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post 10000239965 07-01-2026, 08:37 PM
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Is the dating scene really that bad? I hear nothing but complaints.

Women complaining how a majority of men suck. Men complaining how a majority of women suck.
post 10000239970 07-01-2026, 08:40 PM
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no idea. Havent even tried to go on a date since December. She was an 8/10 Korean girl and amazing. Ghosted me after. I just stick to escorts/sugarbabies now and life has never been better.
post 10000239972 07-01-2026, 08:42 PM
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Being single and middle aged is GOAT.
post 10000239991 07-01-2026, 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted By butatwhatcost⏩
Being single and middle aged is GOAT.
What is middle aged these days?
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post 10000240034 07-01-2026, 09:23 PM
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Well I have come to be really mindful as to how I would want to go into dating again. I think what I’ve learned would make me someone great to date but I’ve accepted being alone forever. I’m in a weird place I think- like the men I typically date aren’t something I can do anymore and I don’t know what the next step up is. I also have like scars from my past life. Like tells I guess - that probably wouldn’t make me desirable to men that are the step up. So I’m basically doomed.
My self worth is probably really fucked . I don’t think it’s something I can get past to the point where I ever try dating again.
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post 10000240077 07-01-2026, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Women complaining how a majority of men suck. Men complaining how a majority of women suck.
Feminism has completely ruined like 90% of women the women who are “conservative” get there pick of the rich redneck chads.
post 10000240081 07-01-2026, 09:51 PM
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it's pretty much common knowledge at this point for anyone comfy enough to leave the blue pill plantation -- 100% of women trying to have a relationship with around 15-20% of men. Some of those women "settling" for some the remaining men if they bring a lot to the table (namely status or money). This can often lead to friction in the relationship (or divorce/cheating) later down the line.

It will be tough going for the majority of women because obviously they can't all get a quality relationship from 15-20% of men. The bottom 80-85% of men either can't get dates or can't get enough interest to be too selective in what they want from a woman. Like the situation for women -- this can lead to friction in the relationship later on down the line.
post 10000240085 07-01-2026, 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Basedbabyy⏩
Feminism has completely ruined like 90% of women the women who are “conservative” get there pick of the rich redneck chads.
“I want a classic traditional gentlemen who opens doors etc. oh also it’s a gentleman’s job to cook and clean.”

Like wtf no, you just want everything paid for and done for you

You’re right, Woman are offering less and less, the only ones who get it are conservatives and they understand they are there to work as a team and make their man’s life easier, bettering both their lives in the end
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post 10000240086 07-01-2026, 09:55 PM
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It's really bad but I been off the market for a year
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post 10000240092 07-01-2026, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Srs⏩
“I want a classic traditional gentlemen who opens doors etc. oh also it’s a gentleman’s job to cook and clean.”

Like wtf no, you just want everything paid for and done for you

You’re right, Woman are offering less and less, the only ones who get it are conservatives and they understand they are there to work as a team and make their man’s life easier, bettering both their lives in the end
can you blame women for being in a position of power and milking it for all it's worth? it's like someone having a specific marketable skill and working for the company willing to pay them the most. women have the marketable skill which is essentially pucci and men are the employers bidding for their skill.
post 10000240095 07-01-2026, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
can you blame women for being in a position of power and milking it for all it's worth? it's like someone having a specific marketable skill and working for the company willing to pay them the most. women have the marketable skill which is essentially pucci and men are the employers bidding for their skill.
Essentially the rat race never stops. And as the relationship continues, the expectations the she puts on the man are continuously being raised to new levels until 1. He’s not good enough 2. Boyo snaps
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post 10000240103 07-01-2026, 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Srs⏩
Essentially the rat race never stops. And as the relationship continues, the expectations the she puts on the man are continuously being raised to new levels until 1. He’s not good enough 2. Boyo snaps
that's sad. I just want a nice girl who's cute. I've met too many girls who made me resent them for making me give too much and receive too little. My current sb is great. Cheap, young, asian, gives me road head and sleeps over after I creampie her 4 times. Says yes to everything and is down to get pizza hut. Wife material.
post 10000240106 07-01-2026, 10:05 PM
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It is that bad. It's basically women begging for money and free food.

