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post 1488264021 03-23-2017, 08:23 AM
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Depressed in Tokyo

Theres like 13 million people here in Tokyo, and each 'ward' is essentially like Melbourne, so Tokyo = the size of 10 Australian CBDs put together. Its pretty damn huge.

I see so many HBBs everyday its not even funny. Walking anywhere near train stations and you can see at least 2 really attarctive girls you'd consider smashing every minute srs. It's because there's just so many people here, literally hundreds of people in sight anywhere you go (on the maroon streets), so the number of HBBs go up (even though the percentages remain the same worldwide).

Anyway it hurts not getting female attention here srs. Getting served in a restaurant by a female doesn't count. Walking in stations and not a single girl in sight who shows signals sucks. none will look me in the eyes showing interest.

It doesn't help that:

-Japan's culture is non confronting (but girls dont really approach you anyway)
-Im a Gaijin (foreigner)
-SE Asian and a tan skin, so im probably looked down upon people here (not that I care)
-Only about 5'6
-Average face, look more aggressive/manly than facially good looking like a male model
-kisless virgin


Wat do
post 1488264421 03-23-2017, 08:26 AM
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SE Asians in Japan have less to no chances to get laid. I feel you brah.

Go to Akihabara maybe you will meet some slutty weeaboo western girls who will want to suck your yellow ding dong.

Stay strong brah, we all gonna make it.
post 1488264641 03-23-2017, 08:28 AM
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You being SE Asian is the problem. Go for an online escort service.
post 1488264651 03-23-2017, 08:28 AM
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Sorry bro, you gotta run "Just be white" game in Japan.
post 1488265181 03-23-2017, 08:33 AM
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You got the money to travel to Japan, but not the money to hire escort service?

Why not try a bar or club? I can imagine they could get really freaky over there.
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post 1488265351 03-23-2017, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
-Only about 5'6



Wat do
you're one of them
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post 1488265361 03-23-2017, 08:35 AM
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no balls to approach girls, literally every beta nu-male on the planet
post 1488265481 03-23-2017, 08:36 AM
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees
Sorry bro, you gotta run "Just be white" game in Japan.
Originally Posted By Kajjan
You being SE Asian is the problem. Go for an online escort service.
I heard that some women here like the bb sea. I dont have a bee bee sea, but maybe theres some out there that may like people like me as a niche?
Originally Posted By Lietuviss
SE Asians in Japan have less to no chances to get laid. I feel you brah.

Go to Akihabara maybe you will meet some slutty weeaboo western girls who will want to suck your yellow ding dong.

Stay strong brah, we all gonna make it.
My dingdong aint yellow, its brown

Dont like westernized women, I like the traditional asian ones like the ones here in Japan.
post 1488265811 03-23-2017, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted By pelbismeasly
no balls to approach girls, literally every beta nu-male on the planet
Cant just cold approach on the street, nobody does that here
Originally Posted By 300BLK
You got the money to travel to Japan, but not the money to hire escort service?

Why not try a bar or club? I can imagine they could get really freaky over there.
Escort is too much, a waste. You can get laid spending 10% of that on drinks in the club
Originally Posted By cromofo
you're one of them
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post 1488265951 03-23-2017, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
Theres like 13 million people here in Tokyo, and each 'ward' is essentially like Melbourne, so Tokyo = the size of 10 Australian CBDs put together. Its pretty damn huge.

I see so many HBBs everyday its not even funny. Walking anywhere near train stations and you can see at least 2 really attarctive girls you'd consider smashing every minute srs. It's because there's just so many people here, literally hundreds of people in sight anywhere you go (on the maroon streets), so the number of HBBs go up (even though the percentages remain the same worldwide).

Anyway it hurts not getting female attention here srs. Getting served in a restaurant by a female doesn't count. Walking in stations and not a single girl in sight who shows signals sucks. none will look me in the eyes showing interest.

It doesn't help that:

-Japan's culture is non confronting (but girls dont really approach you anyway)
-Im a Gaijin (foreigner)
-SE Asian and a tan skin, so im probably looked down upon people here (not that I care)
-Only about 5'6
-Average face, look more aggressive/manly than facially good looking like a male model
-kisless virgin




Wat do
That is the reason. They would only speak to you if they needed cheap labour in a paddy field.

