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post 10000188954 05-28-2026, 12:59 AM
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What're your thoughts on these "Are we dating the same guy" FB groups?

I just found out there's one called "Are we dating the same pilot?" specifically for pilots.

I think even like 20 years ago guys could go to he next town over and cheat to their heart's content but today it's a different ball game with these groups, facial recognition, social media, etc.

Basically any woman with a brain can find out her man is cheating real quick. Guys still do it though.

Also isn't it weird how you never hear about these groups for men? Do you ever worry about your gf/wife cheating on you? Where are the groups to catch female cheaters?
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Just make sure your mistress is aware you have a wife, cool with it, and not a crazy bish. Job done.

Ideally your wife is also aware of your mistress and cool with it. But we can't expect to have everything.
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Originally Posted By MiscDetective⏩
Also isn't it weird how you never hear about these groups for men? Do you ever worry about your gf/wife cheating on you? Where are the groups to catch female cheaters?
Because when men do it, it's considered creepy and controlling. Something something domestic violence, violence against women, the patriarchy...

When women do it it's considered empowering and brave, women looking after women and protecting themselves
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Just live in the wilderness and fuck all this shit
post 10000188981 05-28-2026, 03:47 AM
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My issue with it is men getting wrongfully accused because a woman decides they behaved badly. Happens all the time.
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Seems like a waste of time and effort. If they asked me if I was seeing other women I would literally just tell them.


I’m not accountable to a woman and I never will be. I hope they play some type of “gotcha” with me.
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Not sure if same page, but they have a Facebook women only page that shit talks men who wronged women. Basically a dating review site, obviously only the negative parts.

Roommate got a new GF. She comes over often, notices our buddy is a whore maxxer. Looks him up and shows us the post. It was bad, like see him in a different light bad.
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post 10000189022 05-28-2026, 05:54 AM
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Why would I ever care about this?
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
Seems like a waste of time and effort. If they asked me if I was seeing other women I would literally just tell them.


I’m not accountable to a woman and I never will be. I hope they play some type of “gotcha” with me.
Women are indeed a huge waste of time, energy, and money

I wish I was able to get rid of my wife, whenever she is away for a few days I feel so at peace and happy
post 10000189027 05-28-2026, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted By JohnSmith⏩
Women are indeed a huge waste of time, energy, and money

I wish I was able to get rid of my wife, whenever she is away for a few days I feel so at peace and happy
post 10000189032 05-28-2026, 06:14 AM
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I’m not a piece of shit so who cares
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post 10000189034 05-28-2026, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
I’m not a piece of shit so who cares
There is an argument you don’t have to be a piece of shit to be the target of a woman’s unwarranted emotional outrage.


Some women lie to themselves and try to make the man’s fault.

People can actually receive legitimate damages through rumors. That is why slander and liable are causes for legal action.

However, I have learned that even the craziest of bitches can be controlled with personal dignity and emotional maturity. Typically not tolerating stupid ass bullshit right off the bat works for me.
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post 10000189039 05-28-2026, 06:24 AM
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i feel like facebook in 2026 should be a dealbreaker for most men
post 10000189041 05-28-2026, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted By naich⏩
Not sure if same page, but they have a Facebook women only page that shit talks men who wronged women. Basically a dating review site, obviously only the negative parts.

Roommate got a new GF. She comes over often, notices our buddy is a whore maxxer. Looks him up and shows us the post. It was bad, like see him in a different light bad.
Did the whore post a review on him? Isn't that kind of what you're seeing a whore not to do?
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Originally Posted By MiscDetective⏩

The Law of Moses prohibits it.
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post 10000189066 05-28-2026, 07:20 AM
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They don't care if you present them with the option of being with an incel manlet like OP who will never have the chance to cheat, or enjoy their time with a true macho alpha who they might have to share occasionally
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Originally Posted By AverageKenneth⏩
Just make sure your mistress is aware you have a wife, cool with it, and not a crazy bish. Job done.

Ideally your wife is also aware of your mistress and cool with it. But we can't expect to have everything.
This is again a man with zero experience in the field talking straight out of his ass.
You can NEVER have women know about eachother. They will fuk u over always. There is no cool women willing to get fucked by a married guy
Fuck off with this larp bonobo. Youre a fucking joke
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post 10000189073 05-28-2026, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
My issue with it is men getting wrongfully accused because a woman decides they behaved badly. Happens all the time.
Lmao

Getting onto one of these websites as a man would have you swimming in guaranteed pussy

Weaponised social proof

The only pussy magnet more powerful would be a mugshot and confirmed felony charge/conviction
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My thoughts that’s others haven’t addressed:

1) there are no groups for men that are “are we dating the same women?” Because Facebook physically won’t allow them. It’s a double standard, one way street. If men do it, it’s misogyny. If women do it, it’s for safety.

