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post 1479157521 01-15-2017, 11:00 AM
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Something FA's need to hear that they ignore more than anyone else...

NOBODY CARES

...that's theruleNOT theexception.


Most people are so wrapped up in their own 9-5 cuckery that they have blinders on and don't see anything else. That's why people who commit suicide get a lot of, "If I had known I would of helped" or, "OMG I'm so shocked" from the people that knew them. Almost nobody cares and nobody is paying attention to anyone but themselves. And really... are those the people that you want caring if you are a FA?

Honestly, it's a big reason why celebrities often become huge fuk-ups ... they know (deep down) most of the people that surround them on a daily basis are just leeches and don't really care except for what they can gain. Same is generally true for true HBBs. It's the reason why people were so friendly for a week after 9/11 and then went back to being a-holes.

Even if you are cool and did do something genuinely interesting and awesome ... you will find:

- A small group that do care because they have their chit together or they are at rock bottom and desperate to be part of anything.
- A small group that doesn't identify with you at all.
- The vast majority that might ask surface level questions or none at all because you put into question the value of their 9-5 cuckery (nobody wants to be reminded that their life is lame)

The other things most FA's do is get to a despair point where they alienate the few people in their lives that somewhat (like care about your health - or in an obligatory way like family) care. You act distant, weird, or ignore them so that they reach out and finally ask, "WTF is wrong" ... just so you can then say, "Nothing! Fuk Off!" It's like a last ditched effort to for a sense of significance. Constantly pushing people away also gives a sense of penance in a fuked up way to prove the paradigm in your head that you are a FA piece of crap.

How do you get out of it? Simply realize the truth and take action...

Most people are so screwed up they don't care, your self-pity hasn't made your life better in anyway, and the only way forward is to be the hero in your own movie... meaning... don't be you (sorry but the you sucks) and start being the person you dreamed of. ACT AS IF / FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT / MOTION CREATES EMOTION ... until you become that hero.
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"The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

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post 1479157761 01-15-2017, 11:03 AM
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10/10 thread, will read to grandchildren.
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people isolate theirselves with other motives than 'wanting attention'
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How can you stand most interactions with people knowing that nobody actually cares what you're saying?
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Made some good points, repped
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Gonna add to thread, alot of people in life are UNSUCCESFUL

Wanna know why?

Cuz dem bicth kids are REacting to life. They aren't in control, their actions are dicated by the cage they live in.


You want to act like a free kid, don't allow any variable to limit your actions.





Also don't do the same thing as 98% of the population or you'll end up with a cuck 9-5 job for 40 yrs.
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Okay but how does this translate into getting my oneitis to tongue punch my fart box?
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This is actually solid thread. I will add that the only difference between FAers and eventual non-FAers is the ability to fail over, over, and over.
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Originally Posted By faxanadu
NOBODY CARES

...that's theruleNOT theexception.


Most people are so wrapped up in their own 9-5 cuckery that they have blinders on and don't see anything else. That's why people who commit suicide get a lot of, "If I had known I would of helped" or, "OMG I'm so shocked" from the people that knew them. Almost nobody cares and nobody is paying attention to anyone but themselves. And really... are those the people that you want caring if you are a FA?

Honestly, it's a big reason why celebrities often become huge fuk-ups ... they know (deep down) most of the people that surround them on a daily basis are just leeches and don't really care except for what they can gain. Same is generally true for true HBBs. It's the reason why people were so friendly for a week after 9/11 and then went back to being a-holes.

Even if you are cool and did do something genuinely interesting and awesome ... you will find:

- A small group that do care because they have their chit together or they are at rock bottom and desperate to be part of anything.
- A small group that doesn't identify with you at all.
- The vast majority that might ask surface level questions or none at all because you put into question the value of their 9-5 cuckery (nobody wants to be reminded that their life is lame)

The other things most FA's do is get to a despair point where they alienate the few people in their lives that somewhat (like care about your health - or in an obligatory way like family) care. You act distant, weird, or ignore them so that they reach out and finally ask, "WTF is wrong" ... just so you can then say, "Nothing! Fuk Off!" It's like a last ditched effort to for a sense of significance. Constantly pushing people away also gives a sense of penance in a fuked up way to prove the paradigm in your head that you are a FA piece of crap.

