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post 10000210244 06-12-2026, 08:44 AM
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Would I be screwing myself if I sent a girl a poem?

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post 10000210246 06-12-2026, 08:45 AM
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i dont think that's a good idea. Unless she already has an enormous attraction to you (srs)
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post 10000210248 06-12-2026, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Pats2022SBwin⏩
i dont think that's a good idea. Unless she already has an enormous attraction to you (srs)
Well she DM'd me and asked me out back then. She doesn't have any decent options because at this point she's widened her search to the entire country.

Again I must say, there is no simping or cringe stuff in the poem
post 10000210249 06-12-2026, 08:47 AM
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fucken lol. waits 2 months to reply. thats like 5 years in women dating scene time. prolly moved on days after to another dude
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post 10000210252 06-12-2026, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Jughead96⏩
fucken lol. waits 2 months to reply. thats like 5 years in women dating scene time. prolly moved on days after to another dude
Read the OP, she's still single
post 10000210253 06-12-2026, 08:48 AM
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You trying to be her gay bestfriend I take it?
post 10000210264 06-12-2026, 08:56 AM
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Probably a bot or a fake profile. A 10 as you claimed and a surgeon wouldn't waste her time DMing random nobodies and trying to meet them

Call that number and hear Sanjay answer then hang up



This is the only part of OP's story that's probably true...


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We are both minorities
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post 10000210267 06-12-2026, 08:59 AM
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does it start off “roses are red, violets are blue”?
post 10000210269 06-12-2026, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
Probably a bot or a fake profile. A 10 as you claimed and a surgeon wouldn't waste her time DMing random nobodies and trying to meet them

Call that number and hear Sanjay answer then hang up



This is the only part of OP's story that's probably true...
She isn't fake, she gave me her real number and I looked it up.

If you understand a woman's position, they generally date up. Most guys of my ethnicity look like shit in their mid 30s and the ones that don't are already married. There's not many options, and even if there are, those guys are looking at younger women.

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does it start off “roses are red, violets are blue”?
It has absolutely none of that type of talk.
post 10000210271 06-12-2026, 09:01 AM
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I never heard a minority refer to themselves as a minority. So i'm going to assume your Indian and you just don't want to say that because Indians aren't very well liked.. And wtf are you doing that your so busy that you can't go on a date with someone for a month?

You have time to be on dating apps/social media but don't have time to date?

I swear when will these jeets learn.

It sounds like you chatted her up, you found her attractive and start downplaying yourself, thinking she was way out your league and you were afraid to move forward to something IRL.

Writing a poem after you basically ghosted her for two months is also a very jeet like move.


Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
If you understand a woman's position, they generally date up. Most guys of my ethnicity look like shit in their mid 30s and the ones that don't are already married. There's not many options, and even if there are, those guys are looking at younger women.

Sounds like you need some good friends or therapy to have you build some confidence or self respect

also knew it, you're Indian
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post 10000210281 06-12-2026, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
I never heard a minority refer to themselves as a minority. So i'm going to assume your Indian and you just don't want to say that because Indians aren't very well liked.. And wtf are you doing that your so busy that you can't go on a date with someone for a month?

You have time to be on dating apps/social media but don't have time to date?

I swear when will these jeets learn.

It sounds like you chatted her up, you found her attractive and start downplaying yourself, thinking she was way out your league and you were afraid to move forward to something IRL.

Writing a poem after you basically ghosted her for two months is also a very jeet like move.




Sounds like you need some good friends or therapy to have you build some confidence or self respect

also knew it, you're Indian
Have you considered I don't want to be misc detectived? I'm not indian but if that makes you feel better than oook

I'm not on social media
My dating app was dormant, I only opened it because I got a notification that she DM'd me
I was unable to meet due to work/travel commitments
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post 10000210286 06-12-2026, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
Have you considered I don't want to be misc detectived? I'm not indian but if that makes you feel better than oook

I'm not on social media
My dating app was dormant, I only opened it because I got a notification that she DM'd me
I was unable to meet due to work/travel commitments
how is someone going to "misc detectived" you off simply saying your race?

I've literally posted my picture countless times, told people my ethnicity/nationality. told people the city i live in, the gym i go to and ect.. never once been "misc detectived" and i talk a ton of shit.. pretty sure no one has an any idea who the fuck you are or where you came from


stop using excuses you got scared and like others said it could of been a bot.
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post 10000210291 06-12-2026, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
how is someone going to "misc detectived" you off simply saying your race?

I've literally posted my picture countless times, told people my ethnicity/nationality. told people the city i live in, the gym i go to and ect.. never once been "misc detectived" and i talk a ton of shit.. pretty sure no one has an any idea who the fuck you are or where you came from


stop using excuses you got scared and like others said it could of been a bot.
it's literally happened to me a couple years ago. no thanks, I'm not posting any identifying factors about me on this forum, people are creeps
post 10000210295 06-12-2026, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By ayyylmao⏩
it's literally happened to me a couple years ago. no thanks, I'm not posting any identifying factors about me on this forum, people are creeps
whatever bro and by bro, i mean never my bro
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post 10000210396 06-12-2026, 09:54 AM
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Maybe.

If I wanted to give a girl a poem I would. I actually have a few times in the past. Some girls will love it, some may not. If that's who you are you might as well lean into it and find out which category she falls into. I'd probably only do that for someone I was dating.

The first one was a high school girlfriend, and we dated off and on for a year or so. Her parents live close to where I live now, and we don't stay in touch but cross paths and treat each other like old friends when we see each other. The other was my wife before we were married.
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Originally Posted By FarmersSon⏩
Maybe.

If I wanted to give a girl a poem I would. I actually have a few times in the past. Some girls will love it, some may not. If that's who you are you might as well lean into it and find out which category she falls into. I'd probably only do that for someone I was dating.

The first one was a high school girlfriend, and we dated off and on for a year or so. Her parents live close to where I live now, and we don't stay in touch but cross paths and treat each other like old friends when we see each other. The other was my wife before we were married.
Yea I mean the girl is mid 30s like me, and we briefly chatted. My poem is not one where I'm complimenting her or showing much interest, and there's nothing cheesy in it. It's just a fun way to reintroduce myself and ask her to meet rather than send her a boring paragraph

The other option would be to just send a voice note
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