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post 1705311831 08-21-2024, 09:52 AM
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Blew up at my gf because of her using a Male personal trainer

Obviously don’t want to be a cuck

Don’t think she’s cheating, cheating or going on any dates , call her few times everyday, every afternoon /evening

Went to gym first time with her , when she had personal training session with the PT

End the end of the sessions he was helping her ‘stretch to cool down’ and massaging out her back and neck muscles….not her glutes or anything like that but I’d break up straight away if I saw her any type of sensual touching

I got seriously pissed although knew in the back on my mind this kind of contact must be happening

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Don’t want stupid replies

How do you think I should handle it going forward? Should I leave

I really doubt she’s cheating, but it’s disrespectful as fk , to have a MP and if i kick up a massive fuss, she’ll just say I’m being insecure

I don’t want some other dude touching her body and massaging her

Females miscers response also welcome
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post 1705311881 08-21-2024, 09:54 AM
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Fuk the male trainer so she knows you are the dominant alpha.
post 1705311921 08-21-2024, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
she’ll just say I’m being insecure
I hate this chit. It's called being respectful to your partner by not wanting to make them uncomfortable.

Just talk to her calmly and ask if she'd consider switching to a female.
post 1705311931 08-21-2024, 09:55 AM
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post 1705311951 08-21-2024, 09:56 AM
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Op living out his cuck fantasies
post 1705312031 08-21-2024, 09:58 AM
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...aware? I dunno
post 1705312051 08-21-2024, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
End the end of the sessions he was helping her ‘stretch to cool down’ and massaging out her back and neck muscles.
This literally sounds like one of those awful starting plots to a porno. LMAO

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post 1705312071 08-21-2024, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By HateLiberals⏩
Op living out his cuck fantasies
I’m not a cuck because there’s little chance she is cheating , I call her morning/evening / every night

It’s not cool though, wtf do Male PT have to massage cooldown on clients anyway

It’s bull****…all Male PTs going to be perming on their clients…male nature
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Women have undesirable ideology and say mean and hurtful things about people
post 1705312141 08-21-2024, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
Reddit —————————>
I would never go to Reddit for this type of question, 75% of the dudes on their would say I’m being insecure

…..like would like some advice on how to approach the relationship after this

Or just look for a new girl?
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post 1705312161 08-21-2024, 10:02 AM
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Go to a female masseuse.
post 1705312171 08-21-2024, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I’m not a cuck because there’s little chance she is cheating , I call her every night

It’s not cool though, wtf do Male PT have to massage cooldown on clients anyway

It’s bull****…all Male PTs going to be perming on their clients…male nature
You think he rubs his boner on her to test the waters when he's helping her?
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The big issue at hand here is your trust or lack thereof. Can you trust her? You'll have to answer that for yourself. As far as allowing another man to touch her, it shouldn't matter, but at the same time she should know better. The man always dictates the relationship and it's boundaries. You're either not supposed to be doing what you should as a man, or she doesn't respect you. Lastly, about her lack of respect towards you, she may not even know that she doesn't respect you, it may be subconscious. Nonetheless, a lack of respect is still a lack of respect.
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post 1705312211 08-21-2024, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted By TryingMen⏩
Go to a female masseuse.
Girlfriends expect you to marry them, and pull this type of ****…….
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post 1705312231 08-21-2024, 10:03 AM
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You could also offer to train her. If she says no to that I'd find a new girl. She obviously doesn't respect you physically if she declines having you train her.

If you really don't want to break up with her a third option would be to see if the trainer is open to training both of you as a couple. That way you're there the whole time too. But you might just end up watching him fondle your girl if he's bold enough lmao
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
The big issue at hand here is your trust or lack thereof. Can you trust her? You'll have to answer that for yourself. As far as allowing another man to touch her, it shouldn't matter, but at the same time she should know better. The man always dictates the relationship and it's boundaries. You're either not supposed to be doing what you should as a man, or she doesn't respect you. Lastly, about her lack of respect towards you, she may not even know that she doesn't respect you, it may be subconscious. Nonetheless, a lack of respect is still a lack of respect.
I think I can trust her from not cheating

but I still don’t want a dude touching up my girlfriend body 2x a week + whatever ‘friend’ relationship ……it’s undermines my place in the relationship and is disrespectful
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post 1705312451 08-21-2024, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I think I can trust her from not cheating

but I still don’t want a dude touching up my girlfriend body 2x a week + whatever ‘friend’ relationship ……it’s undermines my place in the relationship and is disrespectful
Tell her that, maybe don't tell her it undermines you, because that sounds beta. It's unfortunate that you even have to tell her at all, but now is the time to establish boundaries.
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
I would never go to Reddit for this type of question, 75% of the dudes on their would say I’m being insecure

…..like would like some advice on how to approach the relationship after this

Or just look for a new girl?
You’re 35 asking a question a boy who’s never had a relationship before would ask. Man up and lay down the law and stop being a lil biotch.
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Youve been here sinced 2010, find it hard to believe you are that clueless about something like this
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Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
You’re 35 asking a question a boy who’s never had a relationship before would ask. Man up and lay down the law and stop being a lil biotch.
Okay so I tell her , no more male personal train

Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling

Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Okay so I tell her , no more male personal train

Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling

Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
Then it sounds like it’s time to find a new girl. Do you have children together?
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
I cannot believe this is a srs thread

ANYWAY

How tall are you and how tall is the trainer
Why cannot it not be serious? Relationship problems aren’t black and white

What is your input or advice

Probably same height 6ft each, he’s probably younger than me (25)
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Okay so I tell her , no more male personal train

Then she’ll probably turn it around and say I’m controlling

Don’t think the relationship is recoverable
No, you tell her she can do what she wants, but her having a male personal trainer is not OK with you, and if she can't understand why the two of you just aren't compatible.
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Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
Then it sounds like it’s time to find a new girl. Do you have children together?
No children , sex 1x a week or 1x a fortnight lol

Don’t live with each other but video call each other a lot everyday
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Why cannot it not be serious? Relationship problems aren’t black and white

What is your input or advice

Probably same height 6ft each, he’s probably younger than me (25)
A friend of mines wife is a message therapist that has a lot of pro sports players as clients.
He is convinced she would never cheat on him with any of them.
WE know she already has.

Moral of this story: Sloots gon Sloot

If it was a really close friend I would probably say something, but it's not worth the hassle. Stay safe OP.
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Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
Trainers want to **** their female clients or vice versa.

You cannot accept this srs tell her to get a female trainer instead.
Don’t even want to now, feel like she’s shamed me and the relationship

Would rather look for a new girl
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Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
No children , sex 1x a week or 1x a fortnight lol

Don’t live with each other but video call each other a lot everyday
Ok so you’re a desperate cuck and poosy whipped. There’s a ton of those on the misc lately.
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