How do you get out of it? Simply realize the truth and take action...

Most people are so screwed up they don't care, your self-pity hasn't made your life better in anyway, and the only way forward is to be the hero in your own movie... meaning... don't be you (sorry but the you sucks) and start being the person you dreamed of. ACT AS IF / FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT / MOTION CREATES EMOTION ... until you become that hero.
I didn't read. Hah
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Cuckery is a great word
post 1479160341 01-15-2017, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By jakeeck
How can you stand most interactions with people knowing that nobody actually cares what you're saying?
I actually find it is easier to engage strangers in real conversation than acquaintances/friends/family. A lot of people that have known you for a long time simply take you for granted and assume they know you... you're basically never new or interesting to them... just the sum total of your past and how they perceive that.
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post 1479160661 01-15-2017, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Vishca
Gonna add to thread, alot of people in life are UNSUCCESFUL

Wanna know why?

Cuz dem bicth kids are REacting to life. They aren't in control, their actions are dicated by the cage they live in.


You want to act like a free kid, don't allow any variable to limit your actions.





Also don't do the same thing as 98% of the population or you'll end up with a cuck 9-5 job for 40 yrs.
So what should I do for money?
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It's true no one really does care. When you tell your friends about your problems they really don't give a damn. I know I don't when people talk to me. Only time people care about others are in intimate relationships
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meh, useless drivel


everyone consciously knows to "act confident" and "don't be anxious". real help would bridge the gap between your body's response (anxiety, fear, etc.) and what you know you should be doing (without fear/anxiety)
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to prove your point, i didn't read
post 1479161991 01-15-2017, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By FreakyDeakyy
It's true no one really does care. When you tell your friends about your problems they really don't give a damn. I know I don't when people talk to me. Only time people care about others are in intimate relationships
I actually listen intently to what most people are sayingIFit is obviously something more than small talk bullchit. And then give my thoughts. If it is something I think might offend them I'll ask them, "Do you want to know what I honestly think?"

HOWEVER

Most people want validation to their belief structure and not something that disagrees with it. So while I might be paying attention and really trying to help them ...they are the ones not actually paying attention. That might seem confusing. I'm basically saying reality isn't congruent with their beliefs ... they're in a bubble ... and what your saying will most likely bounce right back and not resonate with them at all.
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Originally Posted By midcoastking33
to prove your point, i didn't read
But you did enter the thread and post <rekt>

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I always laugh while watching 'celebrities' engaging with the general public up close because the general public, generally, lacks common decency and show little to no respect for their so called idols. I wonder how it makes the celebs feel knowing their fan base are a bunch of cnuts just out to get a selfie for instagram. I lol when fans turn on their own idols too. Usually over some social media SJW nonsense. The fans' phony worship of their idol crumbles and you see their true colours emerge. Go and look at a celeb's social media and watch how quickly their fans turn on them when they're annoyed.
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Originally Posted By faxanadu
NOBODY CARES

Most people are so wrapped up in their own 9-5 cuckery that they have blinders on and don't see anything else. That's why people who commit suicide get a lot of, "If I had known I would of helped" or, "OMG I'm so shocked" from the people that knew them. Almost nobody cares and nobody is paying attention to anyone but themselves. And really... are those the people that you want caring if you are a FA?

Honestly, it's a big reason why celebrities often become huge fuk-ups ... they know (deep down) most of the people that surround them on a daily basis are just leeches and don't really care except for what they can gain. Same is generally true for true HBBs. It's the reason why people were so friendly for a week after 9/11 and then went back to being a-holes.
This is especially true.
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Someone just posted this thread about a homeless guy that applies to this thread...

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showth...hp?t=173313931
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Originally Posted By jakeeck
How can you stand most interactions with people knowing that nobody actually cares what you're saying?
this is probably why most people don't care what you're/we're saying

we've grown into an incredibly cynical society or maybe humans are cynical by nature
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You may not care, but actually acting like you don't will cause you more problems.

