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post 1460550063 09-03-2016, 12:08 AM
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A woman's ultimate weapon: "I don't feel comfortable around you anymore"

Holy fuark. How many times has this weapon been used on you? It happened to me today (got into an argument with a female co-worker) and I immediately realized how brutal these words are, what a dirty tactic it is, how impossible it is for a man to defend against it.

I don't feel comfortable around you anymore.

Holy shet, it's nuclear. Nothing you can do. And a man can't use this weapon on a woman, no one would care.

The only time a woman should say this is when she is being threatened. Not when a man emphatically disagrees with her.

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post 1460550203 09-03-2016, 12:10 AM
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post 1460550283 09-03-2016, 12:11 AM
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I see what youre saying.. they have so many passive aggressive tricks up their sleeves
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OP i used to like you but now i after this thread i don't feel comfortable around you anymore

but srs they teach girls to stay chit like this at my old highschool

"you are scaring me"
"stop it i dont like it"

I assume it is to be used in serious situations, but it just gets thrown out in any minor disagreement...
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Dont think for a second that she doesnt know exactly what shes doing with that statement. Its to take away your self respect and make you feel like a creep, a sexual predator. Even though the trigger for this statement was a simple argument.
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Originally Posted By BrooklynB1
Dont think for a second that she doesnt know exactly what shes doing with that statement. Its to take away your self respect and make you feel like a creep, a sexual predator. Even though the trigger for this statement was a simple argument.
This. Women are devious mayne
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post 1460550613 09-03-2016, 12:17 AM
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she's telling your female coworkers that you're creepy now too and they've all labelled you. your life at that place is literally over.
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It's because of the emotional emphasis behind a female brain's innerworkings.

While men will approach any situation as long as there's a purpose behind it, we can be indifferent with the worst idiot we know.

In the case of girls, they can only operate in circumstances that provide positive emotions. Don't give them any of the following; 'gina tingles, gifts, verbal validation, assistance then they have no business with you. And if you provide negative emotions, you may as well not exist.

My ex said this to me, but it was because we slept together last time we hung out, and she felt used as I held back while we were still living together. Still a blow to my ego though.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias
It's because of the emotional emphasis behind a female brain's innerworkings.

While men will approach any situation as long as there's a purpose behind it, we can be indifferent with the worst idiot we know.

In the case of girls, they can only operate in circumstances that provide positive emotions. Don't give them any of the following; 'gina tingles, gifts, verbal validation, assistance then they have no business with you. And if you provide negative emotions, you may as well not exist.

My ex said this to me, but it was because we slept together last time we hung out, and she felt used as I held back while we were still living together. Still a blow to my ego though.
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happened with me and the last girl i was into when i showed her my anus as a joke
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Originally Posted By zhengterry
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its quite embarrassing. I work with a team of 3 people, this person casually mentioned that my team "leans too heavily" on her team (asking questions).

I personally make a point to never bother them, and my team is even more vigilant about not bothering them. I was offended by her accusation, and asked her to give me an example. She couldn't do it. I pushed it further:

"Really? No example? Not a single one? Anything? Hello?"

She clammed up. For some reason, there is nothing I hate more than someone who clams up when they know they are wrong. It's not that hard to say "ok maybe I was wrong."

She snapped when I said:

"So you have no examples, this is a total fabrication right? Why are you so quiet now? Are you that afraid to admit you're wrong?

She exploded.

"AFRAID? AFRAID? OF YOU???LOL!"

Then asked me to go into a private office where she told me that I'm not a good person, I'm mean, and she doesn't feel comfortable around me anymore."

I got rekt.
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Originally Posted By BieberFeverBrah
its quite embarrassing. I work with a team of 3 people, this person casually mentioned that my team "leans too heavily" on her team (asking questions).

I personally make a point to never bother them, and my team is even more vigilant about not bothering them. I was offended by her accusation, and asked her to give me an example. She couldn't do it. I pushed it further:

"Really? No example? Not a single one? Anything? Hello?"

She clammed up. For some reason, there is nothing I hate more than someone who clams up when they know they are wrong. It's not that hard to say "ok maybe I was wrong."

She snapped when I said:

"So you have no examples, this is a total fabrication right? Why are you so quiet now? Are you that afraid to admit you're wrong?

She exploded.

"AFRAID? AFRAID? OF YOU???LOL!"

Then asked me to go into a private office where she told me that I'm not a good person, I'm mean, and she doesn't feel comfortable around me anymore."

I got rekt.
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Originally Posted By BrooklynB1
Dont think for a second that she doesnt know exactly what shes doing with that statement. Its to take away your self respect and make you feel like a creep, a sexual predator. Even though the trigger for this statement was a simple argument.
This person is very smart, I have no doubt she knows the power of those words and used it to rekt me.

She's not a kid either, this woman is 44. She purports to be "tough" but she literally crumbled under the pressure of being pushed to admit she was wrong.

