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ยป What indicates someone is a "loser" at first glance?
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post 1492000341 04-21-2017, 08:44 PM
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What indicates someone is a "loser" at first glance?

Be judgmental and tell me what's something that would make you think a stranger has to be a "loser" from your observations?
post 1492000551 04-21-2017, 08:46 PM
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forward head posture
post 1492000701 04-21-2017, 08:46 PM
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- Body language (cant make eye contact, speaks low, head to the ground)
- Dirty/poor fashion/hygeine etc (no pride in apperance and so on)
- Mentions Twitch
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Poor hygiene and health. Someone who can't afford to take care of themselves tells a lot about who they are.
post 1492000971 04-21-2017, 08:49 PM
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post 1492001051 04-21-2017, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By allianc3
Be judgmental and tell me what's something that would make you think a stranger has to be a "loser" from your observations?
They look likethis



But srs, once you leave high school you have to be mentally injured to still judge people based on first appearance, massive number of people who look poor or like total nerd types that have made it, or 'jock' douche looking types who turn out to be awesome and down to earth.



TLDR; life teaches you winners and losers come in all shapes and sizes
post 1492001251 04-21-2017, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Batorr
Poor hygiene and health. Someone who can't afford to take care of themselves tells a lot about who they are.
pretty much this... aka dirtball.

post 1492001371 04-21-2017, 08:52 PM
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A mullet?

And maybe it doesn't make a person a loser but I always wonder why people have such yellow teeth when it's preventable with white strips and such. So I will say that I at least cringe hard when I see yellow teeth...
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post 1492001661 04-21-2017, 08:55 PM
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post 1492001921 04-21-2017, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted By the[K]id
They look likethis



But srs, once you leave high school you have to be mentally injured to still judge people based on first appearance, massive number of people who look poor or like total nerd types that have made it, or 'jock' douche looking types who turn out to be awesome and down to earth.



TLDR; life teaches you winners and losers come in all shapes and sizes
don't be too high and mighty for this. that's no fun and I'm all about fun.
post 1492002051 04-21-2017, 08:57 PM
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Very very dirty/worn out sneakers

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Too much cologne/perfume
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post 1492002341 04-21-2017, 08:59 PM
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Poor body language
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Smells bad
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post 1492003571 04-21-2017, 09:07 PM
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Bad teeth / poor hygiene

Flabby physique

In addition, I can't stand retards who wear hats indoors particularly in bars
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Lack of eye contact
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Poor hygiene = balding
Bad posture = weak frame

So bald or small skull/torso
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Originally Posted By LugosiNineOne
Lack of eye contact
But who was blind guy?
post 1492004641 04-21-2017, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By the[K]id
They look likethis



But srs, once you leave high school you have to be mentally injured to still judge people based on first appearance, massive number of people who look poor or like total nerd types that have made it, or 'jock' douche looking types who turn out to be awesome and down to earth.



TLDR; life teaches you winners and losers come in all shapes and sizes
This.

That said i still automatically dislike people with

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post 1492004961 04-21-2017, 09:18 PM
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Just looking like they dont give a **** about themselves/have no self respect

Chitty physique
Chitty clothes
Poor Posture
Don't make eye contact

etc etc.

I would say though in trying to be a more positive/good vibes kind of guy these days, i try to look at people like that and think "they are probably going through some ****" rather than just think they are a loser.
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bad posture, hunched back, no rhythm when walking.
post 1492005561 04-21-2017, 09:22 PM
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The way they carry themselves. This is the biggest.

The people who look smug and angry are always losers. That's a loser mentality manifesting itself.

Poor hygiene. This is obvious.

Also typically I can look at someone and see that they value "things" over everything else. Chicks are the worst with it. Nice new car, iphone, over expensive clothing, and then you can just tell by the way they speak that they are losers. All show no go.

I think one of my best skills is evaluating people. I can easily see who is genuine, nice, outgoing, smart, well mannered, successful, and who isn't.
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
- Body language (cant make eye contact, speaks low, head to the ground)
Originally Posted By CestLaVida
Poor body language
Can barely hold eye contact
Lowers voice on purpose
Think you're confusing social anxiety/awkwardness with being a 'loser'

I don't call people losers, but probably anyone that tries to start fights/thinks they're the best thing there is.
post 1492006031 04-21-2017, 09:27 PM
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as far as physical appearance goes, not much. I judge people on what they say, and how they say it. If you "um" and "uhh" a lot, don't listen to others/talk over them, use slang, ect. Those are strong indicators but words that absolutely make me lose all respect for someone include "trifling" "homie" "niga" "errrrbody/errthang" or some derivative

bottom line, don't be too judgmental of someone based on looks, focus more on their verbal aspects as that will be the true identifier

edit: O and how the fuk did I forget this. If you spend too much time scrolling on your phone, fuk you
post 1492006201 04-21-2017, 09:28 PM
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post 1492006401 04-21-2017, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted By KRC63
as far as physical appearance goes, not much. I judge people on what they say, and how they say it. If you "um" and "uhh" a lot, don't listen to others/talk over them, use slang, ect. Those are strong indicators but words that absolutely make me lose all respect for someone include "trifling" "homie" "niga" "errrrbody/errthang" or some derivative

bottom line, don't be too judgmental of someone based on looks, focus more on their verbal aspects as that will be the true identifier
Their physical along with their verbal cues are the golden keys. I agree though, like I said above, just because someone looks successful doesn't mean they are. Listen to their vocabulary and their dialect, and boom you have your answer. But there are definitely physical cues like their general look on their face, vibe, mannerisms, that give off a loser vibe. I have never met someone that isn't a loser, and is a generally angry, smug, pissed off, arrogant looking *******.
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i saw a guy yesterday wearing a "i pooped today" shirt. pretty sure that automatically outs a person as a loser
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If I see anyone with behavior resembling my own, I know they are a loser.
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