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» If you aren't taking girls to hotel bars/restaurants on dates you're doing it wrong
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post 10000035446 02-02-2026, 05:46 PM
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If you aren't taking girls to hotel bars/restaurants on dates you're doing it wrong

Perfect segue to smashing


You're welcome







P.S. you can't be poor though for obvious reasons
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000035457 02-02-2026, 05:50 PM
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Why would you need to do this? Just take them to a dive bar near your house.

The only reason to go to a hotel bar is to smash traveler girls.
post 10000035461 02-02-2026, 05:57 PM
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Bar near your house. Show her pic of your puppy

Then say ok I got to get going I got to let my puppy out

Then she begs to come over


Thank papi chulo for this one
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post 10000035465 02-02-2026, 06:04 PM
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Go to her house. I don't want a one nighter to know where I live. And if you're cheating on your girl, never do it in your own house.
post 10000035494 02-02-2026, 06:32 PM
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49 years old maybe start a family
Not in the AM
post 10000035513 02-02-2026, 06:44 PM
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The two clowns above talking about a bar near your house I can guarantee don’t get laid

Why would I want her at my house? Rookie mistake.

And “just go to her house” also doesn’t fly. For one there’s no guarantee she even lives all that close to a decent place. I can at least respect the knowledge you have to keep her away from your place unlike the other 2 posters though

Should have known a forum full of incels that talk to a woman once a century would fall to understand this strategy
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000035523 02-02-2026, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
The two clowns above talking about a bar near your house I can guarantee don’t get laid

Why would I want her at my house? Rookie mistake.

And “just go to her house” also doesn’t fly. For one there’s no guarantee she even lives all that close to a decent place. I can at least respect the knowledge you have to keep her away from your place unlike the other 2 posters though

Should have known a forum full of incels that talk to a woman once a century would fall to understand this strategy
Again you're almost 50. Time to grow up
Not in the AM
post 10000035531 02-02-2026, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
The two clowns above talking about a bar near your house I can guarantee don’t get laid

Why would I want her at my house? Rookie mistake.

And “just go to her house” also doesn’t fly. For one there’s no guarantee she even lives all that close to a decent place. I can at least respect the knowledge you have to keep her away from your place unlike the other 2 posters though

Should have known a forum full of incels that talk to a woman once a century would fall to understand this strategy
Such a condescending sanctimonious fuck..... no problem bring girls back to your place. Unless of course you're fucking mentally ill crack whores thenmaybe you don't want them to know where you live. If you're not a complete asshole most girls won't show up at your house being weird unless you treat them like complete shit
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post 10000035533 02-02-2026, 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
The two clowns above talking about a bar near your house I can guarantee don’t get laid

Why would I want her at my house? Rookie mistake.

And “just go to her house” also doesn’t fly. For one there’s no guarantee she even lives all that close to a decent place. I can at least respect the knowledge you have to keep her away from your place unlike the other 2 posters though

Should have known a forum full of incels that talk to a woman once a century would fall to understand this strategy
Some of us don’t live at home with mom and dad anymore
post 10000035594 02-02-2026, 07:47 PM
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Does anybody actually do this? Sounds autistically transparent and completely unnecessary.
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post 10000035614 02-02-2026, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By GaloisTheory
Does anybody actually do this? Sounds autistically transparent and completely unnecessary.
Hotel Bars are popular with only a couple types of girls.
1. Social climber types who are hanging out at 5 star hotel bars to pick up rich men({This can actually be a goldmine if you look rich)
2. Less slutty status oriented or social climbing girls who really enjoy these places but are wasting your time and unlikely to have sex on a first date.

Is OP really trying to argue that you need a hotel room to get laid? You need to spend $200 + $100 in drinks for the opportunity to possibly get laid? That sounds like the ultimate simp setup, and setting yourself up for massive disappointment.
post 10000035616 02-02-2026, 08:02 PM
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What do you guys expect from a guy who quotes himself in his signature?
post 10000035630 02-02-2026, 08:21 PM
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I only go to Starbucks to pay them $500 to get a coffee.
post 10000035636 02-02-2026, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens
Hotel Bars are popular with only a couple types of girls.
1. Social climber types who are hanging out at 5 star hotel bars to pick up rich men({This can actually be a goldmine if you look rich)
2. Less slutty status oriented or social climbing girls who really enjoy these places but are wasting your time and unlikely to have sex on a first date.

Is OP really trying to argue that you need a hotel room to get laid? You need to spend $200 + $100 in drinks for the opportunity to possibly get laid? That sounds like the ultimate simp setup, and setting yourself up for massive disappointment.
Right but that's still more along the lines of going to the hotel to try to pick up girls.

OP's advice was to actually take the girl there to the hotel on a date.
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post 10000035665 02-02-2026, 09:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Bonobo
Such a condescending sanctimonious fuck..... no problem bring girls back to your place. Unless of course you're fucking mentally ill crack whores thenmaybe you don't want them to know where you live. If you're not a complete asshole most girls won't show up at your house being weird unless you treat them like complete shit
Either that or he's cheating on his wife and has developed surreptitious habits. I get not wanting girls to know where you live, but its easy to avoid girls like that. And as a man, just lol @ not being able to easily discern between danger and attraction.
post 10000035666 02-02-2026, 09:06 PM
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post 10000035667 02-02-2026, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted By GaloisTheory
Right but that's still more along the lines of going to the hotel to try to pick up girls.

OP's advice was to actually take the girl there to the hotel on a date.
#2 was my addressing this. The type of girl who would be impressed by a hotel bar date is not usually the type of girl you smash on the first date.
post 10000035700 02-02-2026, 10:28 PM
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post 10000035711 02-02-2026, 10:43 PM
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Are you feeding them a full meal? Who the hell in their right mind likes to fuck after eating a meal?!

I'll take the $500 coffee...
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post 10000035728 02-02-2026, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4
Are you feeding them a full meal? Who the hell in their right mind likes to fuck after eating a meal?!

I'll take the $500 coffee...
OMW

Full cream or skim?
post 10000035733 02-02-2026, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
OMW

Full cream or skim?
Black...like my soul...

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