We’ve been together for almost two years. She is the love of my life and I know I could spend the rest of my life with her. She broke up with me this past week because she is unhappy. Not necessarily with our relationship, but with her life. She is unsure of her future and very confused and stressed about school. We’ve talked and hung out several times, and we’ve both agreed that in order for us to be happy together, we need to find our personal happiness. I couldn’t agree more, but I can’t understand why we can’t be together while finding that happiness. She tells me she loves me, and misses me as her boyfriend. I’m just so scared, and so sad. I want my baby back so badly. I love her so much. I do not want to push her away in this time of confusion. Now that we are separate I want her more than ever, and I’ve spent countless hours beating myself up and thinking of every mistake I’ve ever made in our relationship. I know if we were together again it would be better than ever.

I should also say that at some point over this past summer I started dealing with depression due to non-related events in my life. It definitely effected our relationship, and I inadvertently began using her as a crutch and my solo source of happiness. I realize now that she cannot be my only source of happiness, because the pressure is unfair to her. I can’t pin point when or why, but we both forgot about the social “friendship” factor in our relationship. Now that we are “separate” we’ve started getting along better than we have in months. We were bickering and fighting a lot, but it was never because of animosity. It was always petty, and stupid, like we forgot why we were together, and we weren’t appreciative of what we had. She knows where I’m at because I’ve never kept my feelings from her. She is just unsure. She was with another guy when I met her, and she actually broke up with him for me ( sorry guy ) - point is she has forgotten what it feels like to be alone, without the commitment of a relationship and the uncertainty of a future.

In many ways, I feel like things haven’t changed at all. We still talk everyday, and I know she thinks and cares about me. We’ve hung out several times in the past week, but we don’t show affection. We focus on our friendship. When we’re spending time together I’m happy, but then I feel so broken when there’s no kiss goodnight. I just want her back... It’s so hard for me to fathom being without her. She’s not promiscuous in any way, and other guys are the least of my concerns. People suggest to spend time apart, and not talk for a few months, and then she’ll realize what she had and come back to me. The thing is - if I don’t call her, she’ll call me! I’m genuinely lost, hurt, confused. What should I do?

Cliffs?

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And you're red *******

read the beginning paragraph, got bored. Get over her bruh. Only way to get her back is to alpha up and find a hot chick to make her jealous. Bang said hot bitch, post pics of ya'll where she will see. She'll want you back. If you truly want her back don't tell her about the tapping of the other girl. She will already know, but will pretend to believe and silently respect your lying.

careful lol

Dude your threads are lame and boring as hell. Every day you try to make a new thread about something that happened to you, and every day it gets more lame.

Lay down and rot.

op. is this real life

Thought bozz was meant to purge these fools