced/pushed into marriage with a guy just because he has resources. So ye, their standards are a bit higher, but not insane. If a guy has a good personality, women can and will fall for him.

Some women are delusional for sure. If you ever date one of these delusional type women though, you'll actually discover how insecure they are and regardless of how they act on the outside, they have an internal calibration of their value.
That’s great little man.

Everyone must keep in mind this user is fraud that is Indian, manlet, from the bay (aka gay), small penis, obsessed with women like a stalker. All this is facts from his past posts,

Anyone that takes this loser manlets posts seriously is in need of help.

Curry Incel cuck
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Ok, yes some women will swallow their pride and accept a 6 instead of 9.
This might be one of the more idiotic statements I've read on here.

Most women I've interacted with over my lifetime (and that includes recently those in their 20s) don't even want a 9 model male to settle with. I've seen it again and again, they end up with regular guys they can connect with who are often less physically attractive than what they could have landed (and yeah, of course there has to be some physical attraction).

This is why people don't believe that you have some amazing social life off this forum, because if you interacted with women irl you'd realize the vast majority are not waiting for a fuking 9. And if the ones you interact with are, you have retard female friends. Go out and touch grass.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
This might be one of the more idiotic statements I've read on here.

Most women I've interacted with over my lifetime (and that includes recently those in their 20s) don't even want a 9 model male to settle with. I've seen it again and again, they end up with regular guys they can connect with who are often less physically attractive than what they could have landed (and yeah, of course there has to be some physical attraction).

This is why people don't believe that you have some amazing social life off this forum, because if you interacted with women irl you'd realize the vast majority are not waiting for a fuking 9. And if the ones you interact with are, you have retard female friends. Go out and touch grass.
Maybe we defer on what we consider a 9.

The point still stands that women only compromise on looks to a point. That's the main takeaway and it's true

Physical attraction matters more than ever. A woman willing to drop her standards a few points still has standards. Its a myth that they disregard looks for personality and the other bs that's being said
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Maybe we defer on what we consider a 9.

The point still stands that women only compromise on looks to a point. That's the main takeaway and it's true

Physical attraction matters more than ever. A woman willing to drop her standards a few points still has standards. It's a myth that they disregard looks for personality and the other bs that's being said
Men are the same way. Relatively speaking -- you don't see a ton of men treating 400lb women (the closest equivalent to how women see non-attractive men) like princesses and lined up to marry them.
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Originally Posted By eddiehaskell
Men are the same way. Relatively speaking -- you don't see a ton of men treating 400lb women (the closest equivalent to how women see non-attractive men) like princesses and lined up to marry them.
men are more desperate though. Hell even good looking guys have usually fuked a few fat chicks just cause they could and it was easy. Let alone incels and simps that will take anyone.

women arent like that. A lot of women literally would rather die alone than settle.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
men are more desperate though. Hell even good looking guys have usually fuked a few fat chicks just cause they could and it was easy. Let alone incels and simps that will take anyone.

women arent like that. A lot of women literally would rather die alone than settle.
Yes men are more desperate that's why I said "the closest equivalent" because there are always men for basically any woman.
post 1704498801 08-02-2024, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Maybe we defer on what we consider a 9.

The point still stands that women only compromise on looks to a point. That's the main takeaway and it's true

Physical attraction matters more than ever. A woman willing to drop her standards a few points still has standards. Its a myth that they disregard looks for personality and the other bs that's being said
This is a great example of how weird your thinking is.

You start out by correctingly acknowledging a point that was made to you, and you even agree with it, i.e. that women will compromise on looks.

You go on to confirm that thinking by saying a woman will drop her standards a few points, but that she will still have standards.

But now comes the weird part...

In your final sentence, you talk about a "myth" that women "disregard" looks for personality. You're right this is a myth, created by YOU. No miscer has ever said this.

You had it right the first time, when you were talking about compromising.