2) I would be ok with it if it were totally honest and used for its intended purpose. I think it’s fair for a woman to find out if her boyfriend or husband is cheating on her. This ends up being 1-5% of the actual use of the group.

3) 10-15% of the posts end up “outing players”. Ie making girls aware that a single guy who is dating around and making no commitments, is somehow a piece of shit for seeing multiple women, banging them, but not getting into a relationship. This is bullshit. The guy never CHEATED on anyone. All the girls willingly had sex without being in a relationship, but they don’t like that they got pumped and dumped by Chad and want to get revenge. It’s funny to see them take no agency or role in the sex. Always call the guy creepy. BITCH YOU FUCKE.MD HIM, WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?!??? These posts get the most engagement, but aren’t fair and should be banned.

4) 70 -80% of the posts. “Anyone know anything about?” These girls are straight up reviewing guys like some sort of Amazon slave auction. Again, has nothing to do with if the guy is cheating on anyone, they are only discussing his looks, behavior, and personality. This is bullshit because the girls can lie and slander a guy. They can like the guy and want to bad mouth him to get rid of competition. Anything goes. It’s hurting the guys chances in dating just even being brought up even if there’s nothing bad said about him. Merely being mentioned kinda makes you damaged goods.

All women do is talk this shit than men are always objectifying them, this is purely objectifying men.
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Originally Posted By MiscDetective⏩
Also isn't it weird how you never hear about these groups for men? Do you ever worry about your gf/wife cheating on you? Where are the groups to catch female cheaters?
not needed since we know the answer is always yes
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Originally Posted By MiscDetective⏩
I just found out there's one called "Are we dating the same pilot?" specifically for pilots.

I think even like 20 years ago guys could go to he next town over and cheat to their heart's content but today it's a different ball game with these groups, facial recognition, social media, etc.

Basically any woman with a brain can find out her man is cheating real quick. Guys still do it though.

Also isn't it weird how you never hear about these groups for men? Do you ever worry about your gf/wife cheating on you? Where are the groups to catch female cheaters?
Those groups 100% violate Facebooks own user agreements for doxxing and many times full of made up stories aka defamation and slander by some butt hurt exes.

But a male group would just flat out never been allowed

It's just example.number 4,237 of the simplification of America
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Why would I ever care about this?
Easy when your poosy hound exploits are just a larp, right?
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Did the whore post a review on him? Isn't that kind of what you're seeing a whore not to do?
Not a real whore lol, just loose fat women. Black brah is a chubby chaser and got one into his rotation that thought it was something else. He almost certainly lied to her, because after a year or so she moved to our state with her child. That's when he broke it off because he saw how serious shit was getting. That made her very mad lol.
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster2⏩
My thoughts that’s others haven’t addressed:

1) there are no groups for men that are “are we dating the same women?” Because Facebook physically won’t allow them. It’s a double standard, one way street. If men do it, it’s misogyny. If women do it, it’s for safety.

2) I would be ok with it if it were totally honest and used for its intended purpose. I think it’s fair for a woman to find out if her boyfriend or husband is cheating on her. This ends up being 1-5% of the actual use of the group.

3) 10-15% of the posts end up “outing players”. Ie making girls aware that a single guy who is dating around and making no commitments, is somehow a piece of shit for seeing multiple women, banging them, but not getting into a relationship. This is bullshit. The guy never CHEATED on anyone. All the girls willingly had sex without being in a relationship, but they don’t like that they got pumped and dumped by Chad and want to get revenge. It’s funny to see them take no agency or role in the sex. Always call the guy creepy. BITCH YOU FUCKE.MD HIM, WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?!??? These posts get the most engagement, but aren’t fair and should be banned.

4) 70 -80% of the posts. “Anyone know anything about?” These girls are straight up reviewing guys like some sort of Amazon slave auction. Again, has nothing to do with if the guy is cheating on anyone, they are only discussing his looks, behavior, and personality. This is bullshit because the girls can lie and slander a guy. They can like the guy and want to bad mouth him to get rid of competition. Anything goes. It’s hurting the guys chances in dating just even being brought up even if there’s nothing bad said about him. Merely being mentioned kinda makes you damaged goods.

All women do is talk this shit than men are always objectifying them, this is purely objectifying men.
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