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ยป Ever notice how women never hold the door open for men?
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post 1478601971 01-11-2017, 08:53 AM
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Ever notice how women never hold the door open for men?

just saw this lady walk out of the building and there was this guy not 3 feet away from the door walking towards it

instead of doing the polite thing, lady just breezes through the door without even holding it so the guy can get a hand on it

just blew right by him, without even a second thought

can pretty guarantee she wouldve been pissed if the roles were reversed

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post 1478602271 01-11-2017, 08:56 AM
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Women are generally pretty unaware of their surroundings constantly. No idea why. They seem to exist in their own bubble
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post 1478602641 01-11-2017, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By arn710
Women are generally pretty unaware of their surroundings constantly. No idea why. They seem to exist in their own bubble
Don't lie, you know why
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post 1478602811 01-11-2017, 09:01 AM
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I don't hold doors open much anymore. People seem to have this odd expectation that they are entitled to it. Or they are just in their own world.

Said it before...many people don't appreciate niceness anymore. That is a bad mentality. Niceness is a choice.

Pretty much this...
Originally Posted By arn710
Women are generally pretty unaware of their surroundings constantly. No idea why. They seem to exist in their own bubble
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post 1478602891 01-11-2017, 09:01 AM
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I see women holding doors constantly. If they don't, it's because of years of social conditioning. I always hold doors; today a woman held a door open for me an embarrassingly long time while I walked down some stairs.

Sometimes we don't do things like that for men when we worry they'll think we're hitting on them. That might be it. Perhaps OP gives off creeper vibe.
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post 1478602981 01-11-2017, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted By arn710
Women are generally pretty unaware of their surroundings constantly. No idea why. They seem to exist in their own bubble
this. my ex-wife had zero spacial awareness. explains why they drive like Asians
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post 1478602991 01-11-2017, 09:02 AM
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She detected a non-chad coming at her and therefore kept on walking.
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my coworkers do it and others have too. females or male. sometimes lm like fook man. now i have to put my booster on so you could let the door go. like just slam that shet shut so i dont have to use my boosters, im like wtf
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I HATE people that don't hold the door. I also HATE people that don't grab the door when I hold it for them, you know -- they just breeze though like you're their slave or something. I slam it on them. A woman actually did it to me at Starbucks this morning. I had my coffee and my dog and she just stood outside waiting for me to open the door so she could go in. And when I was walking out, she just walked in without grabbing the door (even though I had a dog and a hot cup of coffee) --- so I shut it on her, it hit her right in the ass, she looked back at me like wtf and i was just like)))))))))))))))

I hold the door for everyone, male or female. It's just the polite thing to do.
post 1478603361 01-11-2017, 09:06 AM
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I've had women do it for me before. Ever open the door and the chick just walks in without saying anything like an entitled **** and you were suppose to do it for her. They get a nice " You're welcome bitch" as the door shuts.
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post 1478603481 01-11-2017, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints
I see women holding doors constantly. If they don't, it's because of years of social conditioning. I always hold doors; today a woman held a door open for me an embarrassingly long time while I walked down some stairs.

Sometimes we don't do things like that for men when we worry they'll think we're hitting on them. That might be it. Perhaps OP gives off creeper vibe.
lol wat...

Location: NYC

Lived there most of my life...people arn't holding doors for anyone.
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post 1478603541 01-11-2017, 09:08 AM
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check your man privilege
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post 1478603571 01-11-2017, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By ssg10587
lol wat...

Location: NYC

Lived there most of my life...people arn't holding doors for anyone.
Lived there ALL my life.

And they're probably just not holding them for you.
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Originally Posted By CHARBACK
She detected a non-chad coming at her and therefore kept on walking.
lmfao...This.
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post 1478603691 01-11-2017, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By shesprints
Lived there ALL my life.

And they're probably just not holding them for you.
A GIRL FROM NYC?!

Let's be friends

PS: My dog's name is Samantha too
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Originally Posted By shesprints
Lived there ALL my life.

And they're probably just not holding them for you.
Strong bitterness. Funny how you feel the need to insult.
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Originally Posted By SM1021
A GIRL FROM NYC?!

Let's be friends

PS: My dog's name is Samantha too
that body space though.. hnnngggg
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Yes we do.

But if someone without a disability is purposely taking their time getting to the door, I'll leave.

Believe it or not, some people will slow down on purpose to see what you'll do when holding open the door.
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Originally Posted By SM1021
A GIRL FROM NYC?!

Let's be friends

PS: My dog's name is Samantha too
She's like 40...she's just gonna hate on your still active glow.
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He probably looked like a serial killer
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OP butthurt woman didn't hold door for him. now hates women forever.
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I've had both men and women keep the door open for me and I do the same half the time. Don't expect to have them do it for you, but don't go out of your way all the time to do it (you aren't their concierge or greeter lol).
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If you're not 6'2 and white with a 8/10 face don't expect these bitches to even treat you like a human being
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
She's like 40...she's just gonna hate on your still active glow.
My glow will be active forever, idc how much it costs.
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On the flip side I was walking out of my office main doors once and noticed a woman around mid 50's walking out behind me so I held the door. She was almost stunned and shocked and said no one ever did that before. I was like, what??
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Originally Posted By velvetmudhole
Don't lie, you know why
I don't even think its a sense of entitlement like you're eluding too. I don't know what it is.

I haven't met a female that isn't like this. They're totally oblivious to what's going on around them
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
Yes we do.

But if someone without a disability is purposely taking their time getting to the door, I'll leave.

Believe it or not, some people will slow down on purpose to see what you'll do when holding open the door.
This. I'm also always aware of how close the closest person is and the speed they are traveling and make that split second decision on whether to hold or not. If they're too far back, it's more awkward to keep it held open for them because they might feel like they need to rush.
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To be honest. I would be feel beta if a woman held the door for me.
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Originally Posted By arn710
I don't even think its a sense of entitlement like you're eluding too. I don't know what it is.

I haven't met a female that isn't like this. They're totally oblivious to what's going on around them
oblivious until 6'4 white guy with 9/10 face pops up then suddenly they become acutely aware huh? LMAO
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Originally Posted By SM1021
My glow will be active forever, idc how much it costs.
I'm sure these women thought the same thing.








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