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post 1454788723 07-27-2016, 10:04 AM
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Sort of losing interest after GF decided she doesn't want to move in yet.

Cliffs:

-Been dating 2 months
-Both of our leases are up next month
-Things are going great, I asked if she wants to get a place together
-Right now we live 70 miles apart, I wanted to split the difference. Would have added 30 minutes to my commute, 15 to hers
-She decided to move back in with her family to save money for down payment on a house instead

I get it... We haven't been dating that long, and she's being responsible. But that means we're still gonna be living an hour and a half away from each other. Long term, there is no fuarking way that works. And now I need to decide between getting a place close to my job, or somewhat more her direction.

Das not it mane. Sort of feel "meh" about it now.
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post 1454788993 07-27-2016, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Cliffs:

-Been dating 2 months
-Both of our leases are up next month
-Things are going great, I asked if she wants to get a place together
-Right now we live 70 miles apart, I wanted to split the difference. Would have added 30 minutes to my commute, 15 to hers
-She decided to move back in with her family to save money for down payment on a house instead

I get it... We haven't been dating that long, and she's being responsible. But that means we're still gonna be living an hour and a half away from each other. Long term, there is no fuarking way that works. And now I need to decide between getting a place close to my job, or somewhat more her direction.

Das not it mane. Sort of feel "meh" about it now.
brah you're trying to move in with your GF of 2 months? Das not it mane
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post 1454789063 07-27-2016, 10:06 AM
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whats wrong brah? having second thoughts on all your marriage BS you were posting in the other thread?


lol remember brah the only loyal puzzyz u ever will have are those cats you live with because these hoes aint loyal bro...perfect example here she doesnt wanna move in an commit to you because she has c0ck shes riding in her city she cant let go

holla at cha boy
post 1454789093 07-27-2016, 10:07 AM
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An hour and a half away. Cot damn..
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post 1454789133 07-27-2016, 10:07 AM
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move on OP
post 1454789263 07-27-2016, 10:07 AM
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Would not be hauling all my **** in the opposite direction to my job for a chick I've been banging for 8 weeks.

8 months perhaps.

What's the shortest you can renew your lease for? Renew for 6 months then reassess?
post 1454789293 07-27-2016, 10:08 AM
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didnt she have a birthday party with tyrone and jamal and completely go NC on you for like a day? Why are you still with this bish?


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post 1454789303 07-27-2016, 10:08 AM
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Is this the same "GF" you picked up naked at a parking lot? Catbrah plz...
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post 1454789333 07-27-2016, 10:08 AM
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go NC, shes not that crazy about being with you (srs) else she would've jumped at the chance.
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post 1454789353 07-27-2016, 10:08 AM
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2 months, bro. Don't even think about moving in. And don't even think about moving closer to her.

Get some sense into your head.

It took 1.5 years before my gf and I decided to move in. 2 months is way too quickly. Don't jeopardize your comforts for 2 months of dating.
post 1454789413 07-27-2016, 10:08 AM
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post 1454789453 07-27-2016, 10:09 AM
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post 1454789533 07-27-2016, 10:09 AM
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post 1454789563 07-27-2016, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
brah you're trying to move in with your GF of 2 months? Das not it mane
this... too soon, man. regardless of current distance.

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post 1454789613 07-27-2016, 10:10 AM
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post 1454790313 07-27-2016, 10:14 AM
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post 1454790553 07-27-2016, 10:15 AM
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Why the **** are you considering moving in with a girl you consider "meh?"
post 1454790683 07-27-2016, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Cliffs:

-Been dating 2 months
-Both of our leases are up next month
-Things are going great, I asked if she wants to get a place together
-Right now we live 70 miles apart, I wanted to split the difference. Would have added 30 minutes to my commute, 15 to hers
-She decided to move back in with her family to save money for down payment on a house instead

I get it... We haven't been dating that long, and she's being responsible. But that means we're still gonna be living an hour and a half away from each other. Long term, there is no fuarking way that works. And now I need to decide between getting a place close to my job, or somewhat more her direction.

Das not it mane. Sort of feel "meh" about it now.
Well first of all you should've confirmed whether she believed in dinosaurs or China. If she does, then you wouldn't want to be living with a retard anyway
post 1454791043 07-27-2016, 10:19 AM
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70 miles apart....?
post 1454791273 07-27-2016, 10:20 AM
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No fukking thanks. She's right in this case.
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post 1454791293 07-27-2016, 10:20 AM
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post 1454792163 07-27-2016, 10:25 AM
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How long have you guys been dating?
post 1454792393 07-27-2016, 10:27 AM
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Lol @ moving in w/ a girl after 2 months.

She prob doesn't want to live in a apt covered in cat piss and hair. Like every other sane person on the planet.
post 1454792633 07-27-2016, 10:28 AM
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why would anyone want to live with you and 500 cats jon?
post 1454793513 07-27-2016, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Brian0602⏩
If you plan on being married one day, please move in with her beforehand.

Living with somebody is so much different than just dating, and you do not want to find that out after already taking the marriage plunge.

SRS brah; don't make that mistake.
I agree and disagree with this.

I lived with my wife for years before getting married. It was hell for both of us. Relationships are different when you are just dating and living together. Because you are trying to act married and act like dating BF & GF couples. Which the rules and standards are different for both relationships. Big time. It makes it worse when you both are not on the same page.

I really recommend just being with your GF as much as possible to see if you work out. Maybe spend weekends staying with each other, or a week vacation periodically.

I've watched plenty of Judge Judy to know that moving in with your GF after 2 months of dating is a bad idea. Even though I did the same and me and my wife still stuck together through it all.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
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I'd never live with a woman I wasn't married too. No way I'm dealing with their drama before I have too. People need their own space OP. Slow down on moving in together. Maybe you can do it in a year instead.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Cliffs:

-Been dating 2 months
-Both of our leases are up next month
-Things are going great, I asked if she wants to get a place together
-Right now we live 70 miles apart, I wanted to split the difference. Would have added 30 minutes to my commute, 15 to hers
-She decided to move back in with her family to save money for down payment on a house instead

I get it... We haven't been dating that long, and she's being responsible. But that means we're still gonna be living an hour and a half away from each other. Long term, there is no fuarking way that works. And now I need to decide between getting a place close to my job, or somewhat more her direction.

Das not it mane. Sort of feel "meh" about it now.
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post 1454794673 07-27-2016, 10:42 AM
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She made the smart decision, you know nothing about a person after 2 months. She probably just doesn't wanna deal with the smell of cat chit constantly
post 1454794763 07-27-2016, 10:42 AM
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Your so insecure about this girl, and could barely trust her at a party. 2 months is way too soon to move in with someone.

Maybe 2+ years and I would understand this post
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