If you were 6 foot+ European master race it would be a different story.
post 1488266361 03-23-2017, 08:44 AM
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Gotta earn their respect gaijin brah, try getting into the drift scene

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post 1488266551 03-23-2017, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By doughnutking
That is the reason. They would only speak to you if they needed cheap labour in a paddy field.

If you were 6 foot+ European master race it would be a different story.
This. Japanese people only get with other Japanese people or white people.

No racist, just the truth
post 1488267641 03-23-2017, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By SazabiBrah
This. Japanese people only get with other Japanese people or white people.

No racist, just the truth
Ive seen some other nationalities get with Japanese. And ive read some also like the be be sea
post 1488268781 03-23-2017, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
Ive seen some other nationalities get with Japanese. And ive read some also like the be be sea
Just face it you are on the bottom rung of desirability being Asian when it comes to looks / status, and i'm not being racist.

You even said it yourself that you are tanned, and you know that in these countries tanned SE Asian means you are King peasant of all the peasants..

Time to accept and love yourself and get a lovely SE Asian wife.
post 1488320851 03-23-2017, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted By doughnutking
Just face it you are on the bottom rung of desirability being Asian when it comes to looks / status, and i'm not being racist.

You even said it yourself that you are tanned, and you know that in these countries tanned SE Asian means you are King peasant of all the peasants..

Time to accept and love yourself and get a lovely SE Asian wife.
I know these things, fuark. Surely there are exceptions to the rule
post 1488321251 03-23-2017, 04:09 PM
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my uncle was brown, turban/beard, 300lbs (srs) probably more actually, lived out there for 7 years has a hard drive of naked girls and one he almost married.


lol at u


Skin tone is the least of your problems. Im dark and pull anything walking but it depends on the day. I am very emotionally driven and days I want to be left alone or sad, It shows on my face. Everyone is reading you like a book.
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I've known a few people who went to Japan and they said that the Japanese love people who are anything but Asian srs. They kept getting people wanting to take pictures with them and chit
There and back again twice, a deep red's tale.
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
I know these things, fuark. Surely there are exceptions to the rule
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post 1488322071 03-23-2017, 04:15 PM
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Dude, your demeanor is depressing as F; I can only imagine how you come off IRL. Just go to a bar or something where everyone is there with the intent of having something intimate. Your first mistake was walking into a Country expecting to be worshiped. You need to be outspoken; show off your English, be socially aggressive, etc. At least try one bar before you leave my dude.
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Originally Posted By Sikhveins
my uncle was brown, turban/beard, 300lbs (srs) probably more actually, lived out there for 7 years has a hard drive of naked girls and one he almost married.


lol at u


Skin tone is the least of your problems. Im dark and pull anything walking but it depends on the day. I am very emotionally driven and days I want to be left alone or sad, It shows on my face. Everyone is reading you like a book.
This happened in Japan? Your uncle and your story?

And where did you guys live/pull/hang out?

And please aware me on Japanese people reading your emotions

Originally Posted By Deezenutz
I've known a few people who went to Japan and they said that the Japanese love people who are anything but Asian srs. They kept getting people wanting to take pictures with them and chit
This contradicts what the last poster said. And in my experience, other Gaijins who are white/European haven't gotten pictures of as far as I've seen. Nobody seems to attract attention in public in this society
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Cant really be empathic with you, you are in fking Japan ffs, I am jealous as fk
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Originally Posted By MajinBuuuu
Dude, your demeanor is depressing as F; I can only imagine how you come off IRL. Just go to a bar or something where everyone is there with the intent of having something intimate. Your first mistake was walking into a Country expecting to be worshiped. You need to be outspoken; show off your English, be socially aggressive, etc. At least try one bar before you leave my dude.
I don't expect to get worshiped by a lot of the girls here.