Luckily I don't date Western women
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post 10000240107 07-01-2026, 10:06 PM
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I havent dated or had sex since my late 20s, I'm confident with some life changes I could find someone, I cant really see it changing that much in 15 years, maybe with the rise of AI and social media but I doubt it, online dating was abysmal back then and it probably still is, dating IRL is doable its just most people want whats out of their league.

I literally watched a video of some guy talking about his experience interviewing a group of incels, men and women who were a friend group, they complained about how they have no success with the opposite sex yet they won't pair up with each other, it boggled my mind, I think some people label themselves as incel because they think its the "in" thing to do now.
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post 10000240109 07-01-2026, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Srs⏩
Essentially the rat race never stops. And as the relationship continues, the expectations the she puts on the man are continuously being raised to new levels until 1. He’s not good enough 2. Boyo snaps
never rest
post 10000240112 07-01-2026, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted By butatwhatcost⏩
Being single and middle aged is GOAT.
Can not confirm

I'm single and middle aged
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
that's sad. I just want a nice girl who's cute. I've met too many girls who made me resent them for making me give too much and receive too little. My current sb is great. Cheap, young, asian, gives me road head and sleeps over after I creampie her 4 times. Says yes to everything and is down to get pizza hut. Wife material.
- SB
- Wife material

Pick one
post 10000240116 07-01-2026, 10:09 PM
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It’s quite easy for me but as I get older it’s getting ever so slightly harder.

It’s always been quite easy for me though.

I get quality dates irl and matches online.
post 10000240117 07-01-2026, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By nevermadeit⏩
- SB
- Wife material

Pick one
dont care man. The pussy is good and she's my type in looks and personality. GOnna take her to nobu and blow her back out this weekend.
post 10000240127 07-01-2026, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Srs⏩
What is middle aged these days?
41/42
post 10000240140 07-01-2026, 10:21 PM
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Women want a 10k/day ceo but only offer up pre-owned pussy.
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Originally Posted By butatwhatcost⏩
41/42
by this age better be willing to take on a few kids that you're willing to treat like gold.
post 10000240200 07-01-2026, 11:31 PM
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I black pill Miscers about relationships for lols , but srs when I leave the house I seem to notice a lot of couples , and it’s as though everyone is hitched but me lol .
With my disability I have a pretty valid excuse though srs
Back with my Fam
post 10000240207 07-01-2026, 11:38 PM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
I black pill Miscers about relationships for lols , but srs when I leave the house I seem to notice a lot of couples , and it’s as though everyone is hitched but me lol .
With my disability I have a pretty valid excuse though srs
imagine how it would've felt to not be married in 1960 when 92% of adults had been married at least once by age 40. 😮
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
imagine how it would've felt to not be married in 1960 when 92% of adults had been married at least once by age 40. 😮
Well I guess I can sit back relieved knowing almost everyone where I worked was divorced . Pretty bad fking odds tbh
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Lol at misc giving relationship advice
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
Well I guess I can sit back relieved knowing almost everyone where I worked was divorced . Pretty bad fking odds tbh
crazy how once you hit 30 it seems like you're seeing marriages of family members/friends/old schoolmates end almost monthly. some of the divorces come out of left field.
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Depends how ugly you are
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Originally Posted By edwardhaskell⏩
it's pretty much common knowledge at this point for anyone comfy enough to leave the blue pill plantation -- 100% of women trying to have a relationship with around 15-20% of men. Some of those women "settling" for some the remaining men if they bring a lot to the table (namely status or money). This can often lead to friction in the relationship (or divorce/cheating) later down the line.

It will be tough going for the majority of women because obviously they can't all get a quality relationship from 15-20% of men. The bottom 80-85% of men either can't get dates or can't get enough interest to be too selective in what they want from a woman. Like the situation for women -- this can lead to friction in the relationship later on down the line.
Sloots gon sloot.
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Mature honest dating ,yes

people using each other ,no

I gave up
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