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post 10000148728 05-01-2026, 05:07 PM
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Another weekend with nothing to do as a 41 yr old single guy. What do you do?

I was getting so bored so I picked up a part-time job and I'll work a few hours on Saturday and Sunday, but my weekend nights are still so boring and I always have nothing to say when coworkers ask how my weekend went on Mondays

No girls contacting me, no matches, no replies on dating app, etc.

My last relationship ended when I was 38 and I really miss having a girl who would come over or we would go out to do something together.
post 10000148734 05-01-2026, 05:09 PM
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Trying to be a human without the coonsooomer mindset must be very difficult for people.
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post 10000148736 05-01-2026, 05:10 PM
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do some fun shit
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
do some fun shit
Examples?
post 10000148740 05-01-2026, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
Examples?
examples of what?
post 10000148741 05-01-2026, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
examples of what?
Fun shit that doesn't involve much $

My city is expensive even food
post 10000148743 05-01-2026, 05:18 PM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
Fun shit that doesn't involve much $

My city is expensive even food
do whatever the fuck you want to do
post 10000148745 05-01-2026, 05:18 PM
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post 10000148764 05-01-2026, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
I was getting so bored so I picked up a part-time job and I'll work a few hours on Saturday and Sunday, but my weekend nights are still so boring and I always have nothing to say when coworkers ask how my weekend went on Mondays

No girls contacting me, no matches, no replies on dating app, etc.

My last relationship ended when I was 38 and I really miss having a girl who would come over or we would go out to do something together.
You could always go to the gym Saturday night and there will be single girls there

Or take all painting, art or ceramics
class at the local community college.
post 10000148769 05-01-2026, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By LightWeightBaby⏩
You could always go to the gym Saturday night and there will be single girls there

Or take all painting, art or ceramics
class at the local community college.
Those are good ideas. OP, why not get a job in a bar/restaurant? You'd meet lots of people that way. You could also try salsa lessons. Great way to meet people.
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post 10000148782 05-01-2026, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Those are good ideas. OP, why not get a job in a bar/restaurant? You'd meet lots of people that way. You could also try salsa lessons. Great way to meet people.
I already work M-F full-time, and work Sat-Sun in a union job

I don't think I want to add a stressful bar/restaurant job as my 3rd job

I was actually looking into salsa classes that are nearby so I plan to try it out soon
post 10000148788 05-01-2026, 05:57 PM
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Try being a bit less of a manlet
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post 10000148789 05-01-2026, 05:58 PM
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whoremaxx

i just got home after spending $350 to cum in a ***** whore’s ass srs

and then drink
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Find a sloot at work to boink.
post 10000149119 05-02-2026, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted By AllLifter⏩
whoremaxx

i just got home after spending $350 to cum in a spiec whore’s ass srs

and then drink
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Those are good ideas. OP, why not get a job in a bar/restaurant? You'd meet lots of people that way. You could also try salsa lessons. Great way to meet people.
Do you work out on Satuday nights alone? If you do, let me know when and where the gym is and we can spot each other as we do squats.
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post 10000149238 05-02-2026, 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted By AllLifter⏩
whoremaxx

i just got home after spending $350 to cum in a ***** whore’s ass srs

and then drink
why do you wanna cum in ass tho.

The beatings will continue until morale improves.
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Originally Posted By WZBRAH⏩
why do you wanna cum in ass tho.


ik it’s a sin and all.

but that’s what degenmaxxing to the limit does to you.

the pussy and mouth just isn’t tight enough for me to climax

but when the dickhead can be felt penetrating the angus, that makes me cum quick

smh ….
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Originally Posted By AllLifter⏩
ik it’s a sin and all.

but that’s what degenmaxxing to the limit does to you.

the pussy and mouth just isn’t tight enough for me to climax

but when the dickhead can be felt penetrating the angus, that makes me cum quick

smh ….
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
post 10000149271 05-02-2026, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
I already work M-F full-time, and work Sat-Sun in a union job

I don't think I want to add a stressful bar/restaurant job as my 3rd job

I was actually looking into salsa classes that are nearby so I plan to try it out soon
Das it. Salsa is fun and very social. I took classes at a ballroom dance place but you could also go out to the bars that had salsa nights. For those they'd typically do an instruction thing then opened it up for free dancing. My problem was I couldn't do them often because I work full time and they were later at night. I did the classes for about a year and 1/2.


Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin⏩
Do you work out on Satuday nights alone? If you do, let me know when and where the gym is and we can spot each other as we do squats.
I don't work out on Saturdays. I used to go to gym on Friday nights, though. That was nice because the gym would be almost empty.
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