Alright ill try one bar here before I go, we'll see what happens. I should at least go once in my life
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Originally Posted By StainlesSon
Cant really be empathic with you, you are in fking Japan ffs, I am jealous as fk
Lmao it's only good for a holiday, wouldn't want to work here. I feel for all these numb people who are wage slaves, and they just seem to hide their emotions to numb the pressure
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Originally Posted By joshewwah
Theres like 13 million people here in Tokyo, and each 'ward' is essentially like Melbourne, so Tokyo = the size of 10 Australian CBDs put together. Its pretty damn huge.

I see so many HBBs everyday its not even funny. Walking anywhere near train stations and you can see at least 2 really attarctive girls you'd consider smashing every minute srs. It's because there's just so many people here, literally hundreds of people in sight anywhere you go (on the maroon streets), so the number of HBBs go up (even though the percentages remain the same worldwide).

Anyway it hurts not getting female attention here srs. Getting served in a restaurant by a female doesn't count. Walking in stations and not a single girl in sight who shows signals sucks. none will look me in the eyes showing interest.

It doesn't help that:

-Japan's culture is non confronting (but girls dont really approach you anyway)
-Im a Gaijin (foreigner)
-SE Asian and a tan skin, so im probably looked down upon people here (not that I care)
-Only about 5'6
-Average face, look more aggressive/manly than facially good looking like a male model
-kisless virgin


Wat do
Maybe you need to learn the cultural signals? All the brahs I knew who spent time there, did fine there for the most part. It's the kisless virgin thing that's probably hurting you most man as girls can sense that miles away. Might be time for some professional help...
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Bro you just need to try. My Filipino bro got laid in Japan pretty easily and he's even 5'7. Approach in Shibuya if you need to. I remember one night we went shopping and he looked like ****. Straight up hadn't showered, disgusting pube facial hair, oversized jacket like a fisherman. And he picked up this chick, took her straight to that New Orleans bar in Shibuya, and then smashed at a love hotel. I was behind them/in the area the entire time (only took like 3 hours). I just followed a few meters behind on my skateboard and skated around Shibuya while they were drinking+smashing. Might have videos of the approach lol. Easy peasy.

All you gotta do is try.
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Originally Posted By SazabiBrah
This. Japanese people only get with other Japanese people or white people.

No racist, just the truth
Wrong. I lived in tokyo and osaka for work. They love them big Nigerian BBC's in Japan. I saw a lot of japanese HBBs with Nigerian men pushing a pram with kids.
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If you're going to feel bad as if you're being rejected anyway, at least try approaching instead of making a thread about why random girls at a train station don't ask to zuk your dong as soon as they see you. You feel like **** anyway, so might as well have a real reason instead of some retardo autist reasoning based on lack of events.
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Originally Posted By WillBrink
Maybe you need to learn the cultural signals? All the brahs I knew who spent time there, did fine there for the most part. It's the kisless virgin thing that's probably hurting you most man as girls can sense that miles away. Might be time for some professional help...
What cultural signals?
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Bro you just need to try. My Filipino bro got laid in Japan pretty easily and he's even 5'7. Approach in Shibuya if you need to. I remember one night we went shopping and he looked like ****. Straight up hadn't showered, disgusting pube facial hair, oversized jacket like a fisherman. And he picked up this chick, took her straight to that New Orleans bar in Shibuya, and then smashed at a love hotel. I was them the entire time (took like 3 hours). I just followed a few meters behind on my skateboard and skated around Shibuya while they were drinking+smashing. Might have videos of the approach lol. Easy peasy.

All you gotta do is try.
Cold approach in public? In a store? how

Also was your friend dark or light as a filo and how did he pickup

And which wards are good to pickup in tokyo?

Would rep but on mobile
Originally Posted By JustaQuestion
Wrong. I lived in tokyo and osaka for work. They love them big Nigerian BBC's in Japan. I saw a lot of japanese HBBs with Nigerian men pushing a pram with kids.
This is what I read online, its because of that bee bee sea. And these guys most likely work as touts
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Told you you should have gone to a SE asian country like vietnam, you autist

Go to one of the convenience stores around 6-8pm, usually good looking single girls just getting out of school and looking for something to drink srs
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