Women will compromise on looks for personality (or any other desireable traits)

So my question to you is - where did the whole "disregard" thing come from? What made you say that? Especially after immediately talking about compromising on looks, which demonstrates you have an accurate take on what Rebel and the misc collective have been trying to tell you all this time.
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah
So my question to you is - where did the whole "disregard" thing come from?
Someone literally said it on this page, thats what I was referring to. And people have been saying this for years and its not true.


Lucifer quote:

The main difference is they aren't forced/pushed into marriage with a guy just because he has resources. So ye, their standards are a bit higher, but not insane.If a guy has a good personality, women can and will fall for him.


He said that "IF A GUY HAS A GOOD PERSONALITY, WOMEN WILL FALL FOR HIM"

THAT ISNT TRUE BECAUSE THE LOOKS HAVE TO BE THERE FIRST AND FOREMOST.

If you acknowledge that looks are necessary, THEN WHAT THE FUK ARE WE ARGUING FOR.

Thats my entire point. men like me DONT HAVE THE LOOKS FOR ANYTHING ELSE TO MATTER.

If you agree with this, we can stop arguing. If you dont agree with this, THEN YOU ARE BASICALLY SAYING WOMEN ONLY CARE ABOUT PERSONALITY BECAUSE I AM 5 foot fuking 3. If thats isnt auto rejection WHAT THE FUK DO YOU THINK IS
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Maybe we defer on what we consider a 9.

The point still stands that women only compromise on looks to a point. That's the main takeaway and it's true

Physical attraction matters more than ever. A woman willing to drop her standards a few points still has standards. Its a myth that they disregard looks for personality and the other bs that's being said
Settling for a 6 vs a 9 is true for good looking to above average looking women. Average to below average looking women will take their standard (which wasnt a 9 toi begin wiht) which is average and drop them a few points which would be below average on the looks scale as long as the guy has other redeeming qualities. My retarded cousin (literally) even has a wife and (she looks pretty decent)......because he has an inheritance.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
But average to below average looking women will take their standard which is average and drop them a few points which would be below average on the looks scale as long as the guy has other redeeming qualities.
Used to be true, no longer is. Modern reality is this. Those equivalent women are choosing to stay single. There's no value to be found in the bottom men.( of course there are exceptions, but this is the trend IN GENERAL)


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man how the fuk is this thread 26 pages

OP, i ain't gonna tell you how to live your life but based on your voice memos in this thread you need to redirect that anger into something productive. a hobby, work, friendships, idk but something.

Your desperation telegraphs very easily, as does your resentment towards women and men successful with women.


Also has OP posted a pic of himself yet or are we just believing that he's as ugly/short as he says
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[QUOTE=BigBallsMcgee;1704501161]Used to be true, no longer is. Modern reality is this. Those equivalent women are choosing to stay single. There's no value to be found in the bottom men.( of course there are exceptions, but this is the trend IN GENERAL)


Yeah good for you bro for not playing that game!! Enjoy your friday night bro
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Originally Posted By Zackad
man how the fuk is this thread 26 pages

OP, i ain't gonna tell you how to live your life but based on your voice memos in this thread you need to redirect that anger into something productive. a hobby, work, friendships, idk but something.

Your desperation telegraphs very easily, as does your resentment towards woman and men successful with woman.


Also has OP posted a pic of himself yet or are we just believing that he's as ugly/short as he says
BBMG threads always hit a minimum 15 pages.
Everything I post is satire.
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Originally Posted By Zackad
man how the fuk is this thread 26 pages

OP, i ain't gonna tell you how to live your life but based on your voice memos in this thread you need to redirect that anger into something productive. a hobby, work, friendships, idk but something.

Your desperation telegraphs very easily, as does your resentment towards women and men successful with women.


Also has OP posted a pic of himself yet or are we just believing that he's as ugly/short as he says
Im not resentful to successful men or women. Im resentful to people trying to deny the reality of the situation. thats it.

Yes im bitter at MY situation, ANYONE would be, it SUCKS BADLY.