Sure, humans are cynical. But if you dare show that you are, you will be looked at in an incredibly negative light
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Originally Posted By faxanadu
NOBODY CARES

...that's theruleNOT theexception.


Most people are so wrapped up in their own 9-5 cuckery that they have blinders on and don't see anything else. That's why people who commit suicide get a lot of, "If I had known I would of helped" or, "OMG I'm so shocked" from the people that knew them. Almost nobody cares and nobody is paying attention to anyone but themselves. And really... are those the people that you want caring if you are a FA?

Honestly, it's a big reason why celebrities often become huge fuk-ups ... they know (deep down) most of the people that surround them on a daily basis are just leeches and don't really care except for what they can gain. Same is generally true for true HBBs. It's the reason why people were so friendly for a week after 9/11 and then went back to being a-holes.

Even if you are cool and did do something genuinely interesting and awesome ... you will find:

- A small group that do care because they have their chit together or they are at rock bottom and desperate to be part of anything.
- A small group that doesn't identify with you at all.
- The vast majority that might ask surface level questions or none at all because you put into question the value of their 9-5 cuckery (nobody wants to be reminded that their life is lame)

The other things most FA's do is get to a despair point where they alienate the few people in their lives that somewhat (like care about your health - or in an obligatory way like family) care. You act distant, weird, or ignore them so that they reach out and finally ask, "WTF is wrong" ... just so you can then say, "Nothing! Fuk Off!" It's like a last ditched effort to for a sense of significance. Constantly pushing people away also gives a sense of penance in a fuked up way to prove the paradigm in your head that you are a FA piece of crap.

How do you get out of it? Simply realize the truth and take action...

Most people are so screwed up they don't care, your self-pity hasn't made your life better in anyway, and the only way forward is to be the hero in your own movie... meaning... don't be you (sorry but the you sucks) and start being the person you dreamed of. ACT AS IF / FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT / MOTION CREATES EMOTION ... until you become that hero.
As if you can just choose to become some other person. What a joke.
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser
As if you can just choose to become some other person. What a joke.
Not sure what that is suppose to mean... all you have is choices in this life.
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Originally Posted By faxanadu
Not sure what that is suppose to mean... all you have is choices in this life.
Right, but you're insinuating that you can just magically choose an alternate personality for yourself, which is bull****.
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Originally Posted By 11lemon11
I always laugh while watching 'celebrities' engaging with the general public up close because the general public, generally, lacks common decency and show little to no respect for their so called idols. I wonder how it makes the celebs feel knowing their fan base are a bunch of cnuts just out to get a selfie for instagram. I lol when fans turn on their own idols too. Usually over some social media SJW nonsense. The fans' phony worship of their idol crumbles and you see their true colours emerge. Go and look at a celeb's social media and watch how quickly their fans turn on them when they're annoyed.
Reminds me of this video. At 1:28 Ronaldo is being nice to the female fans, trying to make conversation but they want nothing to do with it. As famous and aesthetic as Ronaldo is all they care about is that one selfie with him so they can post on Instagram and brag to their friends. As soon as the photo was taken they quickly dip.

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Quality thread, OP is 100% right.. If you are lucky you have parents and other close family that love you and that is pretty much the only unconditional pure love you will get. Other than that the world isn't made to give a fuk about you. I've never blamed anyone for being FA other than myself (my behaviour and genetics), I'll try to get myself out of it but if it doesn't work out then fuk it, that's life son. Self pity is the worst trait someone can have, it's like a coping mechanism done by your brain to make you sort of comfortable with how fuked you are.
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser
Right, but you're insinuating that you can just magically choose an alternate personality for yourself, which is bull****.
No, that's how you interpreted what i said. Emulate people that you consider successful ... or ... continue coping. It's not a magically concept. If you can't figure something out in this time period with all the resources in the world one click away ... that's coping.

EDIT:

Like my peasant vocabulary didn't know how to spell coping. I would like to be a good writer. BAM ... internet. Choice made ... problem solved.
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