Sadly, many of you keep using it.

31 minute video, where are the fucking cliffs?

Don't worry, I am doing my part to keep the fertility rate high

Cliffs: We're Bidone

I got AI to transcribe the video and make notes


Dating Apps Destroyed a Generation (Summary)

Industry collapse:

Bumble: $13B → ~$335M (-96%)
Match Group: $48B → ~$7B (-82%)
~$54B in value wiped out since 2021
Only ~7% of users pay; most quit within 1 month

User behavior & psychology:

Avg usage: 55–90 mins/day
90% say they feel addicted
70% say apps hurt mental health
Swipe users have ~2.5x higher psychological distress
78% report burnout (79% Gen Z)


Dating imbalance (core problem):

Women swipe right ~5%; men ~61%
Match rate: women ~30%, men ~2.6%
~38 swipes per match (men)
~6,000 swipes → 1 date (men)
Tinder “inequality” (Gini): 0.58 (vs US income 0.41)



Sex & relationships declining:

24% of under 30s had zero sex (up from 12% in 2010)
Male virginity (22–34): 4% → 10%
Weekly sex (18–64): 55% → 37%
63% of men <30 are single vs 34% of women
First marriage age (men): ~30.8
1 in 4 people at 40 never married



Fertility collapse:

US: 1.6 (below 2.1 replacement)
South Korea: 0.72
Japan: 1.2
Italy: 1.24
By 2100: ~198/204 countries below replacement



Social breakdown:

Time with friends: 12.8 hrs/week → ~5 hrs
44% of young men won’t approach women IRL
<50% of high schoolers dating (vs ~90% in past)
~50% of adults report loneliness (health risk ≈ smoking 15 cigarettes/day)



Economics of dating:

Avg date cost: $88–$156
~$2,300/year for active daters
19% of ages 25–34 live with parents
53% of Gen Z spend $0/month on dating



Apps themselves:

Men = ~80% of paying users
Tinder tiers up to $499/month ($6K/year)
FTC fined Match $14M for deceptive practices
15,000+ complaints (BBB, 3 years)



AI threat:

60M downloads of AI companion apps (2025)
30M users on Replika
16% of singles tried AI romance (≈33% Gen Z)
Potential: 15% choose AI over humans by 2035



Outlier:

Grindr growing ~30%/year, ~47% margins
Works because: no gender imbalance, no swipe gamification



Key Takeaways

Dating apps are designed to keep you single (engagement > success)
The market is extremely unequal, especially for men
Everyone is dating less, not just “losing” men
Social + economic + tech factors are compounding the decline
Early signs show a shift back to real-life meeting and smaller communities

Cliffs: How dating apps have ruined dating and severely damaged fertility rates. Stop being a lazy bitch and watch it.

dating apps and social media should be inaccessible for everyone

would force the pendulum to swing back in a favorable direction

Cliffs: sloots gonna sloot, tour over (I assume I didn't watch it)

I have 2 kids (replacement achieved), and I get matches every day, this doesn't apply to me.

The younger generation is fucked for reasons that go beyond internet dating

So M-F straight apps are in massive decline and guys are coping with either AI chatbots or literally trying men on grinder

Lol

brutal black pill

I'm old fat and bald and had sex twice yesterday with my single mom girlfriend

I don't get these zoomers having no sex drive

Don’t need cliffs crew , dating apps are for Chad . There was a video posted once where a Chad had over 2000 prime young sloots in his roster , whereas Timmie’s can barely get the scraps with STDs .
I also lost my sloot to Chad back in the early 90’s . She only had a body count of one and had that sweet innocent girl next door vibe going .
Unfortunately she invited me to one of her companies events one weekend , and once my sloots seen her butter face coworker had a Chad fiancé, it was over srs , got dumped right on the spot after 2 years of being together.
Never let your sloot get anywhere near Chad , or your tours over ded srs

Guys are so fed up with sloots that they're literally trying men, LOL.