But the reason im angry is because im tired of idiots denying the reality of whats going on and why. it really isnt that complicated.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Used to be true, no longer is. Modern reality is this. Those equivalent women are choosing to stay single. There's no value to be found in the bottom men.( of course there are exceptions, but this is the trend IN GENERAL)

Well, I guess that settles it--a meme pencil drawing.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Im not resentful to successful men or women. Im resentful to people trying to deny the reality of the situation. thats it.

Yes im bitter at MY situation, ANYONE would be, it SUCKS BADLY.

But the reason im angry is because im tired of idiots denying the reality of whats going on and why. it really isnt that complicated.
here's the thing. you have your world experience. they have theirs. clearly it's a wildly different experience. that doesn't make their perception invalid, nor does it invalidate yours.

Here's the other thing. You can choose to wallow in your despair, you can choose to do something about it, or you can step away entirely and put your energy into other things. but spending all your time just reiterating how miserable your situation is doesn't do anything but push people away.

What's your purpose for trying to convince people to see things your way? I saw you mention a few times about how exceptions don't make the rule. You are entirely correct. But you also have to recognize that to everyone else, YOU are the exception, not the rule. Which is why everyone has such a hard time imagining it being completely hopeless for you.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
Well, I guess that settles it--a meme pencil drawing.
The meme pencil drawing is a better refelection of reality than everything you retards are saying.
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Originally Posted By Zackad
here's the thing. you have your world experience. they have theirs. clearly it's a wildly different experience. that doesn't make their perception invalid, nor does it invalidate yours.

Here's the other thing. You can choose to wallow in your despair, you can choose to do something about it, or you can step away entirely and put your energy into other things. but spending all your time just reiterating how miserable your situation is doesn't do anything but push people away.

What's your purpose for trying to convince people to see things your way? I saw you mention a few times about how exceptions don't make the rule. You are entirely correct. But you also have to recognize that to everyone else, YOU are the exception, not the rule. Which is why everyone has such a hard time imagining it being completely hopeless for you.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I'll start from the end and work backwards.

to your closing point, I get that. I used to be the same regarding pitbulls on the misc. eventually you gotta realize it's fruitless effort trying to change most peoples minds, since they're gonna trust their own opinions and experience over some random on the internet. I think you could do well to work on figuring out how and where best to spend your energy...just my 2 cents, I could be entirely wrong.

As for the red/blackpill stuff blowing up and proving that it is growing...I will agree to that, with a caveat. Lets look at the trans movement...it has blown up exponentially year after year and continues to be forced down our throat...would you say that it's indicative that there are thousands and thousands more actual legitimate trans people and that it's actually becoming the reality, or rather that it's a very vocal minority, championed by other minorities, and might even be more of an escape/attention seeking thing than their actual issue/affliction/problem? I'm inclined to say the latter, considering how often we see stories about trans people regretting their transition, re-transitioning back, remaining depressed/feeling out of place, etc. But then I'm sure most trans activists would say those people are the minority too.

Perspective is LARGELY influenced not only by personal experience but also what you surround yourself with.

not to say that you are complaining as an escape/to seek attention. just trying to put forth a similar comparison, and maybe help you understand how some of the people who can't possibly understand your perspective may be viewing it.

I'll ask again directly this time, do you have any hobbies, friends, family, etc, any sort of network to draw from? If not, that is severely hindering you.

As far as why I think redbill/blackpill/incel stuff has blown up...because it's an easy route for sympathy, while also helping people feel like it isn't entirely their own fault. While I full acknowledge there are completely undateable dudes, i also think (and have experienced personally) that a lot of people are self-sabotaging, either consciously or not. It's a lot easier for people to seek out sympathizers particularly in this day and age, then it is for people to take the steps to improve and change. It's a lot easier to say "fukin chad strikes again" than it is to work out consistently, eat right, force yourself to be social, etc. And I'm not even saying that to blame people for their situations, just is how it is.