I feel sick thinking about this.
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Originally Posted By butwhowasgains
OP i used to like you but now i after this thread i don't feel comfortable around you anymore

but srs they teach girls to stay chit like this at my old highschool

"you are scaring me"
"stop it i dont like it"

I assume it is to be used in serious situations, but it just gets thrown out in any minor disagreement...
at 5'8'' i have to assume this has never happened to you.sry
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Originally Posted By oreogasm
"Aww, dont' tell me you have a crush on me now ?!"
That would have been funny, but I would have lost the high ground.
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus
she's telling your female coworkers that you're creepy now too and they've all labelled you. your life at that place is literally over.
Naw, it's all men here, just her and the biller are females, otherwise it's a sausage party. Das it mayne.
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Originally Posted By BieberFeverBrah
Then asked me to go into a private office where she told me that I'm not a good person, I'm mean, and she doesn't feel comfortable around me anymore."
Haha, she used the word "mean" in a professional environment? I'm done.

Ya big meanie. Play nicer at work.
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Originally Posted By jeffJJ
at 5'8'' i have to assume this has never happened to you.sry
Are you unaware that 5'10 is also manlet status on misc now? huehuehue

Also strong reading comprehension, i never said it had specifically happened to me (it has thou lulz), had some hyperfeminist chick who i would rustle for the lols
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Originally Posted By IHateUPLSDie
Lmao @ socializing with co workers. Clock in, do your job, keep to yourself, clock out. If it isn't work related then leave me the **** alone.
^^^ this guy gets it.
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Originally Posted By IHateUPLSDie
Lmao @ socializing with co workers. Clock in, do your job, keep to yourself, clock out. If it isn't work related then leave me the **** alone.
I thought this strategy was the best until I got fired for being "distant and unfriendly"

You can never win.

I guess it's some sort of crime to not want to associate with idiots who try to stir up drama at every corner. My manager literally wanted me to become friends with everyone (he said this), like what is this bull****? Go **** yourself dude, I don't want to be friends with any of you. Still salty to this day about that.
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That's why I hated working in an office man. Using words to hurt, turning people against each other, playing on others' emotions, that is women's turf mate. They have the home ground advantage.

Males are at a disadvantage straight off the bat biologically because women's communication skills are better, they have better empathy and emotional intelligence and if you get a manipulative woman in your office who gets you in her crosshairs they can make work life a living hell. Plus they can always play the victim whenever they feel like it, and society will accept the poor little defensiveless girl narrative EVERY TIME.

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Woah kinda same situation happens to my friends and I.
- after a night of drinking we met some random girls (5 girls and us 4 guys)
-walk over a mile with then back to campus laughing and having a good time
-4 girls go up with one of my friends to get something
-we are just chatting with the one girl
-two random guys come up to her and ask if she's ok
-she straight up says that we are harassing her
-I just do a 360 and gtfo
-mind blown at females again
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Best countermove is to just make a totally baffled and confused look and ask "why is that?"

She'll either say something like "you're creepy/aggressive/triggering me" or the opposite, she won't want to explain it at all.

Either way, you can say "well, then lets both go to the HR department/boss/supervisor/manager right now and we can continue our argument right in front of them so that you can feel comfortable knowing that someone is there to supervise the situation." (Other option is to actually call the boss/manager/supervisor over to where you are, and calmly explain that you need them present because _______ said that you were making her uncomfortable, and you want _________ to feel safe so the supervisor needs to stand there and listen to both of you bitching about whatever until the conflict is resolved.)

Highly unlikely she's going to want to stand in front some higher up arguing like a cow. But keep pressing it every time anybody says you make them uncomfortable, and absolutely refuse it if she says "no, I'd rather us go where Patty is" (some coworker female friend of hers who will take her side). Make sure its in front of a higher up, and make sure that the higher up knows its because your female coworker can't do simple things without being triggered.
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Originally Posted By conner50
Woah kinda same situation happens to my friends and I.
- after a night of drinking we met some random girls (5 girls and us 4 guys)
-walk over a mile with then back to campus laughing and having a good time
-4 girls go up with one of my friends to get something
-we are just chatting with the one girl
-two random guys come up to her and ask if she's ok
-she straight up says that we are harassing her
-I just do a 360 and gtfo
-mind blown at females again
There should be a female psychology class for men to take in college so we can understand what goes through their mind in situations like these.

The sad thing is that this interaction make 0 sense at all but is totally believable.
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Originally Posted By Nicro327
There should be a female psychology class for men to take in college so we can understand what goes through their mind in situations like these.

The sad thing is that this interaction make 0 sense at all but is totally believable.
What would the syllabus look like though? There would be absolutely no structure to it, everything is answered by "because I felt that way".
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This is why I am in IT...

Servers and workstations...we have a department secretary and she is a fukin whack job like that...she hates men....but wears makeup high heels, perfume but will bitch and complain about people giving her compliments.

True convo once where I rewalized she was a keg of sexual harassment TNT:

Me:'Look loser...we were in a weapons manufacturing steel company...throw on jeans and a flannel...
Her:'But I want to look and feel like a woman but I dont want any creepy compliments from anyone or anyone looking at me!'
Me:'You are a nut job...you know that?'

Did not give a **** at the time I had a return ticket back to my old job still if I wanted it but I have never engaged her first in a convo from that point on in the last year.
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