Again, not saying that is the case for you...just as a generality.
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Stop bumping this thread already. I swear you fa ggots are so easy to rile up, BBMG is an actual loser and he still rustles all of you
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Im not resentful to successful men or women. Im resentful to people trying to deny the reality of the situation. thats it.

Yes im bitter at MY situation, ANYONE would be, it SUCKS BADLY.

But the reason im angry is because im tired of idiots denying the reality of whats going on and why. it really isnt that complicated.
" I'm not "

Even on the most valid posts you find a way to disagree . Says it all
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Yes im bitter at MY situation, ANYONE would be, it SUCKS BADLY.
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Explanaing to your French speaking boss what "j@ilbait" means sucks badly

Your situation...not so much
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Originally Posted By Zackad
here's the thing. you have your world experience. they have theirs. clearly it's a wildly different experience. that doesn't make their perception invalid, nor does it invalidate yours.

Here's the other thing. You can choose to wallow in your despair, you can choose to do something about it, or you can step away entirely and put your energy into other things. but spending all your time just reiterating how miserable your situation is doesn't do anything but push people away.

What's your purpose for trying to convince people to see things your way? I saw you mention a few times about how exceptions don't make the rule. You are entirely correct. But you also have to recognize that to everyone else, YOU are the exception, not the rule. Which is why everyone has such a hard time imagining it being completely hopeless for you.
Yup . Was listening to a dating coach and he mentioned when he has dudes like Op consult him..he immediately takes the stance of " ok what are we gonna do about it??? "

It's about time op realizes that wallowing in this type of dispear is pointless and self sobatizing
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Yup . Was listening to a dating coach and he mentioned when he has dudes like Op consult him..he immediately takes the stance of " ok what are we gonna do about it??? "

It's about time op realizes that wallowing in this type of dispear is pointless and self sobatizing
facing reality head on can helpful too
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Originally Posted By Zackad
I'll start from the end and work backwards.

to your closing point, I get that. I used to be the same regarding pitbulls on the misc. eventually you gotta realize it's fruitless effort trying to change most peoples minds, since they're gonna trust their own opinions and experience over some random on the internet. I think you could do well to work on figuring out how and where best to spend your energy...just my 2 cents, I could be entirely wrong.

As for the red/blackpill stuff blowing up and proving that it is growing...I will agree to that, with a caveat. Lets look at the trans movement...it has blown up exponentially year after year and continues to be forced down our throat...would you say that it's indicative that there are thousands and thousands more actual legitimate trans people and that it's actually becoming the reality, or rather that it's a very vocal minority, championed by other minorities, and might even be more of an escape/attention seeking thing than their actual issue/affliction/problem? I'm inclined to say the latter, considering how often we see stories about trans people regretting their transition, re-transitioning back, remaining depressed/feeling out of place, etc. But then I'm sure most trans activists would say those people are the minority too.

Perspective is LARGELY influenced not only by personal experience but also what you surround yourself with.

not to say that you are complaining as an escape/to seek attention. just trying to put forth a similar comparison, and maybe help you understand how some of the people who can't possibly understand your perspective may be viewing it.

I'll ask again directly this time, do you have any hobbies, friends, family, etc, any sort of network to draw from? If not, that is severely hindering you.

As far as why I think redbill/blackpill/incel stuff has blown up...because it's an easy route for sympathy, while also helping people feel like it isn't entirely their own fault. While I full acknowledge there are completely undateable dudes, i also think (and have experienced personally) that a lot of people are self-sabotaging, either consciously or not. It's a lot easier for people to seek out sympathizers particularly in this day and age, then it is for people to take the steps to improve and change. It's a lot easier to say "fukin chad strikes again" than it is to work out consistently, eat right, force yourself to be social, etc. And I'm not even saying that to blame people for their situations, just is how it is.

Again, not saying that is the case for you...just as a generality.
Thanks for the detailed response, I will respond fully later and answer everything
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